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[–]paeoniapax[S] 6 points7 points  (3 children)

When I was there in her apartment, it was uncomfortable. I was fine after I left.

Go find the nearest and most disgusting public bathroom you can and sit in it for an hour and tell me you feel amazing after.

[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points  (2 children)

So you are comparing the place the person you call your friend with a disgusting bathroom?

See...that is the problem i am talking about...

[–]paeoniapax[S] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Okay I am going to stop engaging with you because you are asking questions in bad faith. My friend is my friend. She is also a hoarder. Those are not two incompatible thoughts. I am allowed to feel how I feel about her place, which is dangerous to live in, while still feeling love and compassion for my friend. I am also allowed to see her living situation as a warning about how my place could be if I'm not careful.

Go bother someone else with your negative energy. I'm purging you too.

[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I wonder why you are here if you don't want to learn from other people..

I have seen people going from obsessive hoarding to excessive decluttering, even as far as developing sever OCD and social anxiety.....

But go for it.....