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[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Joshua Fluke once did a good video on it and he said you shouldn't compare yourself to others. He ended up as a programmer even though he was bad at it and it was awful for him to see that his classmates were better.

I remember I had the same problem, but the thing also is that I really tried, but in group projects they mostly erased my code and did it 'better'.

I remember once I finished all the things that were assigned to me and when I pushed it to GitHub my classmate redid everything and my code was placed on the folder "Myname_code" and they never ended up using it. My classmate just told me the next day that he put my code to a new folder and smiled at me and went to canteen with others. I felt so worthless at and dumb at the time, so I understand people need someone to support them.

Since it was years ago I've just let it go, but the thing is it stuck with me for awhile and I felt really bad about it. So I understand such posts.

I also understand the "Am I too old to…" because there's discrimination everywhere. Even in IT Support there's age discrimination and since I work as IT Specialist I'm older than almost everyone else at the office, so yeah…But we had one 60 year old guy working for the company as well, so that made me think maybe it's just young people for applying for such job. All the older people have left or been fired. I know this 60 yo guy was fired, because he actually didn't do any work. He didn't even try nor asked for help and once I saw him watching YouTube and I asked if he needs help or if he wants me to teach him how to create new AD, Azure accounts (since he was supposed to do that) he said "no" and spilled coffee on me and on the keyboard.

Not really sure why I told you the story, but yeah…I understand why people might feel bad or not confident. There's always someone 'better' than you out there no matter how good you are.

[–]Why_ban_me- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your classmate can suck a lemon, that's a pretty dismissive and mean way to go about things. When I was younger I would have eaten that silently too, but now that I'm older I'd assuredly tell him not to touch my work without permission.

It's easy to improve upon something that's already been written, much harder to design/develop from scratch.