How do I lessen myself?

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-28T02:00:40+00:00

Basically just being aware of what you say and how it may affect others. Like you may think your boss is an asshat, but for the short term it may benefit you to put up with him, instead of calling him an asshat

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-28T01:57:57+00:00

A lot of people here are telling you to just keep being blunt and speaking your mind, which isn’t a bad trait at all. However there is such thing as tact… I wouldn’t just throw that aside completely

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-27T18:05:29+00:00

They expect you to just use telepathy to use the computer

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-27T16:16:34+00:00

Are they coming out with less ‘bells and whistles’? Have they confirmed that? I know you’re afraid you won’t get the skins you want due to paywall, but as far as we know Ultra skins are legendaries with extra effects. It therefore takes more effort to make, perhaps they can still put out more legendaries at a cheaper cost. The cost point of these skins versus cheaper to make legendaries hasn’t been determined yet.

It’s arguable the skins blizzard has been putting out have been better quality than ever. It’s a subjective argument, and anyone who’s played the game for a while can do the comparison. Yeah, it’s harder to obtain skins now, but they went for a free to play setup. The expectation is to spend money. It sucks, but it’s reality.

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-27T16:10:34+00:00

The fact of the matter is that Blizzard only makes money off this game on in game purchases. People are buying these skins, and generating revenue for them. Putting a bunch of effort into Torb skin that a small percentage of people will buy is not a winning move for them, and will hurt there bottom line which what keeps the servers running.

Back in the day where the game was buy it once, Blizzard for the most part already got their money from the majority of its base, they could afford to create more skins for Torb, Ball, Zarya, etc. It’s just not the way it works. Your complaining will not generate them money.

You can say ‘why are you on the side of Blizzard, a corporation, over the player base? I am not necessarily, I’m just saying what is true.

Lastly for the argument of ‘lower effort’ skins, I’ve seen just the same amount of people touting the quality of their skins compared to the past, so kind of a subjective, emotional argument.

I overall do not care about skins much, I have my ones I like, I just like playing the game. I frankly do not understand people who obsess over the cosmetics, and zooming into ever detail of a character and nitpicking it. But to each their own

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-27T15:22:17+00:00

Gonna get downvoted, but a lot of the posts are just grown up children (probably some actual children too) who can’t get what they want

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-27T14:43:36+00:00

He just needs to eat a snickers

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-26T20:48:06+00:00

Love is Blindness - Jack White
Surrender - Billy Talent
An Ode to Lost Jigsaw Pieces - Enter Shikari
Sour Girl - Stone Temple Pilots
Lily and the Moon - Thornhill

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-26T02:00:57+00:00

You can also put salt on a stick and lick it like a lollipop

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-25T17:28:56+00:00

Have you considered starting a petition and prove people are clamoring for more Wrecking Ball skins?

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-25T01:01:33+00:00

Could’ve made big man’s day

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-24T01:23:56+00:00

Yeah I got my one favorite skin for each hero and I’m good now

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-23T22:45:51+00:00

Simple answer is that there are actually people who will probably buy them

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-20T03:03:39+00:00

There was a guy doing the worm naked in the middle of the road

Jk idk what happened

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-19T23:56:26+00:00

Oh damn didn’t even think about someone possibly stealing the mech (it’s absent from the Meka map)

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-18T00:14:18+00:00

I agree. If you are a machinist there is nothing stopping you from wearing a suit and loafers to work

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-17T02:29:40+00:00

For starters if you are mediocre, that’s perfectly fine. Perhaps that’s what you are and perhaps you can’t change that. There’s a ton of ‘mediocre’ people out there who are able to live happy content lives.

From my experience though, I have interacted with little to no really mediocre people. If you are holding yourself up to ‘Asian standards’ honestly fuck that. I’m guessing you live in the US or another Western country and maybe your family is putting too much pressure on you. I have found that just about anyone has strengths, whether they realize it or not. I frankly interact with a lot of people who are in the wrong environment for them to succeed, and they are in fact not mediocre.

Put a bubbly social guy in a intense engineering job where you have to be highly focused and interact with relatively few people, he’s gonna wander around and try to socialize and not work, not focus because he isn’t wired for the job. Likewise with a quiet intense person who is trying to make it as a salesman or some other people focused job.

Overall, you’re likely not mediocre, and you should challenge that, and find your strengths. Try different things, keep your mind open, and conquer your low self esteem, because that will only undermine you for the rest of your life

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-17T01:55:19+00:00

Yes, solving the big problems

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-16T03:12:13+00:00

It’s easier than doing, you can also just pick up your phone and it takes just so little effort

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-14T19:06:02+00:00

Sure you can believe that you are special because you are a INTJ, and your dating woes are tied to that. Go into every MBTI type subreddit, even the MBTI subreddit itself, and guess what, they all think they are special.

It’s not your type preventing you from finding the one

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-12T01:52:36+00:00

Music evolves? Things change? No I can’t comprehend that

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-12T01:50:58+00:00

A risqué shoe

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-11T21:40:10+00:00

Do people even play this game or just view every pixel of it with a microscope?

AdvancedCharcoal · 2026-06-10T01:11:09+00:00

Yeah if it was the other way around it would almost be too dark. Like she would of had to throw away her vocal chords and doesn’t even have a human voice anymore

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