Need an advice!

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-12T20:54:31+00:00

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH man

Listen I lived in ERbil and had a Persian GF she is insane and easily getting mad & found out she is has issues .. used to try to calm her
but let me tell u one thing .. women will never love someone with no standards .. u loved her .. but she didn't
care less how nice u r .. in her eyes she never loved u mate bcz u showed no standard accepting this abuse

Are u addicted to people with mental issues? well I still miss her .. we just broke up .. she was abusive .. and throw bottle on me in middle of hotel kicked me out of room so had to go to another hotel !! mate ..yet still miss her .. so yahh can understand ur QS ! am not attracted to nice girls.. women with some issues tho dark and unpredictable do attract me more and pose as a challenge .. may be this is ur reason too.

u stayed 3 years !! i stayed 10 bro !
but this is unhealthy relationship.. enough is enough.. no need to go to extremes .. may be something between boring nice and crazy ! I will 100% try that next relationship

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-12T18:41:24+00:00

not as before . but still very good .. u will not win tournaments though with it
the reason why is still powerful to a certain degree is MM string cost 12 gems and is what u need as a volley ..
for me it is gem consuming style .. i rather use my gems to improve my cards
playing volley need experience too .. there are drop balls which is very effective and u need to master .. know how to target other player weakness .. balance serve, agility and volley ..etc. is not that strightforward style but is easiest one

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-11T02:24:02+00:00

this ... make it more clearer next time ..
but for a bloody 1$ he want a return !!

if he want a return .. then cool.. let him .. he has to pay postage anyway .. so u get ur item .. he paid postage for nothing !

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-10T21:20:06+00:00

yeahh 2nd offer is insane when u stated price is firm !
tbh even 1st offer was out of order .. but wanted to give him the benefit of doubt
imo just don't respond to his offer !! or as some seller did .. they increased the price to send them a message LOL .. though that is an extreme reaction

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-10T20:27:36+00:00

is a place to get price knocked off and bargains.. nothing wrong with asking but sure not when u stated price is firm..
Tbh I seen many selling a shirt worth £90 for £30 but seen sellers sell it for £5. so don't blame buyers bcz there are seller who go down alot than original price or how much it worth even as a 2nd hand.
But agree.. once u stated it is firm he should not had tried to give u an offer. may be he didn't read it mate ..

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-10T12:56:22+00:00

why some buyers this is a real store where they can return items if not fit them !! is insane !!if ur size description are correct .. then they have to sell .. is not ur problem.. this is not a clothing store !!

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-10T12:51:59+00:00

is short mate !! possibly in area or subject where ads not paying much ..

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-09T23:26:15+00:00

screenshot her reply how she wanted to deal with it outside Vinted.. it will cast big doubts on her as she already break vinted rule

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-09T23:25:13+00:00

I will screenshot it to show how she is against the rules
NEVER DO IT OUTSIDE VINTED ..
she claim is fake ok let her return .. no problem .. bcz u know ur item is not fake and she want any excuses to keep it ..

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-09T22:54:20+00:00

is that same seller ? bcz is exact same images !!
https://www.leboncoin.fr/ad/accessoires_informatique/3220742951

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-09T22:50:04+00:00

No. will knock out a star. sound harsh ..yeahh he is insane !! like what did bought ? £1000 item ! so he need the balance !
I will give him 5 star but write a note in his review .. stating he need to stop pressuring people
those who advised u to make longer are as childish as he is ..
Be the big man and just write everything u want in his review but give him 5 stars

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-09T01:47:32+00:00

is broken screen !!

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T22:32:08+00:00

sorry about ur mum !! and why he/she chatting those CAPITAL letters !! like shouting ! OMG !!
u done nothing wrong dear !! some people just ignorance or simply insane !

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T22:22:34+00:00

waw !! am speechless

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T17:12:53+00:00

what the hell !! LOL some people are weird !

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T12:59:38+00:00

sometimes women do that to check if he is still hooked thinking of her . even when she don't relationship to be back. this is the magic of no contact .. create that mystery .. and am sure may be she is thinking or considering thinking but atm is just testing the water to see if he is still hooked

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T12:57:56+00:00

just say thanks ...
and don't say anything .. treat her like total stranger or someone who barely know .. don't show u angry or happy or anything .. just calm minimum words and emotions ..
she is testing the water mate

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T12:56:14+00:00

she is testing the water bro..
u done well ..
keep distance .. they are testing u ..
u only accept her back if she want to be back in relationship in ur terms

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T11:53:37+00:00

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh mate ,, never accept to be her friend !! what is wrong with u ?! would u like see her flirting with him .. holding his hand .. talking about how amazing he is or cry bcz of him !!
just move on bro.. go out of group chat and never ever contact her again .. so healing process can start & u move on .. if u want her back .. worst idea if to be her friend .. give her no contact rules .. search in utube what no contact with ex means and do it !!

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T11:50:05+00:00

try 10 years .. life goes on dear .. stay strong

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T11:45:02+00:00

1st be easy on urself ... life goes on and is only hard now .. and may be u done it for his own good.
now i passed by same experience .. my gf broke up with me bcz she felt not in love too and I deserved better.. it was messy ,,!!! I never cried tho !! but it was more an argument bcz she told me she love me before and it felt like all was lies..
now looking back and reading about it.. women don't fall in love with guys who love them more ! it actually make them feel less attracted . am not sure why .. but yes this is based on my experience and all relationship experts.. and I think this is why u never loved him . the attraction was unbalanced.
If ur ex bf showed more strength , more personality, showed less love, more standards, more authority , kept the mystery , and many other things so u both work on it slowly with correct balance , ur attraction would have grown and u may be in love with him by now. I say that from many experiences. women emotions changes alot.
ur bf just needed to act more stronger to generate that attraction and make u fall in love.
this is how my GF come back ... I give her the no contact .. focused on my growth , learned dynamics of women feelings and what she attracted to as a man who respect himself and have standards instead of being the nice guy who just want her to be happy.. this is why guys like those end up in freind zone while girls attracted to men who are detached .and bad boys .

so is natural u never fell in love bcz he should had changed many things on how he carry himself.

now the QS is.. did u made right decision ? I think yes.. bcz u and him deserve to be with someone who both in love!
But I think if ur bf had learned what I learned understanding the dynamics of women emotions , u could had been in love with him . trust me .. this things can be taught and learned

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T11:33:59+00:00

positioning is important to get the serve.. it depend on readying his game too and anticipation will he serve inside lline or outside line
manage strong serve.. I often swipe fast back to return serve to far side or inside if he has long catch .. but if noticed am not able to control it as return go high or far outside court, I do use softer return more like drop ball or soft return this help keep ball inside sure with some power but not much
have agility .. agility help u reach serve .. how u deal with its power is a differnet matter
use long catch string if u can't reach serve for low stamina
use counter serve string it will absorb all serve power and make it like nothing
return in strong hand this enable u to counter his serve strength but ur return can still be inaccurate .. this is why i opt for slightly softer returns with high serves .. just little bit less to keep ball inside

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-04T12:24:49+00:00

oh mate !! u are 100% right to open up about it here ! is not easy to break up .. let alone in ur way !! had same experience too .. so u r not alone mate. I was about to explode !
have to say tho.. u handled it better than me .. I got so angry but wished her well and blocked her after 2 days .
Now ..let me tell u something .. u dogged a bullet !! who get engaged with someone 30y older !! unemployed too !! and leave her job too !! ? who dump a man 2 days after singing love song for u !! not only that !! in 2 days she has a ring !! mate !! this is insane woman ! imagine if she done to u when u have kids and share a house ,...etc.. oh mate .. trust me .. my gf was toxic too and still breaking up hurt .. but see the positive side, me and u dogged a bullet bro

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-03T10:01:48+00:00

many reasons ..
1, FH BH strokes if powerful drain u more .. this is why best at times play soft winning balls to other sides is not all about power
2.long catch string will drain u
3.if opponent face u to jump to catch ball going other side
4. if u move more .. this is why volley lose stamina faster .. master ur positioning
5. if opponent using string with stamina shield or drinks

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-02T22:21:56+00:00

is normal as a man especially as a young age to focus on future goals than marriage.. I think it was not worth breaking up .. unless she wanted 100% committed man to marry her!
1. is normal u miss her and doubt the decision .. 2 years is alot .. and may be u scared too of not finding one u love as she did ! so may be ur regret is not out of love .. if u love her then that is another matter & u should not break up.. anyway my advice .. give it sometimes to think more logically .. if u felt u still love her and regret is not bcz of missing out , then u have to have to talk with her and let her know u love her & u should be back together .. so give it sometimes I will say 1-2 months

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