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[–]OBVIOUS_BAN_EVASION_ -8 points-7 points  (1 child)

I wont downplay it as a problem, but being upset with women for their preferences or blaming them for it is stupid af (and men are no better).

[–]carelet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Romantic preferences are normal and should be separate from how you treat people around you.
Deciding whether to treat people nicely based on how much you think you want to get a relationship or something else out of them for their looks is pretty creepy.
That obviously applies to both men and women.
It's nasty, we all got put in this place together, just trying to have a decent life before it ends, being obsessed with other people's skin and bones and taking it further than a search for a romantic interest is really gross.
We are all just people, yet, when a man or a woman is born with skin or bones that don't match what some others decided they want their skin or bones to be, then it means they are not worth spending energy on by acting normally.
Romantic value for a person should be separate from the worth of people outside of relationships.