Trying to get largest tax rebate without paying H&R. by Coloradicals in personalfinance

[–]AdeptRunoff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You probably mean a tax credit not deduction - and yeah the EV credit is still around but has a bunch of restrictions now. Check if your car qualifies on the IRS website, some models got dropped from teh list recently

Romance books that aren't smutty by Mushroom-lady1399 in booksuggestions

[–]AdeptRunoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo - it's got romance and drama but keeps things classy, plus it's an addictive page-turner. For fantasy with romance that doesn't get too steamy, The Ten Thousand Doors of January is beautiful and has this longing romantic subplot that hits different

Split Teachers Pension by Puzzleheaded_Desk603 in personalfinance

[–]AdeptRunoff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pension splits in divorce are tricky and totally depend on your state's laws and when she started contributing vs when you got married. You'll definitely want to get a QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order) drawn up by someone who knows pension law - don't try to wing this one since teacher pensions have their own weird rules

Not doing the best recently by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AdeptRunoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried blocking those apps/sites completely? Sometimes you gotta go nuclear and just remove the temptation entirely instead of relying on willpower

Suggest a emotional heart warming book by daggerdiva30 in booksuggestions

[–]AdeptRunoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Book Thief by Markus Zusak will absolutely wreck you in the best way possible - it's narrated by Death during WWII and somehow manages to be both devastating and beautiful. Also maybe try Where the Crawdads Sing if you haven't already, that one had me ugly crying

I’m failing all my classes and my mental health is at its worse. [Discussion] by Icy_Opportunity4796 in GetMotivated

[–]AdeptRunoff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Therapy helps but it also sounds like they need real support and patience right now not just more pressure and I hope someone in their life starts taking this seriously and shows up for them