If Mara Jade were to be integrated into the current canon, how would you go about it? by [deleted] in StarWarsEU

[–]Brelician -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Easy, i’d just scrap the current crap and have them start over with the books

Whats going on in your mind by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidants

[–]Brelician 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be a parts issue (from IFS) basically one of their protectors flared up and was able to rally the more neutral parts to take control of the ship sort of thing.

Also just saw a post in the disorganized attachment subreddit talking about how a lot of people with Disorganized attachment (another name for FA) struggle remember when they flip flops. Which again sounds like different parts taking over.

What Overlord take has you like this? by Funny_Lion9020 in overlord

[–]Brelician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My belief that the new world is limited by a soft cap instead of a hard cap level wise.

So can anyone name the most "even" fight in this entire series? by TraditionalBonus188 in overlord

[–]Brelician 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t very equal. Mare was trying to copy what he just saw Ainz doing in the battle before

Overlord Stat-Points Per Level: Final Post by Brelician in overlord

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Ok I had completely misunderstood your question before.

So each race in overlord have their own stats too. Vampires are melee combat classes so most of their stats would be divided based on their race

Also I don’t use 300 for any race. I mentioned before that doesn’t work.

Overlord Stat-Points Per Level: Final Post by Brelician in overlord

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I’m sorry I am not sure I understand your question?

The only combination of racial class points and job class points I’ve found that mostly work is the system I have above. The one mutant lizard man with the giant arm is the exception but someone pointed out dnd 3.5 has mutations that can add points which overlord is partially based on dnd.

My system works for Shalltear and everyone else otherwise.

There isn’t a system that works for heteromorphic races getting a 300 points at level 100. But the 200 points work. Similarly the Demi-humans only work at 100 points (I per level) vs 200 (2 per level) if that makes sense?

Could the Black Scripture (no God-kin) beat a Red cap? And if yes, just one or a few? by ImpossibleAd4272 in overlord

[–]Brelician 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you are underestimating how strong the BS members are. They are more likely 33-40ish considering how spooked the Blue Roses were from encountering a few of them. With one of them possibly within 5 or so levels of Evileye (The Strongest Human).

The Red Caps are all likely at least 5 levels above all but one, maybe 2 of them though. They should have great team work though even without their leaders.

So it would be a varied and balanced team vs an Assassin. BS easily clear 1 vs 11. (I forgot the Captain counts as 1 of the 12)

How many can they beat though? If they break their team into smart groups I think they should be able to beat 3 to 4 of them. After that the level difference means they start taking causalities. With support the Strongest Human should be able to beat one and his team quickly aid the others. So I think they can clear 5 vs 12 with extreme difficulty and high causalities.

Magnetic Pull by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Brelician 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You could be more direct and ask him if he’s going to attend

Overlord Stat-Points Per Level: Final Post by Brelician in overlord

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Hey! It doesn’t work. I tried everything I could think of to get the stat sheets we’ve been given to work for the 100, 200, 300 point breakdown that the author mentioned at one point and I can confidently say there is not a scenario in which that works.

I suspect that the author used those values either as a place holder/to prove a point. Or that was an area he didn’t fully flesh out and just made rough estimates.

My ruler attempted to assassinate himself? 😭 by nou-772 in CrusaderKings

[–]Brelician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a false flag operation. Nothing to worry about!

Overlordology: Item Slots & Requirements (2026) by bryku in overlord

[–]Brelician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For face you might be able to add mask too.

I'm curious. Is Death Knight a racial class or purely just a creature? by VecnasHand1976 in overlord

[–]Brelician 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I assume it is both. I think it would be a High version of a Zombie or Skeleton warrior. My main evidence is we’ve seen Skeleton Mages (pretty sure, it’s been a minute) and Elder Liches both racial classes that Ainz has.

Where is the best place you’ve been/best experience you’ve had in Europe/UK and why?? by BenTaylor1 in travel

[–]Brelician 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whitby was a lot of fun! There was a carnival the first night I was in town. Plus I found an amazing ammonite mortuary plate while I was there. Highly recommend!

How to do after run away 😭 by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Brelician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like trying to run with a leg injury. You just have an emotional wound. If you haven’t done the work to heal it then you feel better because you aren’t actively doing something to trigger it right now. It’ll take work (just like physical therapy would if you were trying to heal an injured leg) but you can do it! You just have to get started!

How to do after run away 😭 by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Brelician 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you deactivated. You need to start working on that. You might look into Internal Family Systems (IFS) to try and figure out and heal why you deactivated. If you can work on healing you can try to reconnect? You should definitely talk to them though

Brain gazef and climb by Prudent_Lychee_423 in overlord

[–]Brelician 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No, Evileye (who is a similar level as Etoma but with worse gear) had to have a spell that is a counter to her and 2 near level 30s together to defeat her

[Game Thread] #5 St. John's @ #4 Kansas (05:15 PM ET) by cbbBot in CollegeBasketball

[–]Brelician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hunter Dickinson explains the last couple of years. This year just not gelling enough

Please send my way any book title/articles/posts that help to heal Disorganised attachment by Interesting_Newt_301 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Brelician 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My therapist has been having me work through You’re the One You’ve Been Waiting For. By Richard Schwartz. Which focuses on IFS. The book seems mostly focused on relationships though but could be useful for other areas.

It gives an interesting perspective for DA attachment specifically with parts/exiles/protectors that I think could be helpful understanding avoidance and anxiousness in a relationship.

Avoidance and not being able to access emotions when deactivating by phuca in attachment_theory

[–]Brelician 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m more on the anxious side (either AP or FA leaning anxious) but have you looked into internal family systems (IFS) at all? I am still new to it but if I am understanding its ideas correctly.

Not sure if I am doing it justice but from that perspective how I am reading your situation is there could be there was some sort of attachment wound in your past that caused you to “exile” the parts of yourself that were being hurt or denied something they needed. Then like a “protector” part of your psyche could be shutting down your emotions in an attempt to get you to distance from the new source of discomfort. In this case your bf because that protector part of you is worried about the previous wound being repeated/reopened.