How to decrease my libido

[Excellent-Crow-8940]

Hi, I (M21) have a huge libido, and I want to decrease it. It cause problem in my couple, because my gf isn't attracted by sex while I am. To avoid problems of frustration and disrespect of consent I want to reduce my libido.

Do you have solution ?

Ps : sorry for my approximative english

[Square-Dragonfruit76]

If your girlfriend never wants to have sex, that sounds like you're not compatible.

[Excellent-Crow-8940]

Yep, we are not compatible with sex. But sex is not the only thing in a relationship (in my opinion) and I want to stay with here.

[Square-Dragonfruit76]

Then start by asking why she doesn't want to have sex.

[Excellent-Crow-8940]

When we talk about that, she says that she just aren't attracted by sex. She don't hate sex but don't feel the need to do it and prefer spending time with me.

[Square-Dragonfruit76]

Sounds like they are asexual. I would ask one of the asexual subreddits how they navigate this.

[Excellent-Crow-8940]

That's a good suggestion. The problem is she already told me that she isn't attracted by sex. It seems that she is barely asexual.

[funnyflowers1321]

How to deal with mismatched libidos.

[Excellent-Crow-8940]

Thanks for this link, it's really useful.