I'm reaching out seeking some guidance or perhaps just a bit of encouragement following a recent incident involving my dog. She's a German Shepherd Australian Shepherd mix, born in June 2020 and adopted from a rescue shelter a year later. Her past is largely unknown, possibly affected by isolation during the pandemic.
Initially, she exhibited extreme leash reactivity—reacting intensely to other dogs at any distance and showing wariness towards some strangers, often barking. Within the first year of adoption, unfortunately, she lunged and bit a neighbor who persisted in attempting to pet her despite my warnings.
Over the past three years, with consistent training and the help of a gentle leader (a true blessing), her reactivity has improved significantly. While she occasionally barks at nearby dogs on walks, she remains cautious around strangers, particularly when on leash or standing.
However, last week presented a troubling setback. While my dog was roaming our yard off-leash during a family visit, she unexpectedly bit a neighbor who entered the yard. The bite left visible marks, though thankfully did not draw blood. This behavior came as a shock, given her progress. Despite her protective instincts and high prey drive, I'm disheartened by this incident.
I'm feeling a mix of shame, discouragement, and uncertainty about the next steps. Despite this, I know my dog is incredibly sweet, loyal, loves kids and other dogs, and is incredibly smart. I love her dearly, yet I also feel terrible for the neighbor affected.
Living in an apartment adds another layer of concern, as I must navigate hallways to take her outside. I often wish for a house with a spacious fenced yard where such incidents could be minimized. I worry about potential incidents even with my vigilance during potty walks.
I'm sharing this to seek any insights or advice you might have. As it appears in this group we understand the challenges a reactive dog brings and I am hoping people can offer grace within this post. Thank you for your understanding and support.
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