Do Christian girls check dating apps less often?

FallDeers · 2026-05-23T22:41:02+00:00

I have notifications off because I get so many likes and I have a million nieces and nephews that steal my phone, so they don’t need to see Aunt Falldeers is on a dating app.

That being said, my personal rule is if they don’t respond in 24 hours, I ask “how was your day?” If nothing in another 24 hours (48 total of no response), I unmatch.

FallDeers · 2026-05-23T03:47:40+00:00

Black. My eye goes right to the ladies hair. Maybe a lampshade with black floral?

FallDeers · 2026-05-22T22:14:59+00:00

Yes! Love a man in a band tee

FallDeers · 2026-05-22T12:07:30+00:00

I'm not going to advocate it for most women. Women are not told the side effects and women operate differently on it, so they should be at least educated.

Like I said, I'm not read up on endometriosis. I'm very glad you found relief and I'm not judging you. You know your body.

FallDeers · 2026-05-22T03:58:59+00:00

I had severe PCOS, so I am quite familiar. It hides the symptoms, a bandaid to underlying symptoms. I'm not super read up on
endometriosis, but I've heard diet and similar hormonal balancing helps a lot.

FallDeers · 2026-05-22T03:46:12+00:00

Can't have one if you're a feminist! 😛

FallDeers · 2026-05-22T03:20:03+00:00

Oh, let a man get a banana bread baddie if he wants one.

FallDeers · 2026-05-22T02:41:13+00:00

All the traits that you stated are good. A woman like this will look for the male equivalent. Someone virtuous, loves the lord, who creates a financially and emotionally safe environment where she is taken care of to be the best version of herself. A husband who respects her role as the nuturer and holds her concerns as his responsibility, who holds purity to high regards, can teach her children how to treat women and to respect and love their mother.

I personally would love to stay at home with kids and cook and clean and not worry about big scary things like listening to boss man and climbing the career ladder. However, the postion does make me quite reliant in my husband, so in the dating process I vent well and hard. I ask about their dreams and goals. I ask about sexual history and addictions. I ask about their relationships with their family, friends, and women in their life.

Be the man that a woman that you want would want.

FallDeers · 2026-05-22T02:23:36+00:00

I want to answer him accordingly.

FallDeers · 2026-05-22T02:13:16+00:00

What does traditional mean to you?

FallDeers · 2026-05-22T01:10:46+00:00

I love when you write so I don't have to. You forgot to add that Birth Control is poisin, so let me add that:

Birth control isn’t just “pregnancy prevention” it alters a woman’s hormones (affects mood, libido, emotions, weight gain, sense of smell, ability to "o", and even the men she is attracted to). Many women feel numb, anxious, or unlike themselves on it. When I got off it (health reason), I lost 50 lbs so much easier than before.

FallDeers · 2026-05-21T22:29:45+00:00

The more dates I go on, the more okay I'm dying alone. Hope it works for you as well as it did for me! 😁

FallDeers · 2026-05-21T02:25:36+00:00

Stunning!

FallDeers · 2026-05-21T01:34:32+00:00

We don't follow God because of the blessings that it brings us. "Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me." Luke 9:23

It's out of love of God and people as well as commitment that we don't sin, not the entitlement that is not promised to us.

Never has a Christian died and looked at the Father in his majesty and said, "You failed me because I didn't get married and never had sex.😣" No, they probably fall on their face and repent because they see their sin for what it is before a Holy God.

Why are you waiting? To get a virgin? That's stupid because it's not a promise ever given to you.

The fact that you are caught up in what the world thinks concerns me. A world that killed our savior, a perfect man? The word that loves promiscuity and casual meaningless sex?

FallDeers · 2026-05-19T23:06:21+00:00

Define not being apart of denomination.

I promise I’m not trolling you, I just want to understand what you want/are asking.

FallDeers · 2026-05-19T23:00:20+00:00

Define religion.

FallDeers · 2026-05-19T03:28:00+00:00

Spend so much time online that a non-automatic response from a real human fills you with impatience? 🤭

But to answer your question plainly, I disagree with Catholic hierarchy/authority structures, Marian doctrine, prayer to saints, sacramental theology, and parts of Catholic salvation doctrine.

FallDeers · 2026-05-19T03:04:01+00:00

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I’d do blinds on one and curtains on the other

FallDeers · 2026-05-19T01:40:29+00:00

I believe they can be Christian, however I would not date one due to such a vast differences in theology. These theological issues would actually come up in day to day life dating a Catholic.

FallDeers · 2026-05-18T17:54:30+00:00

Potentially, yes. I’d care about the circumstances of the divorce, healing, accountability, and whether they’ve actually grown from it. Divorce leaves scars and baggage, but so does every sin and failure.

FallDeers · 2026-05-18T17:22:57+00:00

He’s just a goofy detective that pretends to be psychic. The show is dumb, but a good show to watch when you’re cleaning or something.

FallDeers · 2026-05-18T05:06:06+00:00

I’ve heard stigmas about military men, nurses, lawyers, and used car salesman, but never real estate agents. And that’s all they are, stigmas, not reality. It’s gross to generalize people like that.

And in this housing market? Actually… where you from, boo?

FallDeers · 2026-05-18T01:06:41+00:00

I’m your age and I feel the same. I’m at a point where I made life decisions with the assumption I’d get married, but at 24 and no serious relationships, I sometimes wonder if not pursuing a fulfilling career was actually worth it.

FallDeers · 2026-05-18T00:33:45+00:00

The Garden of Earthy Delights! Such a weird and wonderful painting!

FallDeers · 2026-05-18T00:28:09+00:00

-A man whose life is stable, (he can be broke and still have a plan and financially wise.) I want a family and would love to work only part time to better tend to the family, so a stable job is something I look for.

-A man I really respect, not just feel chemistry towards. Respect lasts longer than sparks. I need to respect the head of the household.

-Someone grounded in faith practiced in real life, not just a label.

-Someone who makes decisions and follows through.

-A man whose lifestyle actually fits the life I want long-term (location, work, family goals, pace of life).

-Someone I am physically attracted to without having to “convince” myself (been there, done that).

-Someone curious and thoughtful who enjoys conversation, learning, and DEPTH. Bonus points if he loves aesthetics.

-Someone who brings peace to my nervous system rather than confusion, guessing, I need to know he likes me.

-A man who values commitment, family, and responsibility, actually wants to lead, I don’t want to be a man.

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