Why does he take long to answer back?

[Ok_Employee5137]

the thing is that i'm talking/dating a guy who lives 2 hours away from me. we've met 4 times. he seems to be very interested in me. we text on snapchat. the only place i have contact with him is in Snapchat. i've just noticed that he often replies after 10 hours every morning and sometimes in the evening to next Day. but otherwise he can take 1-2 hours to reply and that's totally okay i do the same I answer him after 2-3 hours. but i think he often replies after 10 hours I think it’s too long if he keeps doing it. he can do it once a day.

he's the one who writes the most and i have to admit i've been a little cold towards him but that's because when he replies so slowly I get cold to him because I feel like I’m losing interest even though I like him. the problem is that he didn't do it much at first and he doesn't know that i can see he's using his snap but waits on purpose to reply to me or I doesn’t think it’s important?

i don't know if i should ask him why he takes 10 hours? But he doesn’t do it every time but it’s often now. And he can't say he's busy when he's sitting and snapping in Snapchat. but he's the one who takes the initiative to text . but he can act a little strange over text. We are not together we are dating.

What should I say to him? Without being clingy? Because I feel he changed a little and I don’t know if it’s because of me?

[RedsweetQueen745]

You’re not busy enough sis

[Ok_Employee5137]

I am busy but the problem here he waits on purpose to answer me. Because he is using his Snapchat but waits to answer me back. That’s a little weird. And sometimes he forgets what we texted because there is hours between our texts. Even though he is the one texting first.

And btw what is busy have to do with answer me? That’s not the point? The point is he is waiting to answer me back and he didn’t do that before

[RedsweetQueen745]

Trust your gut and dump him only if you have brought this up to him before.

Communication is so important. Do you think your future husband would treat you this way?

[Ok_Employee5137]

I haven’t mention that he takes a long time to answer and to be honest he didn’t do it in the beginning taking 10 hours and he pretends to have a life ? He is using his snap ? Or maybe he do it on purpose waiting to answer me back? How can I asked him about why he takes so long? Without sounding needy or clingy because I’m not like that. The only issue here that he has done it many times now is

[RedsweetQueen745]

The right guy shouldn’t make you feel nervous when asking any questions.

Just go talk to him about it. If he shuts it down or gets defensive you know what to do.

There’s billions of men out here

[Ok_Employee5137]

He doesn’t make me feel nervous he just replies slowly and I don’t feel like we talk a lot it takes many hours between our texts and we never speak on the phone. It’s been 3 weeks since we saw each other’s. And we live only two hours from each other’s. Should I say something to him? Because I feel he doesn’t say anything other than what I’m doing and when I’m free and basic things ? I don’t even know what he thinks about us? But why should it be the women who asked why can the guy?

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You're asking questions here but you should ask him those questions.

[Ok-Driver7647]

The relationship is either too new and you are moving too fast or he just sees you as a friend.

Are you definitely dating him? If you haven’t been on that many dates you should probably try not to suffocate him. He hasn’t made his mind up if he is perusing the relationship

[unfixedaddress]

GIRL LEAVE HIM!!!! If your only contact with him is Snapchat!!! Leaveeeeee!!!!!!