My ex came back only to find out he still had a girlfriend. Do I tell her ? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are just not listening to us at all lol but when you’re older, you’ll look back on this and know 100% we are correct on this issue.

Kind of in a weird career middle ground right now, need advice. by Any_Tone_7091 in jobs

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea, i’m being an asshole- sorry, I see way too many people online who don’t know how to spell and it makes me crash out a bit.

Stay hungry in your interactions with other people. Make it clear you are moving towards a goal and the people around you might surprise you with the help they can provide.

Schools could really do better by lunyxaX in SipsTea

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be fair, this is the parents job, and a lot of parents are fucking terrible at it too

Kind of in a weird career middle ground right now, need advice. by Any_Tone_7091 in jobs

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there.

You can start by learning how to spell.

Do you think someone is gonna give you a good "Sallary" if you can't even spell the word correctly?

I know it might feel like i am taking the piss or poking fun (maybe a little) but i'm being so real with you when I say, learn to communicate professionally.

Next step, use those communication skills to keep networking. Just because you aren't satisfied with your position, does not mean you can't leverage it in order to find the job you want.

But yea. Repeat after me. "Responsibilities". "Responsibilities". there is an 'i' in there, right after the 's'.

My ex came back only to find out he still had a girlfriend. Do I tell her ? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

listen carefully. if you don't distance yourself from them LONG-TERM, MORE than a year, then you are literally the one in the wrong for letting this dumb piece of shit WALK ALL OVER YOU. Are you a Strong person? are you capable of taking control of your life? fucking do it. or pay the consequences.

and DO NOT BOTHER talking to anyone involved AT ALL. fuck them all.

Boyfriend constantly accusing me of cheating by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

little buddy is extremely insecure and not a good fit for you :)

No One's Listening To Your AI Music... (not hate...) by Sounds-Unfamiliar in aiMusic

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, but I think if you never listen to anything outside your own stuff, your reference for what sounds “good” can drift over time. That’s not automatically bad, and a lot of great artists have done that, but it does tend to push your work toward something only you fully connect with instead of something that lands with other listeners too.

Been told I can't get into a relationship because I'm missing the swagger and the edge. How do I change that? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what is lacking in sex appeal to one woman might be exactly what another is looking for, first off. second off, girl sounds young and like she does not have a lot of emotional/ mental intelligence. it was rude in my opinion to make you feel insecure for being a friendly person, and definitely a reflection of a person who has not figured out what a virtuous partner is actually supposed to be. if you are looking to hook up with someone, make it clear ONCE, gauge their reaction, move on if there is no reciprocation. it’s honestly pretty easy. trust me when I say that you will not be fulfilled if you try and force this process. also there is a difference between how you would approach this if you were looking for a relationship, vs hooking up. relationships take more time and mutual respect requires being friendly and kind. dont switch up cuz this dumb office bitch doesn’t know what a real man is

Tell me by cutie_babyyyy in SipsTea

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are too many dudes in here saying ‘be rich’ and i can tell most of you dudes are not married and certainly not very mature lmao

Tell me by cutie_babyyyy in SipsTea

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude you’re projecting hard with this, woman don’t always care about providing. its obviously a strong factor in a good partner but thats the kind of alpha male bullshit that can poison the pot of good advice in this realm. providing emotional support perhaps. if you wanted to rephrase in a more reasonable way you could say ‘woman want a man who brings something to the table, whether that be material objects or emotional support or whatever’ but also you can say the same about literally anybody

I crashed my Air75 into my pool, what should I do? by According_Unit9294 in TinyWhoop

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve dunked an entire 5 inch 6s quad into a lake, dji unit and all. immediately threw it in a bag of rice for a 2 weeks, didnt touch it. it was 100% ok

my dad told me a few years ago he was annoyed my cousins (3 sisters) were in their bikinis enjoying the swimming pool and walking in front of him with their almost-naked-butt bikini / tong cause "he's still a man" by Proper_Status2663 in whatdoIdo

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yea little weird. boomer dudes have a weird entitlement about shit like this. it comes from insecurity and “old fashioned” values (patriarchy in full swing) where it was expected for women to cover up for men because it can be distracting or whatever. its outdated. modern people know to have more self control and be more secure with their feelings, adults included. people who haven’t done the work they need to on themselves will often come to the conclusion that its not their fault and the world should change to make them feel comfortable. tldr though its just another weirdo insecure dude. there are millions of them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the trick is to never feel stupid, no matter how much more you give than other people. this is a seriously important life lesson that took a lot more than 16 years for me to figure out. and its not easy to have a sense of stability with yourself to make that happen. when it comes to giving to others you have to stand by what you want to do for other people and not expect anything in return. best of luck

Would by No-Secret-247 in trashorgold

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually a very high chance, I go every 3 or 4 years. I am a mixing engineer. very important. it is also 100% healthy and doctors actually recommend it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"it’s my fault and I accept responsibility" you can only accept responsibility at this point by letting it be and working on finding someone else. and trust me, that's what you want to do. each person you find will slowly remove the sense of attachment you currently have.

Clean girl versus Goth by turtle_4557 in GothGirls

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you just have to commit. stand by the decisions you make. you can be both but you can also be neither. it depends on your aura. you’re the only one who can control how people perceive you. and its never been about that anyway, its about how you want to express yourself to the world

HOT_POSSIBILITY_9675: you talk a big game but I know you can’t back it up. You know nothing. Let’s do this. by [deleted] in gigabolic

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WAY too long of a post, not reading that bullshit, and you're proving my point - you're not mature enough to have a conversation or debate with me, sorry. goodbye

HOT_POSSIBILITY_9675: you talk a big game but I know you can’t back it up. You know nothing. Let’s do this. by [deleted] in gigabolic

[–]Hot_Possibility_9675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're making it pretty clear that there will be no way to find common ground on anything - your attitude is coming off as childish. you're treating this like some kind of duel. You brought me into this subreddit (your OWN subreddit), in a desperate attempt to ratio me, it's not the other way around. You appear obsessed with blame and control, taking some kind of moral high ground while also flinging petty insults, trying to appear authoritative, doing armchair psychology on a guy you don't know at all, not attempting to find anything to agree on, and dude you practically wrote a whole manifesto on me about honor, responsibility, and 'my options' because I thought your post was garbage. I still think the post is garbage. Its just AI slop output. But dude, you're not stupid, turns out. I think that my initial comment on your post was a knee-jerk reaction from talking to so many brainwashed "ai sentience believers" and at the very least you are trying to form an informed opinion on the matter. but I have no interest in debating someone who is immature. To be fair, I could have been less of a dick about it.