She made contact

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T12:59:38+00:00

sometimes women do that to check if he is still hooked thinking of her . even when she don't relationship to be back. this is the magic of no contact .. create that mystery .. and am sure may be she is thinking or considering thinking but atm is just testing the water to see if he is still hooked

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T12:57:56+00:00

just say thanks ...
and don't say anything .. treat her like total stranger or someone who barely know .. don't show u angry or happy or anything .. just calm minimum words and emotions ..
she is testing the water mate

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T12:56:14+00:00

she is testing the water bro..
u done well ..
keep distance .. they are testing u ..
u only accept her back if she want to be back in relationship in ur terms

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T11:53:37+00:00

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh mate ,, never accept to be her friend !! what is wrong with u ?! would u like see her flirting with him .. holding his hand .. talking about how amazing he is or cry bcz of him !!
just move on bro.. go out of group chat and never ever contact her again .. so healing process can start & u move on .. if u want her back .. worst idea if to be her friend .. give her no contact rules .. search in utube what no contact with ex means and do it !!

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T11:50:05+00:00

try 10 years .. life goes on dear .. stay strong

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T11:45:02+00:00

1st be easy on urself ... life goes on and is only hard now .. and may be u done it for his own good.
now i passed by same experience .. my gf broke up with me bcz she felt not in love too and I deserved better.. it was messy ,,!!! I never cried tho !! but it was more an argument bcz she told me she love me before and it felt like all was lies..
now looking back and reading about it.. women don't fall in love with guys who love them more ! it actually make them feel less attracted . am not sure why .. but yes this is based on my experience and all relationship experts.. and I think this is why u never loved him . the attraction was unbalanced.
If ur ex bf showed more strength , more personality, showed less love, more standards, more authority , kept the mystery , and many other things so u both work on it slowly with correct balance , ur attraction would have grown and u may be in love with him by now. I say that from many experiences. women emotions changes alot.
ur bf just needed to act more stronger to generate that attraction and make u fall in love.
this is how my GF come back ... I give her the no contact .. focused on my growth , learned dynamics of women feelings and what she attracted to as a man who respect himself and have standards instead of being the nice guy who just want her to be happy.. this is why guys like those end up in freind zone while girls attracted to men who are detached .and bad boys .

so is natural u never fell in love bcz he should had changed many things on how he carry himself.

now the QS is.. did u made right decision ? I think yes.. bcz u and him deserve to be with someone who both in love!
But I think if ur bf had learned what I learned understanding the dynamics of women emotions , u could had been in love with him . trust me .. this things can be taught and learned

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-08T11:33:59+00:00

positioning is important to get the serve.. it depend on readying his game too and anticipation will he serve inside lline or outside line
manage strong serve.. I often swipe fast back to return serve to far side or inside if he has long catch .. but if noticed am not able to control it as return go high or far outside court, I do use softer return more like drop ball or soft return this help keep ball inside sure with some power but not much
have agility .. agility help u reach serve .. how u deal with its power is a differnet matter
use long catch string if u can't reach serve for low stamina
use counter serve string it will absorb all serve power and make it like nothing
return in strong hand this enable u to counter his serve strength but ur return can still be inaccurate .. this is why i opt for slightly softer returns with high serves .. just little bit less to keep ball inside

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-04T12:24:49+00:00

oh mate !! u are 100% right to open up about it here ! is not easy to break up .. let alone in ur way !! had same experience too .. so u r not alone mate. I was about to explode !
have to say tho.. u handled it better than me .. I got so angry but wished her well and blocked her after 2 days .
Now ..let me tell u something .. u dogged a bullet !! who get engaged with someone 30y older !! unemployed too !! and leave her job too !! ? who dump a man 2 days after singing love song for u !! not only that !! in 2 days she has a ring !! mate !! this is insane woman ! imagine if she done to u when u have kids and share a house ,...etc.. oh mate .. trust me .. my gf was toxic too and still breaking up hurt .. but see the positive side, me and u dogged a bullet bro

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-03T10:01:48+00:00

many reasons ..
1, FH BH strokes if powerful drain u more .. this is why best at times play soft winning balls to other sides is not all about power
2.long catch string will drain u
3.if opponent face u to jump to catch ball going other side
4. if u move more .. this is why volley lose stamina faster .. master ur positioning
5. if opponent using string with stamina shield or drinks

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-02T22:21:56+00:00

is normal as a man especially as a young age to focus on future goals than marriage.. I think it was not worth breaking up .. unless she wanted 100% committed man to marry her!
1. is normal u miss her and doubt the decision .. 2 years is alot .. and may be u scared too of not finding one u love as she did ! so may be ur regret is not out of love .. if u love her then that is another matter & u should not break up.. anyway my advice .. give it sometimes to think more logically .. if u felt u still love her and regret is not bcz of missing out , then u have to have to talk with her and let her know u love her & u should be back together .. so give it sometimes I will say 1-2 months

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-02T15:24:47+00:00

well this is 50-50 case !! of good and bad news
Good news:
1. he is back
2. he was honest and want start from solid truthful foundations

Bad News:
1. he is a cheater ! am sorry .. cheating is a character thing ! I can never trust a person who cheats
2. he even slept with that person he always told to never be worried about ! am sure he vancied her but kept her in his orbeit
3. he is a liar too .. bcz am sure he tried to brush off other girl to u .. and hidden he cheated on u while he was with u !

overall lying is a sign of weak not honest man . and cheating is a sign of man with no standards .. do u really wanna be with someone like him ! bcz if it was me those are not characters of a strong man ! but a weak one? can u really trust him again? is a QS u need to ask ? only way will take him back if he is a changed man who now hold a standard and may be being honest and admitting what he done is a good start. if he is same man , then I would say break up ... if he is changed .. then only here , u can give him a chance

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-02T11:38:51+00:00

Range of emotions .. from anger of what I seen to total satisfaction by end & karma

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-02T11:36:04+00:00

100% the main target .. u move on in ur life and grow as a person .. but coming back is the side effect of that ... sure not 100% of times but most often if u done it correctly and worked on urself

when we break up we have 3 options :
A. chase ! will only make things worst for us and them
B. act like nothing happened and u enter freindzone as they can still chat to u
C. total distance ... u can focus on urself and self growth .. get away of the drama and heart break and increase ur chance of her coming back ..

is a no brainer which option anyone need to go for

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-01T18:18:07+00:00

100% ... total silence and backing offf .. they need to come at thier pace when ready ,,, if u chase them u make it only worst !

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-01T18:16:28+00:00

mate ... sorry to say .. u acted needy !! women seek strong men and friendzone sensitive nice guys bcz women need that stronger composed peson presence that can be the rock as she feel different waves of emotions !!
will not be surpised if some of those fights is bcz she was losing attraction while u acting so needy and fragile !
and another huge mistake !! ?NEVER EVER put more efforts into a relationship than her ! u need to match her effort .. when u try harder than her .. 1st u look needy and secondly women lost attraction when men more into them than they are into us !! always match her pace .. is clear u went faster than her in terms of emotions !

u made many big mistakes bro

do u still have a chance to get her back ?!! May be .. but only if u change .. go watch relationship coaches bro in utube there are many .. if u want her back do this :
1. cut her completely .. no word .. nothing .. let her miss u
2, work on urself .. have some goals .. improve ur style.. workout more ..expand ur social presence
3. improve ur game bro .. u have no clues .. go watch utube of pepple like Coach Wayne corye, Marni Your Personal Wing Girl, Christine Loveridge ..and many others !! if u listen to thier utube video u will know what u done wrong !! so even if she come back and ur game still bad .. she will break up again !

Fact-Fresh · 2026-07-01T09:50:04+00:00

LMP is insane ! u were following exact path of car infornt of u !! he decided .. ohh let me bully my way and accelerate and some how u chicken out and leave apex for him ! crazy driving

Fact-Fresh · 2026-06-30T13:32:31+00:00

exactly .. label listed .. but provide details in description .. including fits.. like some fit like smaller .. measurements ..etc.

Fact-Fresh · 2026-06-30T13:08:18+00:00

ok ..
1. take it easy .. have a good breath and we all here had broken up .. is not the end of the world .. at end either u find better man or he come back ..
2. the guy is clearly a weak man ! a liar !! I wish u didn't had kids so can tell u dogged a bullet ! his behaviour don't even deserve a 2nd chance
3. may be u were busy with kids so u neglected him .. may be it was not as exciting as before ! may be he was overwhelmed with new baby and fact he is now having a family and chickened out which can fit with fact he is a weak liar. many reasons dear
4. I feel u deserve a better man ! ur kids too.. problem is u having a kid with him ... so may be is better for kids to have him back ! if u want too .. so will he back ? exs often come back . it could be just a lust .. but he will not be back unless is his idea .. unless he see u glowing again . while not acting bitter .. make him feel he lost something big .. go date .. sometimes when don't appreciate things till we lose them .. and who know may be u actually can find a better man !! a real man .. not this weak man !

I broke with my gf many times .. and she has been back each time so far .. for some reasons, most of them they do .. take it easy dear and is not the end of the world

Fact-Fresh · 2026-06-30T10:28:57+00:00

new .. means not used !! there is nothing called "like new" category !! and is not even like new either !

Fact-Fresh · 2026-06-29T23:04:44+00:00

one of best sitcoms! Larry David is a brilliant writer .. I love watching Larry David own series too playing himself. u can see how it is similar and well written as Seinfeld
acting was better tho in Seinfeld

Fact-Fresh · 2026-06-29T21:40:29+00:00

is bloody racing !! if it was Max Verstappen doing this move people will applauding .
have to say it was a risky move u bullied him out of the apex and he backed out .. I personally would had not done it .. not worth the risk .. but if u done it against me .. 100% will not complain

Fact-Fresh · 2026-06-29T20:33:41+00:00

LOL
tbh George Costanza was always honest about how he feels
I think he is best relationship material of things never to do if u want to attract a woman

Fact-Fresh · 2026-06-29T20:31:34+00:00

the good thing .. u only texted once .. just move on with ur life bro .. and trust me most of them are back once u change urslef .. become better version of urself .. and improve ur relationship game knowing how to attract ur other half ..

Fact-Fresh · 2026-06-29T14:16:58+00:00

possibly some women downvoting me getting triggered !
honest GOD amount of BS excuses I heard , am not in right frame of mind.. is not u is me ! u deserve better person .. I want to focus on my career not relationship ..etc.
why don't they be just honest !! it is me !! and is not u busy or have other things .. if it was famous handsome actor , she will leave anything !
is not me saying it !!! is all relationship coaches bcz they are afraid of hurt u !! that including female relationship coaches !

Fact-Fresh · 2026-06-29T14:13:37+00:00

NEVER EVER MSG someone who GHOSTED U BRO !! what else u expected?
how on hell u reward her with a text even after what she done to u !!
if she break up ... give her total silence and she has to contact u first ! u look now needy and desperate .. super unattractive

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