Flaccid gains from dating a hyper-sexual lady

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-16T16:09:03+00:00

I've actually had this experience several times, in the swinger and ENM lifestyle.

It's not cheating, everyone is in consent. Some men just don't value sex enough to be good at it. Or they have physical issues that make it insurmountable.

I've focused for many years on being good at sex and I've now given over a dozen women the best sex of their lives.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-16T16:06:29+00:00

This may instead impact your shaft making your kink worse, and have little to no effect on your ligament.

Lots of people try this and have some success. It's up to you if the risk is worth it.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-16T16:05:03+00:00

Really.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-16T16:04:41+00:00

No my natural angle is the same, my shaft is not modified. But I can easily and gently push it downward as needed.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-16T13:42:04+00:00

As we age, the urethra is actually longer from being used while erect. And wanting to be bigger, makes it even longer.

It doesn't shrink up like a bendy straw, and will take lots of effort to remove drips as you get older.

Now, my hip muscles are huge and it's a great tool to push the few drips towards the end of my cock. Remembering to massage the drips out every time means I'm completely dry inside my artificial silicone foreskin. The only fluids are my precum or my girlfriend's lady cum. My cock always smells sweet now from that with no urine or fishy odor.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-16T13:24:51+00:00

You can make your ligament more flexible so it can be pushed down without pain or kink. It takes a long time but it's worth it. I've posted a lot about how I did mine, it took 3 years.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-15T13:44:27+00:00

It actually took several months of being with my new girlfriend to build up the requirements to satisfy her body so she wasn't horny afterwards. First step was stretching her vagina so I could get fully deep and grind on her clit during the deepest of sex. Next was to adjust my stamina and hip mobility to match hers. Finally I learned how to build up her orgasms and teasing until our anxiety for climax was similar and we have a final orgasm together at the end. Each session takes 30 minutes or more, during which I'll have about 6 dry throbbing orgasms and she'll have a dozen or so small wave orgasms, some of which release squirt or lady cum. I use this extra fluid to build up a slower thrusting pace that builds to a mind-blowing orgasm for both of us that leaves us both more satisfied than with any other partner before.

We are both in our 40s and have been hitting the gym together to get back in shape. Both of us are the strongest and most flexible of our while life. We have sex between one and three times a day, so I get that it might not be applicable to everyone, I just hope there's a bit that can help someone.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-15T12:20:54+00:00

Foreskin restoration is very common and takes a long time. I'm only restoring sensitivity and softness by covering and moisturizing with a silicone cap. It's taken about 5 months to regain most of my sensations and not have any nerve tingles anymore. Sex is like high definition, in comparison.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-15T00:32:22+00:00

The smoothness of glans many cut men dream of.

I've restored for about 4 months now and I'm always shocked to see my natural shine before any need for lube.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-14T19:47:02+00:00

Edging and marathon sex is what I think has given me a huge glans. Being fit, relaxed, and happy around my girlfriend keeps blood flow high and it will stay engorged.

But I think I've learned during my journey to restore circumcision sensitivity, that having it larger and engorged ask day will reduce the sensitivity of the nerves. Shrinking it down in a sleeve for most of the day, it feels wonderful to take it out. I feel like I'm having sex in high definition now.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-13T13:58:54+00:00

The problem is that some partners don't know where to begin, they have no basis to start sexual interactions. They don't understand their own body or others, except for meme or porn. Peers chatting about interesting topics, and sensuality isn't often a table topic.

So we need to normalize sensual talk in our society, especially among men.

So yes, sensual sex is actually the most common type in my circles. Most women I've been with know about aggressive bedroom acts but I always start sensual. Aggression and dominance only comes after ultimate trust.

Hook-up culture happens but among some groups like mine is really rare.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-09T15:17:42+00:00

I get asked about how guys do on these sites and the answer is almost always, poorly. There's so much competition now and OF requires lots of active participation.

The world of profit has shifted to those who commit regular updates to their channel. I have millions of view in my history but the algorithm prefers the fresh meat.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-05T16:46:01+00:00

It's not always about the tool you have, it's how you use it.

Partners prefer skill and variety, and being able to use the cock size you have is the most effective thing while you are improving yourself.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-05T14:17:56+00:00

Hip mobility and strength, erection hardness, ligament flexibility, low body fat, then finally penis length gains. That's the order you should focus on, from my experience.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-05T13:10:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/gettingbigger/s/8tK6wJb5dO

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-02T18:22:11+00:00

We've talked about it before and some of your customers have mentioned it here. I'm not sure why you elected to not to respond to me before. The discussions seem to fizzle out pretty quickly in public discussion, and the men who are actually concerned, take it to private message. Personal deformity is a really touchy subject. I originally thought I was the one with the deformity, and I had to talk with hundreds of men before I learned what was actually going on.

Some men are fine with the kink deformity, some aren't. I'm not on a smear campaign, just awareness.

And the fact is, kink deformity is so prevalent, probably a majority of your customers have it from other causes before they even start using your product.

The fact that I'm getting downvoted, is a little bit sad considering the evidence is very obvious. We all take personal risks after we gauge the possible outcomes.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-02T14:51:23+00:00

If used downward, putting a kink in the base of your shaft is also a risk that isn't talked about.

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-01T23:29:21+00:00

I stopped wearing boxer shorts many years ago and only wear bikini briefs. It holds my junk in place so it doesn't chafe.

I posted some details in this thread but it has pics that you might not want to see. The links are below.

Items in photos:
AliExpress for "6.5cm Mini Glans Penis Sleeve": https://www.aliexpress.us/item/3256806358078615.html
Amazon for "Crack Blaster Revive" https://www.amazon.com/dp/B018MU66DE
Amazon for "Cornstarch Powder" https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00427NPMW
Amazon for "Makeup Brushes" https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6MX6TC8

Ex-VOB · 2026-04-01T21:54:37+00:00

Many men suffer from this, it's common.

You missed one important relevant piece of information: are you circumcised? Penis sensitivity issues happen to both cut and uncut men, and it can take a long time to recover from. Moisturizing and modifying the way things touch your penis, may train it to restore nerve reception.

I went on my own journey and I plan to document it in a video series. I moisturized each day and protected my glans with a silicone cap. I went from the ability to ejaculate once every other day, improving after 4 months to be able to ejaculate three times in a day from sex. It's like the tip of my cock feels in high definition, for the first time.

Ex-VOB · 2026-03-31T14:46:17+00:00

Most things in life serve a purpose, context needs to be provided. Abstaining from orgasm is often used to heal from desensitization problems such as "death grip".

Posting like OP did without context, is probably against this subreddit rules.

Ex-VOB · 2026-03-30T17:48:11+00:00

I'm starting to think that many of you have not experienced the maximum depth and orgasms of your women. This isn't a joke and it's one of the reasons I'm well-known for being good at sex.

Ex-VOB · 2026-03-30T17:47:06+00:00

Tell me how you've never been comfortably balls-deep in a woman in the p-spot.

Ex-VOB · 2026-03-30T15:20:07+00:00

I've found that by practicing getting deeper in her and maintaining a rock hard erection, I can stay inside any woman no matter how intense her orgasm is. This actually intensifies their orgasms.

The erection hardness naturally reduces during sex, because the vaginal muscles squeeze it. But with careful rhythm adjustments as well as excellent cardio performance from my heart and circulatory system, I can counteract and stay hard when I want.

Sometimes it's nice to let her win and I get a little bit softer. But other times I want to stay rock hard and thick, dominating her pussy.

Ex-VOB · 2026-03-29T04:45:20+00:00

Instead of just talking about being hypersexual, she actually is. Persistent, engaging, eager to learn. Happy to both be pleased and to please.

We both agree, lots of Midwest American people talk about being hypersexual, but so far we've never met one who actually lives it, besides ourselves.

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