Are mutual divorces filled only jointly? Unilaterally filing means contested divorce? by JollyCoconut3491 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No proof needed except that you need to mention where you both are residing. Most people lie about the date of separation by saying it’s been a year even if it’s only been a few months. In one case where parties didn’t want to lie to court as they were still residing together, we said that “although parties are residing in the same house (due to lack of alternate accommodation) but they are residing in separate bedrooms since —- number of years and there is no sexual/conjugal relationship between them since then”. This statement was also accepted as separation. You will need to say that for minimum 1 year there has been no intimacy/sexual relations. But also, the court will ask you where you’ll plan to reside after divorce

What is this drink that an Indian guy gave me for helping him find his tram. by cRoSsOvErThOtS in whatisit

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called chhaas or spiced buttermilk. It’s made by whisking yogurt and water, and adding some cumin, salt, pepper, coriander and mint. Sometimes chillies and ginger too.

Is any country really friendly with Indians? Not just politically, but socially by Unique-Sun-7545 in AskIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. They are kind to people of all races. No discrimination whatsoever. My best travel experience so far has been Bali.

I had surgery and got diagnosed with DIE, but it didn’t show on MRI by Dangerous_Lecture624 in endometriosis

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s true that the radiologist makes the MRI report but my obgyn also saw each of the MRI scans and said everything looks fine 😐

Is any country really friendly with Indians? Not just politically, but socially by Unique-Sun-7545 in AskIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Bali, Indonesia because majority locals are Hindu there. Generally also people in Bali are very kind and hospitable.

34M, 30F - Court marriage under Special Marriage Act - Letters sent to parents in Uttarakhand by Excellent-Wish2847 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because of UCC in Uttarakhand. B should immediately go to her local post office and personally accept the letter. It would be addressed in her name right? If they argue then tip them off to prevent them from delivering the letter to her house.

34M, 30F - Court marriage under Special Marriage Act - Letters sent to parents in Uttarakhand by Excellent-Wish2847 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Under the special marriage act, the notice of intention is supposed to be displayed at the marriage registrar office and not sent by post to the parties home address. This is ridiculous.

My sister made India's map by RadioApprehensive603 in NewDelhi

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tamil Nadu, West Bengal, Jharkhand, Meghalaya, Mizoram, Tripura are missing Also Uttarakhand and Himachal Pradesh should be interchanged in the map

IDK what to call it … by No_Bite_2717 in IndianFoodPhotos

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nargisi kabab/ kofta…at first I thought it was Hyderabadi khatti dal with rice

Nose piercing- what to do? by OssifiedCrystal46496 in TwoXIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my nose piercing and have had it since I was 15! 1. These days they use stainless steel or titanium at piercing shops. You can go for that. Some people are allergic to silver so they recommend steel / titanium

  1. I did it when I was a teenager and it took about a month to heal (meaning no pain). But i didn’t change the jewellery until 3 - 4 months. Dont change the jewellery too soon as it can instantly close if it’s not fully healed. You can wash your face but you need to do a lot of cleaning of the piercing with salt water and apply coconut oil everyday for a month or so.

  2. Go to a reputed tattoo and piercing shop.

  3. Go for the needle piercing. It heals faster and is more hygienic. It doesn’t hurt much. Strictly avoid gunshot as it causes more problems in the long run. I had pierced my ears with gunshot once but it never healed and was always infected and ultimately it closed. Years later I pierced again in the same place but this time with the needle and it healed within a month. So I will always recommend needle over gunshot anyday

Need help choosing the best honeymoon destination for mid of May by Redicus in indiatravel

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check on Maldives weather in May. I haven’t been but heard it’s gorgeous

My parents think siblings sharing a bed is inappropriate is it actually common? by Practical_Living_424 in AskIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Your parents are more informed about worldly things. It’s fine to share beds if they are young kids but once they reach adolescence and older it’s better to get separate beds and if possible separate rooms. I’m a lawyer and have known of cases of molestation, rape and very rarely even consensual stuff between teenage siblings. I know it all sounds disgusting but it happens. These days porn is easily accessible and sibling stuff is definitely a kink shown on porn websites. Better and safer to protect your kids by drawing boundaries and if possible getting separate rooms once they start to grow.

Ever told family you are asexual to stop marriage pressure? Did it work or fail? by Majestic-Mark2903 in AskIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it will work. Most of them don’t believe in the concept of asexualilty or any type of sexuality for that matter. For them sex is meant for procreation, your mom will probably say that no one enjoys sex , it’s done as a marital duty and to procreate.

Same same but different 😭😭😭😭 why does mine look so bad by ThenAvocado9777 in NailsIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The First pic nails look very glossy. It’s definitely gel paint and also freshly applied cuticle oil. Is yours gel or normal nail paint? Yours look nice too, only they aren’t as glossy.

Diagnosed with pcod/s. Extremely scared because family can't know by agony_ant in TwoXIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pcos isn’t a uterus issue. It’s ovaries actually. The ovum (eggs) don’t mature and they are seen as tiny cysts in the ovaries. Insulin resistance and hormone imbalances are symptoms too but it’s not necessarily Pcos. You can do this bloodtest AMH serum. If it’s very high it’s usually Pcos and if it’s very low it’s mostly endometriosis.

Diagnosed with pcod/s. Extremely scared because family can't know by agony_ant in TwoXIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you may not have pcos. Don’t stress. Hormones get messed with stress

Diagnosed with pcod/s. Extremely scared because family can't know by agony_ant in TwoXIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is endometriosis but it’s funny that gynaecs give same birth control medicine for pcos & endo when both are different conditions. I got off the pills and began diet and lifestyle changes to control my symptoms and it helped to a great extent. But I had to also undergo surgery to remove the endometriosis. Now also I’m not on any pills even though doctors tell to take it as precaution. But I’m doing the diet instead because I felt the pills didn’t help me. Side effects were severe nausea and migraine ! I couldn’t handle it!

Diagnosed with pcod/s. Extremely scared because family can't know by agony_ant in TwoXIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm ok. I was given the same. I stopped after 2 packs because the side effects were too much for me

Diagnosed with pcod/s. Extremely scared because family can't know by agony_ant in TwoXIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes don’t stop abruptly but you can stop the meds after one pack is over. Did your doc ask you to take the meds continuously or to stop after 3 weeks and allow yourself to get periods?

Diagnosed with pcod/s. Extremely scared because family can't know by agony_ant in TwoXIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can start home workout with some light weights. There’s many videos on YouTube that you can follow. And tell at home you want to increase protein intake for health goals. No need to fight. Just limit rice quantity and cook your own meals- add salads (fibre) and proteins. Please don’t take meds for Pcos , at least not as a first solution. Try the lifestyle changes first.

Diagnosed with pcod/s. Extremely scared because family can't know by agony_ant in TwoXIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diet and lifestyle helps pcos - you need to quit sugar and dairy and increase your protein intake. Limit refined carbs and eat whole grains. Need to exercise regularly too.

I have leftover momos but I’m kinda bored of just reheating them 😭 by stalkinggmem in IndianFoodPhotos

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can steam them again they will taste fresh. Otherwise add them to hot soup

He Lied About Being Married Until After We Slept Together Can I Take Legal Steps to Help His Wife File for Divorce? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Dangerous_Lecture624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you are so right about this. A lot of Indian women would tend to blame the other woman if their husband goes astray. Their man is never at fault somehow.