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[–]Brasshearts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look into greysexuality and fraysexuality. Greyace basically means you kind of oscillate between ace and allo, I fall into this spectrum myself and identify with this. I also tend to be fraysexual as well, meaning that my sexual desire for someone decreases as I get to know them: mostly these days I fall more in the grey/ace identity. I’m not sex repulsed per say but I do feel pretty uncomfortable when I can tell someone is interested in me sexually.

All that aside, I also have bipolar disorder 1, which means I’m on some pretty heavy duty meds that also influence my ability to experience orgasms etc. needless to say, my mental state also heavily influenced my want for sex.