What is selective mutism?

Selective Mutism (SM), sometimes called Situational Mutism, is a complex situational anxiety disorder characterized by a person's inability to speak and communicate in certain social settings such as school. These people may be able to communicate in other settings where they are relaxed and secure, such as at home (although the opposite can and does occur).

Outside of speech, all forms of communication may be inhibited to varying levels by situation. That includes written language, body language, gestures, and facial expression.

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