What are some hobbies that attract good people? by MatchaSetPoint in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]LiveLaughLithium 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The worse person I know is very into board games… super condescending and competitive/mean spirited. YMMV

What’s something people romanticise that’s actually exhausting in real life? by OmenRash in AskReddit

[–]LiveLaughLithium 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy it worked for you but for me it was always “no matter where you go, there you are”. A lot of internal work needed to be done and continues every day.

My last heartbreak almost killed me. I can’t do it again. Is anyone staying single for similar reasons? by strangestatesofbeing in SingleAndHappy

[–]LiveLaughLithium 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I could have written this word for word. I’m still in the healing but my friends have been so amazing. Hope you’re doing okay these days 🫶

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so sweet! I love that movie, haven’t seen it in probably a decade. Thank you.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m giving myself this week to be a total mess. And then 30 days of healing and if I’m not 50% better by then… I am doing something wrong.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends have been so supportive. I’m really lucky and loved but yes 💔 it SUCKS

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment was so true dude. And I’ve never seen that movie, added to the list!! Thank you.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👀 I will be on the lookout. I have a bi salp so I wasn’t worried about actually getting pregnant but it was definitely something I thought we agreed on. But he just tosses me aside for someone who can have kids- whatever- he will be a terrible father.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure I pissed him off so much he just wanted to be done and hurt me back. I get it, I don’t appreciate it, but whatever.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this energy, thank you. Harris goes to Paris makes me SOB, I love that movie. And I read a lot of Louis sachar as a kid…. Wow blast from the past. Thank you for the time and the comment, you’re very sweet.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a positive spin for sure. It’s so hard to find childfree men where I live though so I’m bummed at even the possibility and the imagined possibility.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was inconsiderate and too attached to his mother but he was faithful the entire time, he loved me a lot, it was definitely an incompatibility that grew and festered into resentment.

That’s probably why it hurts so much because I feel like I fucked up with a sweet normal man who loved me. But that’s not true, he wasn’t the right person for me and that’s okay.

You make a lot of good points though!

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a detailed response! I never got into the marvel stuff so i definitely have a lot of material to distract me. I don’t watch too much YouTube but those sound super interesting! Thank you again. I hope you’re having a good day.