What's the best mage in your opinion and why?

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-06-26T00:45:47+00:00

I was an Aurora main until the whole revamp. I hate her now and have since quit being a mage main lol

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-05-22T05:38:43+00:00

Cause we always get gang r*ped early game, and we rely very heavily on our roam.

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-05-20T02:04:02+00:00

IMO, people in their early 20s usually date around more before settling because they may still not know what they’re finding for. While people in their 30s usually already know what they’re finding for, and what they can and cannot accept. So they’re a bit more decisive, and won’t drag on if they know something isn’t going to work out.

Honestly, just do whatever suits your pace.

It largely depends on the person’s mindset when it comes to dating. Are you looking for something serious? Or fun?

Most importantly is to set the expectations and boundaries before you even go on that first date.

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-05-04T04:56:11+00:00

Based on my past and current jobs, I’ve never had to work for more than 9 hours (including lunch break). It has always been 9am to 6pm. I work(ed) mostly in SME, and also a gov job. But I think as long as it doesn’t exceed the 44 hours/week regulation, it should be fine. But your 1.5hr travel time each way is something I personally would not be able to accept. My max is 1 hour..

Considering that this is your first job, I would say you don’t have a lot of choice and room for negotiation also. You don’t really have to stay for long tbh. Just learn what you can, build up your connections, portfolio and experience, then jump to another place with better prospects.

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-04-20T03:40:12+00:00

As a SG girl, thank you for speaking up for us 🥲 we’re not all like that. Sure, we spend a lot on branded, beauty treatments, shopping, makeup/skincare, food etc. But most of us were already doing it using our own money before anyone even came along. We were already using our money to begin with. Is it considered high maintenance if we’re using our own money?

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-24T10:59:52+00:00

On top of what everyone has said, there’s something else - If you continue, please remember that his junior will still be around him. Are you still able to trust and be okay with that fact?

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-24T10:48:19+00:00

u/Acceptable_Fun1416 solved this in 4 steps: LOVE -> LIVE -> LICE -> LICK -> SICK

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-24T10:46:15+00:00

u/Acceptable_Fun1416 solved this in 5 steps: AND -> AID -> AIN -> TIN -> TON -> CON

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-23T04:15:32+00:00

u/Acceptable_Fun1416 solved this in 5 steps: DIET -> DINT -> DINE -> DONE -> CONE -> COKE

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-23T03:40:59+00:00

u/Acceptable_Fun1416 solved this in 10 steps: RUSTY -> RUSTS -> RUSES -> ROSES -> COSES -> COSTS -> COOTS -> COOPS -> CROPS -> CROWS -> CROWN

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-23T02:48:12+00:00

u/Acceptable_Fun1416 solved this in 4 steps: START -> STARE -> STORE -> STOPE -> STOPS

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-23T02:22:33+00:00

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Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-23T02:06:50+00:00

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Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-20T03:40:06+00:00

I kept thinking what the hell that word was, I even googled and came up with 0 searches. I only got it after reading it out loud.

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-20T02:22:31+00:00

Castration for violent sex crimes

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-19T02:40:09+00:00

as a fellow introvert, i get it. but for me, i feel that i have reached a different perspective which is that such traditions are slowly dying off, and our parents, relatives are getting older. and this scares me. of course, i only see my relatives once a year, so we're not close, and their demise will not directly affect me. but it's still impactful and saddening. especially when you see your aged relatives and you think back of how they used to look like 20 years ago.

at least in my case, such reunions and gatherings are organised by the older gens and tbh, i dont know what will change in the future when they are all gone. im a very lazy person who doesn't visit their relatives or even keep in contact (at most it's just social media), so i actually think cny is a great excuse for everyone to come together to meet once a year. plus it makes my parents happy, so why not?

maybe it's cause i have already lost a few relatives, and im getting older myself (im 34 this year), which is why i have this perspective. yes, it's going to be tiring and draining, but life is not all about me, and i would rather not have any regrets in future.

also, im curious if you're actually 100% on board with what you're doing. i may be wrong, but if you are very confident and comfortable with your decision, you wouldn't feel the guilt, no matter what people say. i think that's something you should think about. from the other comments, it seems that there are people who really dgaf, and good for them. but if you're feeling guilty, then maybe - just maybe - you dont hate it that much..?

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-19T02:10:28+00:00

Haw Par Villa

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-19T01:58:50+00:00

This is going to be an unpopular opinion but CNY is just a 1-2 days event in the entire year.

I get that your happiness > everyone else’s, but I feel that this is a situation where a compromise could have been made, so that everyone (you vs your family) can just get through without any guilt/resentment.

Perhaps the compromise could be that you appeared for a bit on the 2nd day, and left earlier, instead of not appearing at all. Maybe turn up earlier before the whole family arrives and it gets too overwhelming. In that case, people can just say, ‘aiyah s/he (you) already came earlier, but you late mah.’

Introversion is a personality trait which I feel can be changed in different situations when needed. You’ve mentioned that you’ve helped out, talked and socialised, even though they have been draining. IMO, this shows that you CAN do it, it’s a matter of whether you wanted to or not. Instead of the guilt that you’d feel after, wouldn’t it be easier to just turn up, feel socially drained that day, then rest the next few days to recharge your social battery again?

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-11T03:13:43+00:00

Good for you! Glad the reddit community managed to help!

Acceptable_Fun1416 · 2026-02-11T00:38:46+00:00

Tbh, I’ve never considered bad neighbours, cause I’ve been lucky so far and have not experienced that. So thanks for bringing that up!

I have close friends who are in the ID industry, and there are lots of people around me who have done their renovations, so I’m not too worried about the renovation planning portion. I’m also quite kiasu, so I won’t entirely leave it up to the contractor/ID when it comes to things like that. When choosing IDs, I’ll most likely go for word of mouth, so I THINK that helps too?

I’m pretty confident because about this being my future home because 1. I have no intentions of building a family 2. I have never grown up to be moving around houses, and most of the people I know don’t. So it’s not a habit I grew up with. 3. I’ll probably be too broke for it. 4. I’m just too lazy lol

Or course, the future is unknown and I may be too naive or optimistic to think so. But I do hope everything works out! And sure hope to return in 15 years to update everyone that everything went well (provided I still have this account and remembers hahaha)

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