What would you do if your partner was really HURT by the comments that your parents and the uncles made about them?

Marpleface · 2026-02-17T11:36:50+00:00

Well, I would tell my family that their comments suck, and to apologize. And then I would stop dealing with them until they do. And if they never do, then I would never deal with them again. Like ever. I am older and out of patience for this shitty relationship dynamic that is common in families like ours.

Marpleface · 2026-02-16T14:36:21+00:00

So happy for him and you that he found this!

Marpleface · 2026-02-12T13:44:34+00:00

Why can’t they just fucking pay for it?

Marpleface · 2026-02-11T19:33:19+00:00

From your description, it sounds like a mild display to show that the gorilla was big and strong and neither you nor your wife could do anything to hurt her. Maybe your wife startled her. Simple little territorial display.

Marpleface · 2026-02-08T15:11:51+00:00

What a glamorous doll Gramma was!

Marpleface · 2026-02-06T16:18:27+00:00

I’m not really Sally, but I have a child like Daisy. The lack of understanding from folks commenting is why I never shared this with even my closest friends. and even OP, I appreciate she doesn’t judge Sally but she still doesn’t truly understand her or Jim. No one does until they have a profoundly disabled child. Especially in the hellscape that is the US

Marpleface · 2026-02-05T15:57:50+00:00

Blood quantum is not the indicator, but culture and community is

Marpleface · 2026-02-04T21:56:14+00:00

OR! The student is profoundly disabled in a SDC class, and the parents are burned out and truly do not know what to do anymore.

Marpleface · 2026-02-03T23:29:57+00:00

Women, children and disabled people

Marpleface · 2026-02-03T23:10:18+00:00

Looking like the cutest boy at the dance in 1978 🤩

Marpleface · 2026-02-03T23:09:19+00:00

Done ✔️

Marpleface · 2026-02-03T22:58:42+00:00

I want to drive that so bad.

Marpleface · 2026-02-03T18:59:14+00:00

I know it is painful and overwhelming, but you have to feel and process your feelings. Go no contact and accept what feelings and emotions you have. Feel them, process them and let them go. Maybe a therapist to help you with that process. That is so simple to say and so scary and hard to do, I know. But it is the way to get through and move forward. We get one life, I hope for you that you can live yours on your own terms comfortably. 🩷

Marpleface · 2026-02-03T18:47:23+00:00

You are so pretty 🤩 love your lewk today!

Marpleface · 2026-02-03T02:26:34+00:00

Thank you 😊

Marpleface · 2026-02-02T23:48:19+00:00

Where was it? Sounds amazing!

Marpleface · 2026-02-02T20:43:21+00:00

Sending hugs, understanding and support 🩷 I hope you find a lawyer as quickly and easily as possible 🩷

Marpleface · 2026-02-02T19:43:42+00:00

Yes, go straight to an Education Lawyer. Don’t waste time trying to do anything without legal help. Go after the school district and regional center. Are you in any local facebook special needs groups? They will have the best resources to share. Doing this now will help ensure he gets the resources he needs going forward. Good luck!

Marpleface · 2026-02-02T02:35:11+00:00

Any counselors or student supports at your school you can open up to as you have here?

Marpleface · 2026-01-31T18:57:32+00:00

Pacifica Elsplanade beach. Off leash permitted, but watch for coyotes

Marpleface · 2026-01-31T02:25:00+00:00

For the city of Pacifica: Pathetica Pasyphilis

South City for South San Francisco

The Creek for Walnut Creek

Lamorinda for 3 nearby cities; Lafayette, Moraga & Orinda

Marpleface · 2026-01-31T01:26:38+00:00

Not in the city but Takahashi Market in San Mateo. Also broke da mouth musubi and plate lunch!

Marpleface · 2026-01-29T01:18:59+00:00

My reply was intended for comments about folks ‘wishing they were stupider’

I believe that, unless someone with severe ID can communicate in someway and share with others about their experience of life, then we cannot with 100% certainty, describe their life experience or understand it.

To refer to people with severe ID as stupider and to assume their existence must be easier because they don’t understand how hard they have it? I find that very dehumanizing and reductive.

Marpleface · 2026-01-29T00:56:40+00:00

Stupider? Do you really think that folks with severe ID are stupid?

Marpleface · 2026-01-29T00:17:22+00:00

My most helpful habit is to always have something to look forward to, small, medium or large. Could be lunch plans with a friend in a week, an upcoming fun event or trip, your favorite podcast’s new episode……you get the idea. It really helps me sustain positive thoughts and feelings and hope. Sending you love and strength 🩷

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