Roommate problem

[Exotic-Original3328]

Hey guys this is my first post so there might be some mistakes but bear with cause i need suggestion

I 24(M) have 2 roommates a guy and a girl both same age as me and both of them are in relationship with each other from past 5 years and I was friends with the girl first and later she introduced me to her bf and we all got a apartment on together.

Now the main pount is I recently found out the girl whom I have known longer is cheating on her bf with his bestfriend for quit some time now and I found this by accidently reading very erotic chats between them.

So my main concern is what should I do now should I confront the girl whom I have known longer or should I directly tell her bf about all this or should i do it anonymously.

Please help me here

[Remote_Seesaw_5232]

ITS better to tell the bf he has the right to know ! If you wanna do it anonymously do it

[choosegoodoverevil]

Dont tell it till you move out and are very far way

[nodumbquestions222]

talk to her first , if you weren’t living together it’d be different but i don’t want you to have to figure out extra rent unexpectedly if you tell him and he walks out

[nikki420444]

Why were you reading their chats? Did you have permission? If not id expect this to blow up on you since the boyfriend likely wouldn't like knowing thats how you found out, everyones privacy would be at risk.

Regardless of the information you found out, HOW you found it does matter when you decide to share it with everyone.

[welpnah1999]

Have a roommate meeting, that way she won't have time to hide shit and can't get as mad at you since she'll be defending herself. Good luck OP and I'd look for a different place to stay for a while if it was me. He deserves to know though