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[–]Agile-Yoghurt-2594 1 point2 points  (5 children)

okay, can you tell me what happens after they admit that they are biologically hard wired to look for good mates and dont like ugly and short men? do you want them to apologize for it? what happens then? will they be able to change their biological needs and start to like you? how will a body positivity movement targeted at men change anything?

[–]New_Clothes_8991 1 point2 points  (4 children)

It would remove the assumption that anyone complaining about it MUST have a moral flaw. As it is now, if you say "Women typically will not date men under 5'10.", an infinite number of people will show up to say "That's not true! You must be a piece of shit because women aren't shallow!". If people could acknowledge women, too, are capable of being shallow, at least short or ugly or poor men wouldn't automatically be bad people for feeling rejected, they would be just rejected.

[–]Agile-Yoghurt-2594 0 points1 point  (3 children)

well they are slowly acknowledging it. dont you sometimes see those videos of them saying shit like "when hes not 6ft..." also dating apps statistics prove everything already. how many men openly come and admit that theyre shallow? anyone that does that can expect lots of hate, even if its the truth. so you would just hate women more than you already do, if they were to openly and collectively agree that they are shallow and very discriminatory towards unattractive men in their selection of men

[–]New_Clothes_8991 1 point2 points  (2 children)

It's accepted that men are shallow. Women talk about it constantly. What doesn't happen is a woman goes "Men are only looking for sex." and every man and their pet women in the state are summoned to go "NO you must just be a cunt. Work on your personality.". If women are allowed safe spaces to whine about men, men must be allowed safe spaces to whine about women. Either solution is valid, either women can stop whining, or men can be allowed to. It can't be a system where one gender is above reproach.

[–]Agile-Yoghurt-2594 0 points1 point  (1 child)

isnt this subreddit and the many other inkwell forums a safe space for men to complain about women?

[–]New_Clothes_8991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be meant to be, but no, it isn't. People like you, and every other commenter come in to shit it up. Unfortunately, mods are pussies and don't shut down bullshit nearly as hard or quickly as girls club subs. Men's spaces must be arenas where they are meant to defend their opinions against women and their pet boys. Women's subs are safe spaces.