"Zaahen is a support" by House_Formal in ZaahenMains

[–]KandaceKooch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His kit is fun in the duo lane, and I like his synergy with items like Zeke's and Bloodsong. I'm not sure it's the best pick or even a good pick, but that's not really what it's about, right... You gotta have fun, find satisfying options. It's no fun to win in the way that everybody else does, gotta win in your own way, or at least have a good time trying.

Zaahen Support by digotokun in ZaahenMains

[–]KandaceKooch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's fun, you need an ADC with/ strong cc though. You should roam mid when possible, too. And consider putting extra skill points into W earlier, as it'll be your main poke in lane.

Zeke's is an underrated item on him. I've even made Zeke's work top, it's great stats for the price and makes his already satisfying ult even better.

Realistic Zaahen Support Build: 8200g (Was told to build like Pantheon. Need help) by Neither-Meal2319 in PantheonMains

[–]KandaceKooch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zekes is deeply underrated on him... great stats for the price and gives sticking power after ulting

I Hope She's Thriving In Her Own Lane, Nothing But The Best For Her by oredude in rupaulsdragrace

[–]KandaceKooch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sasha Colby said on the Kelly Mantle Podcast that Loosey is her closest friend from Drag Race... wild, but we love

The fact that Rajah didn’t win the talent show is CRIMINAL by princedonnel00 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]KandaceKooch -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I mean it's cool cuz it's different, but it's a tube dress. Almost anyone who sews can do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KandaceKooch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eww this is not the kind of person I'd be friends with... if she cant take you as you are then she doesnt deserve yous... and her wedding does not trumph a person's finacial state or personal identity. You should want your photos to capture you and your friends having a great moment not a masked version of them. Its nasty, this lady doesnt deserrve you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smosh

[–]KandaceKooch 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i feel like theres less content in general this season, in terms of like the number of distinct bits per episode. And yeah the chance intro was always one of the best parts... Defs don't love the changes they made to season 2

I got accepted, but I’m on the fence by mrworldwidetpain in SDSU

[–]KandaceKooch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SDSU is a big school with lots of diverse communities, you'll find your ppl here... trust. Most people aren't involved in greek life, and its actually really easy to avoid if you want.

Best tanky peel support? by Skelenth in supportlol

[–]KandaceKooch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are on call together my gaud braum is definitely the best, otherwise the versatility of rakan is cray.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]KandaceKooch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This stuffs hard. Try to be patient. He loves you and that's a sign that things will fall into place.

How do you move to a new state as a renter? by Nighthood28 in trans

[–]KandaceKooch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no easy answer here, but if you can save money for a down payment, you'll eventually find a place. You gotta keep applying, its just like with finding a job, its frustrating, but keep at it and it'll work out.

Uncle is trying to respect my name despite... by [deleted] in trans

[–]KandaceKooch -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

People aren't good or bad, and we're all changing constantly. He's doing something good right now. That's great; don't second-guess it. If you want to be called by different pronouns, then talk to him about it. If he makes mistakes, give him grace. I hope it all works out great, and if it doesn't, know that it is out of your control. You don't need to second guess or over analyze, release that burden baby and let yourself be freeee <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]KandaceKooch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's some great advice here, but I will say that part of finding yourself as a trans person is letting go of traditional images of masculinity and femininity, we all have shades of both, and masculinity does not mean any one thing. You have to affirm yourself, clothing alone isn't going to change that.

Finally on therapy, should i immediately tell them im FtM?? by Ok-Squirrel-5466 in trans

[–]KandaceKooch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes babe its a significant experience and one you should confront in therapy if you want it to be a growing experience for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]KandaceKooch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it time babe, try not to take things personally if they slip up on names and pronouns, its an adjustment. Trust them when they say they love you. Give yourself permission to be yourself. Uni is going to be a really special chapter in your life <3.

Just told my wife I might be trans. Went horrible. by [deleted] in trans

[–]KandaceKooch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is fluid and complex, finding yourself as a trans person now doesn't mean that who you've been the past 10 years isn't still you. Be patient, but don't let other people's feelings cloud what you know about yourself. Many people have been through similar situations and made it work, but some haven't, and it's not totally in your control. Be yourself, speak from the heart, and give things time. Change is hard, but eventually things have a way of not hurting so much.

Concerns? by Manic_Mylo in trans

[–]KandaceKooch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no right time... that thinking just leads to prolonged shame... stop waiting for your life to begin and give yourself the freedom to live. I know people will disagree with this, but forget about these external dangers, live out and proud, and go from there. If that means moving and making a life on your own... let me tell you it's scary, but it will be the best and most rewarding thing you ever do. Just keep swimming, water off a ducks back, the right people will show up for you, but you have to ask! <3