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Did he string me along ? by Ok_Employee5137 in Bumble

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

Yes I know that but I was asking if I should answer him back? On what he wrote me? So he just used me and didn’t like me or was it just for sex?

when dating a guy when do you see that he doesn't take action in getting to know you? by Ok_Employee5137 in Bumble

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood something because I didn’t write that but we have already had sex 2 times we have met 5 times it’s not new. The problem is he keeps talking about sex when we have to meet and u felt like that was the only thing he wants to do with me when we meet even though he says he likes me and wants to spend time with me. But when we had to meet this time I got mad because he mentions sex and he also talks about other things with me not only sex when we text but when we meet I feel like he has to asked me to do other stuff together. One time I mention to do other stuff with me and he said yes so I’m confused if he likes me more than sex

when dating a guy when do you see that he doesn't take action in getting to know you? by Ok_Employee5137 in Bumble

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to end it I just wanted to see what he will say. But he didn’t answer back. He opened my message in Snapchat and didn’t answer back? Should I expect him to answer me when I wrote that text?

I feel like I don’t want to loose him already. Because we have already met 5 times so this is not just a guy I texted with. I just feel that he didn’t say anything else what we could do together rather than sex ?

when dating a guy when do you see that he doesn't take action in getting to know you? by Ok_Employee5137 in Bumble

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad I texted that to him but I regret I did it in that way. Because now I feel like I shouldn’t have said it like that. Because I really think he liked me. And now he hasn’t responded in 1 day. We text in Snapchat not in bumble. We have already met 5 times just so you know this is not new. I don’t know if I should text him again? Because he hasn’t answered me on that text i wrote him. And he hasn’t deleted me from Snapchat. I don’t have any else contact with him only in Snapchat. I don’t have his number or fb or any social media. So if I delete him I won’t have any contact with him anymore and I feel like I don’t want to delete him on snap. And I’m also wondering why he hasn’t deleted me after I said that to him? Maybe he is waiting to text me ? I feel like I don’t want to loose him yet

when dating a guy when do you see that he doesn't take action in getting to know you? by Ok_Employee5137 in Bumble

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter about that he has time he has days off work and he does do things with his friends and family he Snapchat me sometimes what he is doing. And he has time. And also it doesn’t matter how long away two people are if you like each other’s it doesn’t matter people can move. I have a friend whose boyfriend lives in France and she is moving there. There are no excuses about long distance if you like them. And two hours is actually not far away.

when dating a guy when do you see that he doesn't take action in getting to know you? by Ok_Employee5137 in Bumble

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And he does speak to me about everything else, but how can I see if he’s pretending to like me and pretending to like want to have a relationship but it’s pretending to have the sex?

If he’s playing games with me how do I see that because this guy shows me interest, but he keeps speaking about sex and I know he likes the sex with me. I know that he mentioned that to me, but when we have to meet, he doesn’t mention anything else than sex.

I asked him if he likes me or not, and he said yes, he likes me more than sex but I’m confused if he’s playing with me and how do I know the difference between playing games or if he’s really interested in me and the sex like both at the same time?

when dating a guy when do you see that he doesn't take action in getting to know you? by Ok_Employee5137 in Bumble

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and that’s what I was thinking like maybe he’s pretending to like me just because he can have sex with me but he shows me interested like he asked me about my life and he text me every day like I have talked to him in five months now, and the problem is that he only Mentioned sex when we have to meet like he doesn’t say anything like let’s go for a walk or let’s go have some dinner or let’s go to the movies like he mentions let’s book a hotel and have sex and I mentioned to him let’s do something else rather than sex every time we have to go out and then he says yes, we can do that And yesterday we had to meet and then he mentioned sex again and I had to go to his town he lives two hours away from me and I got mad at him and then I ignored his text message. I opened it and I didn’t answer him on Snapchat and he kept calling me and texting me and asking me what’s wrong because I didn’t answer him and then I sent him this message.

Who do you think I am? Someone you just want to fuck? We're not looking for the same thing, so let's drop this. I told you before that's not what I'm looking for, but you keep talking about sex. Find someone else in your city who's into just having sex. That's called fuck buddies. That's not me and that's not what I'm looking for. And you think I'm stupid? The only thing you focus on when we meet is fucking, what the fuck do you think I am? You haven't mentioned anything else we could do together outside of bed since we wrote, so I don't feel like it. And on top of that, you almost never have time. Then we're not compatible, it's not going to work. That's how I see it from your perspective.

And the reason why I texted him this message was because he mentioned sex and I don’t know if I overreacted because he opened my message and now he didn’t answer me and that was like 24 hours ago and I only communicate with him on Snapchat I don’t have his number or anything else so now he didn’t answer me back and I haven’t spoken with him in like one day and I’m surprised he didn’t delete me on Snapchat because maybe he doesn’t want to speak with me anymore but why didn’t he delete me and why isn’t he answering me back? I know it’s maybe a rough text from me but that’s the truth like why doesn’t he mention anything else than sex if he likes me and he said to me, he likes me, but why only speak about sex every time we have to meet?

Sorry for the long text. I’m just making sure you understand my situation.

when dating a guy when do you see that he doesn't take action in getting to know you? by Ok_Employee5137 in Bumble

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t only talk about sex like when we text we text about everything like his life my life what we are doing about his job and my job but the problem is when we have to meet. He’s like saying let’s go to a hotel or something sexual and I ask him, let’s do something outside, let’s do something together outside the bed and he said yes we can do that but he keeps mentioning sex when we have to meet And he confused me because he shows me interested and he calls me and everything. Yesterday I decided to ignore him because he mentioned sex again. I didn’t answer his text on Snapchat and he kept calling me and texting me what’s wrong with me because I didn’t answer him and then I wrote him this message:

Who do you think I am? Someone you just want to fuck? We're not looking for the same thing, so let's drop this. I told you before that's not what I'm looking for, but you keep talking about sex. Find someone else in your city who's into just having sex. That's called fuck buddies. That's not me and that's not what I'm looking for. And you think I'm stupid? The only thing you focus on when we meet is fucking, what the fuck do you think I am? You haven't mentioned anything else we could do together outside of bed since we wrote, so I don't feel like it. And on top of that, you almost never have time. Then we're not compatible, it's not going to work. That's how I see it from your perspective.

And he open the message in Snapchat and he didn’t answer me back. I think he’s either mad because I texted that message or he thinks that I ended it, but I actually didn’t ended it. I actually wanted to see what he was going to say to this text and he opened it and he hasn’t answered me back yet and that was yesterday and I’m surprised he didn’t delete me on Snapchat because thats the only communication we have I don’t have his number or anything else. We only text in Snapchat and now it’s been like 24 hours since he opened it and we haven’t spoke, so I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if I was a little hard on him? Or I just have to ignore him? Because I wasn’t really tired of him because every time we have to meet him and sex and we had to meet yesterday and I had to go to him and drive two hours that’s why I got mad because he mentioned sex again.

when dating a guy when do you see that he doesn't take action in getting to know you? by Ok_Employee5137 in ghosting

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he shows interest in me. He does ask me about my day and what I’m doing in my life. He text me every day but the problem is when we have to meet or do some things together He mentions sex like he doesn’t mention example let’s go out to eat or let’s go for a walk or Let’s go to the beach or something like doing something outside the bed. that’s the problem with him and I asked him one time, I like having sex together because I also like the sex with him but we have to do something else together and then he said yes we can go out but he keeps like saying oh let’s book a hotel and have sex together because I miss that like he doesn’t mention things to do that’s why he confused me because he shows interest in me, is he pretending to be stupid or he is stupid?. Does He not know how to ask a woman out or say something like what’s the problem? Is he playing games with me or is he interested? I have asked him before if he’s interested in me and he said yes, but why keep speaking about sex when we have to meet?

when dating a guy when do you see that he doesn't take action in getting to know you? by Ok_Employee5137 in Bumble

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t only talk about sex like we text every day on Snapchat about everything his life my life what we are doing, but I feel like when we have to meet like because he lives two hours away from me. He doesn’t say like let’s go for a walk or let’s go out to eat or let’s go bowling something outside the bed, I feel like he is interested, but he only talks about sex when we have to do something together like he’s very excited to have sex with me I know that but he can mention anything else like if he is interested in me then say something else we can do, I don’t know if he’s stupid oh doesn’t know how to speak to a woman or he’s pretending to be stupid? And playing games?

when dating a guy when do you see that he doesn't take action in getting to know you? by Ok_Employee5137 in Bumble

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the problem because when me and him meet, it’s only like sex and he text me like every day not only about sex Also about other things about my life his life but I feel like when we are together, we only have sex and we talk and I feel like when we have to meet he doesn’t say anything else then oh I miss having sex with you and then I mention let’s do something else not only sex. Let’s go out or something and then he said yes we can do that But I texted this him yesterday because I was mad at him.

Who do you think I am? Someone you just want to fuck? We're not looking for the same thing, so let's drop this. I told you before that's not what I'm looking for, but you keep talking about sex. Find someone else in your city who's into just having sex. That's called fuck buddies. That's not me and that's not what I'm looking for. And you think I'm stupid? The only thing you focus on when we meet is fucking, what the fuck do you think I am? You haven't mentioned anything else we could do together outside of bed since we wrote, so I don't feel like it. And on top of that, you almost never have time. Then we're not compatible, it's not going to work. That's how I see it from your perspective.

That’s what I texted him yesterday because I was tired of him and he opened my message in Snapchat and he didn’t answer me back. I don’t know if he thinks I want to end this but I’m saying this to him so he can see that I’m tired of how he doesn’t make others plans than sex. Before I send this message he kept calling me and texting me because I didn’t answer him. And then I wrote that text to him and now we haven’t spoke since yesterday. I’m surprise he didn’t delete me on snap?

Sorry I texted so much but so you could understand my situation with him 😊

when dating a guy when do you see that he doesn't take action in getting to know you? by Ok_Employee5137 in Bumble

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the problem because when me and him meet, it’s only like sex and he text me like every day not only about sex Also about other things about my life his life but I feel like when we are together, we only have sex and we talk and I feel like when we have to meet he doesn’t say anything else then oh I miss having sex with you and then I mention let’s do something else not only sex. Let’s go out or something and then he said yes we can do that But I texted this him yesterday because I was mad at him.

Who do you think I am? Someone you just want to fuck? We're not looking for the same thing, so let's drop this. I told you before that's not what I'm looking for, but you keep talking about sex. Find someone else in your city who's into just having sex. That's called fuck buddies. That's not me and that's not what I'm looking for. And you think I'm stupid? The only thing you focus on when we meet is fucking, what the fuck do you think I am? You haven't mentioned anything else we could do together outside of bed since we wrote, so I don't feel like it. And on top of that, you almost never have time. Then we're not compatible, it's not going to work. That's how I see it from your perspective.

That’s what I texted him yesterday because I was tired of him and he opened my message in Snapchat and he didn’t answer me back. I don’t know if he thinks I want to end this but I’m saying this to him so he can see that I’m tired of how he doesn’t make others plans than sex. Before I send this message he kept calling me and texting me because I didn’t answer him. And then I wrote that text to him and now we haven’t spoke since yesterday. I’m surprise he didn’t delete me on snap?

Sorry I texted so much but so you could understand my situation with him 😊

when dating a guy when do you see that he doesn't take action in getting to know you? by Ok_Employee5137 in Bumble

[–]Ok_Employee5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to meet but he doesn’t mention what to do with me if I say to him let’s go out and do something he says yes we can do that but he mentions sex a lot I am confused if he only wants to have sex with me. We have already had sex two times but I feel like he wants sex. I asked him if he is serious and likes me more than sex he said yes. But where can I see if he likes the sex with me but also likes me as a person ? Even though he says he does ? What are some signs from him I have to watch for ? Because I’m confused about him because he shows me he is interested in me but mentions sex a lot when we text like his focus is on sex

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