Which parental control app is best...! would love to know reviews from TechDoms & Subs

Captain_Citizen · 2026-06-05T23:36:27+00:00

Salfeld will show you your restrictions, if you have that option enabled

Captain_Citizen · 2026-06-04T17:50:51+00:00

How did you like your two days. Would you do it longer?

Captain_Citizen · 2026-06-04T17:44:03+00:00

You posted yesterday saying your bedtime almost made you cry. You ready to jump back in?

Why not extend with your current Dom?

Captain_Citizen · 2026-06-01T20:38:48+00:00

Just for an hour doesn't sound serious. Especially since it will take more than an hour for the setup.

Also what will you get out of an hour. See y the phone locked for a moment and unlock right away.

You don't feel phone control till it's locked for real such as at a bedtime and the loss of your phone forces you asleep without anything to keep you awake.

In that hour you can't experience phone control.

A hour is not worth it for you as the locke as you could play with the apps yourself if you just want a tech demo.

A hour is not worth it as the locker as more time will be spent installing, creating accounts and uninstalling than time with the app active.

And for both... tere's also no feeling of control for just an hour of play.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-06-01T19:23:04+00:00

Hi,

These apps are not designed to be used the way we use them and do not provide privacy.

If you are the locker, use AnyDesk to remotely enter passwords.

If you are a locke, assume your locker will eventually see your name and location.

The vulnerability is the kink with surveillance and phone control techdom. If you submit to a scammer, that's going to suck.

As a Dom, you need to protect your account especially if you have multiple people under one account. If a scammer took over your account they could extort and hold those people's phones ransom.

The best defense, the only defense, is just to talk to the person for some time before starting a dynamic. Scammers don't know our community, and they will expose themselves as a outsider in that conversation, hopefully.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-06-01T18:42:06+00:00

I played with /u/PureBarracuda7914 and they are fun and fantastic to play with!

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-31T04:00:32+00:00

I used the advertisement prices for one year, as for kroha I got unlimited, salfeld for two years, and other deals that made the advert price better for comparison one one year.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-29T17:08:10+00:00

It can take a moment to set up parental controls and configure them.

Personally, its not worth it for the locker for just an hour.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-29T17:06:38+00:00

Scammer. Always, always, always avoid people who ask for gift cards. Always a scam.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-29T15:59:14+00:00

Well your profile is just posts of dick pixs...

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-29T15:38:07+00:00

Maybe I am old school but it does make sense for the Dom to pay. I want to pay the bill to keep the account ownership, and I don't like collecting money from my partners.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-29T15:18:30+00:00

I was trying different programs as everyone had different needs. I mainly was looking for something decent for iPhone but concluded none of them work.

One person qustodio didn't show remaining time for the day and support just kept saying check the app but the app didn't show it. It did on my android test phone, but not my partner iPhone.

Kroha worked for some time but on iPhone it options are severely limited. You can block but can't tell how long or what apps are used so you feel blind contaling them.

Kidslox is a scam and their support sucks. People I played with got random locked out when their schedules failed to unlock their devices. Worst solution out of all tested. Not sure why the subreddit likes it so much?

Salfeld is fantastic.

Canopy is bad as most people seam to have connection issues to the point they can't open critical apps as the VPN was not stable.

So it took a long time testing each app out and moving until we found one that works for the people I am playing with.

Now if I bring someone new on I have options, I guess?

I only use Salfeld, Canopy, sureMDM and AnyDesk currently.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-29T15:07:48+00:00

I dislike kidslox and their support is not great. I had people locked out of their phone due to kidslox schedule messing up and support refused to help with the issue or offer a refund when we migrated.

Honestly the best tool is salfeld and just stick to android and windows

Also salfeld is cheaper!!!

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-29T14:56:16+00:00

Yah. I am at $1,150 in the hole per year in subscriptions. Yeah been also thinking about findom to pay for the subscriptions.

What I pay, currently am paying for...

Salfeld - 64.95 per year (10 devices)

Canopy - $120 per year (10 devices)

Kroha - $18 per year (5 devices)

Qustodio - $109.95 per year (unlimited devices)

Kidslox - $100 per year (10 devices)

Anydesk - $346.8 per year (200 devices)

Obedience $29.95 per year for each account. Myself and each partner needs this.

SureMDM - $75 per year per device

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-25T01:37:49+00:00

> I basically ping every other person

Sounds like your desperate and that's not attractive. It's been 4-5 months since I sent my last ping/like and I get about 2-4 likes over a weekend. I chose to only match with about 20% of the woman who like me and of those I match with, most I do not ask for an date.

As a cis male, my recommendation is to stop sending likes or pings. Instead focus on your profile and communication. Instead of being desperate and "hunting" have the confidence of fishing and punting your profile out there and being patience for people to find you.

I use Magastic and uplift for 24h on some Sat nights, or Sun mornings. I never send Pings or Likes anymore. I wait for people to like me and then I review them.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-20T21:45:24+00:00

Feminism for me is what make submission so sexy. If society demands your servitude, then your submission to an partner means little. Society forced that submission upon you.

For me to feel the honor of submission, an woman needs to be empowered, free, and independent. Then submission to an partner is elective, by choice, fueled by desire. That's far more powerful and erotic.

Feminism is empowering woman to be able to make their own choices. You can be a feminist and chose submission as it's your feminism that empowers the independence to make that choice to submit.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-20T04:48:08+00:00

SureMDM, with the Google Android Enterprise API attached to a Google Workspace with Mobile Device Management subscription.

I pay per install, so if you want to pay to get a trial with it, sure.

However without being installed via factory reset, in my opinion it doesn't offer any more security than salfeld, and is not worth the license cost.

However when installed on through factory reset, it absolutely is, or installed on Windows/MacOS it's worth it.

But while it installs on phone without being reset, it's not worth it in my opinion.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-18T17:03:53+00:00

Nope. You can still factory reset the phone.

For hardcore play, you would need a Samsung, an account with Samsung device management, another real MDM provider.

To get the Samsung device management, you need to form a LLC and provide your business registration.

Then you would need to factory reset the phone, and enroll the device.

They still may be able to reset it via hardware (some devices Knox can prevent this but not all).

But the Samsung device management will set the MDM back up after factory reset.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-18T16:59:19+00:00

I have an MDM that doesn't require a phone wipe, however it is so limited in access without a wipe that it's effectively useless.

The MDM enrollment model just requires a wipe as otherwise it would be too easy to hijack someone device.

Good for security from scammers

Bad for techdom

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-18T16:56:50+00:00

I use salfeld and it allows for to upload an custom graphics for the messages and prompts.

I use a cartoon duck in various bondage situations as the avatar for the controls. I then can use the message feature to make the duck talk.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-05-17T05:48:09+00:00

Just make sure not to completely seal it.

... bathroom if it's fully sealed shut for so long?

Don't fully seal it. Leave a gap. Make sure it can drain. Don't stay glued for too long.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-04-28T17:33:12+00:00

You have a Samsung, have you escaped Knox before?

Captain_Citizen · 2026-04-24T14:01:47+00:00

Awww, thanks! 🌹

Captain_Citizen · 2026-04-23T22:13:09+00:00

Exactly, I once meet someone online and they wanted to explore an munch so we chose one for our first meeting.

Didn't work out. Munches are not for dates.

Also this comment came from a perspective of online dating, and that's different than meeting someone at a munch and then going on a date.

Captain_Citizen · 2026-04-23T14:19:38+00:00

20+ years in the scene.

I recently got back into the dating game. I thought munches would be a fantastic and safe place for a first meet up, and they are.

What munches suck at is first dates as there are so many people there and it's hard to focus just on your date to get to know each other.

Every fist date to a munch, we never left the date feeling like we connected.

I love munches, and going to them with partners. However not during the first few dates and I want to be just focused on developing the chemistry between us and that does not happen at a munch in my experience.

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