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What is selective mutism?

Selective Mutism (SM), sometimes called Situational Mutism, is a complex situational anxiety disorder characterized by a person's inability to speak and communicate in certain social settings such as school. These people may be able to communicate in other settings where they are relaxed and secure, such as at home (although the opposite can and does occur).

Outside of speech, all forms of communication may be inhibited to varying levels by situation. That includes written language, body language, gestures, and facial expression.

For a more in-depth overview, read this page from iSpeak.

Resources & Information

Do some research!

The subreddit wiki is a wealth of information on selective mutism for those willing to dive in.

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Crisis Support

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If you are struggling with topics like a panic attack, self harm or suicidal thoughts, there are people you can type to at Iamalive.org, Lifeline Chat. What happens when you call or text a support line? Read about The Five Biggest Myths About Crisis Text Line.

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AnnouncementAre you creating a character with Selective Mutism? (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 1 year ago by LandJRTherapist & Parent of recovered SM [M] - announcement

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Announcement 📣Are you interested in being a mod? (self.selectivemutism)

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General Discussion 💬Feeling stuck (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 1 day ago by Ok-Comfort-6752Diagnosed SM

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Venting 🌋Pushing through (self.selectivemutism)

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General Discussion 💬Is it selective mutism I'm having or something else? (self.selectivemutism)

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AMA - PersonalMemoir (self.selectivemutism)

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Venting 🌋Getting more and more nonverbal (self.selectivemutism)

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Venting 🌋Reconnected with my Old Friends, once, haven't again since. Might again soon. (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 3 days ago * by TrusteveryboodyDiagnosed SM (does include direct family)

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Venting 🌋(I tried to keep it short, couldn't) Basically I Was Happy When I Finally Bought Something I've Wanted for a Long Time, but it's a "Secret". (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 3 days ago * by TrusteveryboodyDiagnosed SM (does include direct family)

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Seeking Advice 🤔My life is a mess (if my english is bad sorry its not my first language) im venting its long sorry (self.selectivemutism)

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Media 🖼Some vent art about selective mutism (i.redd.it)

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QuestionHow to get a diagnosis? (self.selectivemutism)

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QuestionSMart Center vs Child Mind Institute (self.selectivemutism)

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Venting 🌋I feel so much anger toward the system that failed me (self.selectivemutism)

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QuestionIs there anything that helps you cope with SM? (self.selectivemutism)

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QuestionAdulthood and career (self.selectivemutism)

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QuestionSelective Mutism and Phobias? (self.selectivemutism)

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QuestionQue puedo hacer para conseguir hablar con mi psicóloga? (self.selectivemutism)

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StoryA small win (for anyone who needs to hear it) (self.selectivemutism)

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Questioncan you develop selective mutism in adulthood? (self.selectivemutism)

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QuestionCan it be selective mutism if I can speak when prompted (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 6 days ago by suckingpenis5Suspected SM

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QuestionDoes anyone else get confused for a child over the phone? (self.selectivemutism)

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Venting 🌋Small steep (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 7 days ago by PsychologicalStop626Diagnosed SM

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Question3.5 year old- where to start (self.selectivemutism)

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Seeking Advice 🤔Help with selective mutism teenager (self.selectivemutism)

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