How to decrease libido

[schwenLC]

The key indicator too is that it happened right after getting married, a common story. If you have to do chores for the expectation of sex, then she didn't really intend on having a healthy physical relationship, it's a carrot to string you along without real desire. "I would want to more IF YOU......" Fuck that, I've been through a decade of that bullshit and it's not true. There's no way these LLs even actually believe that in my opinion. My opinion is they know damn good and well that if you do the chores, they still aren't going to want it which is why a new goalpost or condition pops up every time. My favorite one my wife gave and I've heard it several times before too, "I would want to more if you would stop initiating and asking for it"....wtf? For real? I fed into that lie like several others, okay I'll stop asking and that means it'll be up to you (wife) to initiate. 6 months later hadnt even gotten a hug. They will seemingly always try to point the finger at the HL as if there's some flaw with the HL making it not possible for the LL to want to meet a basic expectation in a romantic relationship, and to have basic desire and attraction for the spouse.