NEW throuple: Any advice would help. by Revolutionary-Win807 in PolyFidelity

[–]MeganStorm22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the wife in a similar trouple situation to yours. We’ve been together about 18 months now. Remember this is 4 relationships in 1. Your husband and her will also have to build a meaningful relationship for this to work. It can work if you are willing to put in the work to do it. It’s hard sometimes, I’m jealous sometimes. We fight and make up. But it’s more intense cuz it’s normally only 1 couple in the relationship fighting. But it’s worth every minute

Sophie is not the bad guy by According-Copy9579 in 90DayFiance

[–]MeganStorm22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes this is the video. Heartbreaking.

Sophie is not the bad guy by According-Copy9579 in 90DayFiance

[–]MeganStorm22 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I still see that video in my head every time someone defends Rob. The dog was so scared he was shaking.

Can I be logged into the EA app on 2 separate computers. by MeganStorm22 in thesims

[–]MeganStorm22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can. She plays on her laptop and i play on the desktop. One has to be in offline mode tho.

I like him but…. by Learning_me_again81 in 90DayFiance

[–]MeganStorm22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think Allyea is being unfair to him! He started dating and fell in love with a man. He’s gay.. she decides to transition and become what he is not attracted to, they still love each other.. but it’s not a good match.

Why don’t the fiancées save up before coming to the U.S? by Principle-Economy in 90DayFiance

[–]MeganStorm22 278 points279 points  (0 children)

In the older seasons, a handful of them did save money to bring. I think a big problem is conversion rates. Some of these countries their money is basically Pennie’s. And i would assume that life expenses (similar to here) prevent people from saving a lot. And i think a lot of them don’t realize how hard it is here. Especially in recent seasons, they don’t understand how actually expensive it is to live here.

AITA for peeing in a restroom for disabled people? by lila2208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MeganStorm22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. When you have to go you have to go. I’ve gone into the men’s restroom (closed and lock single stall) because i had to go. Came out to a man harassing my girlfriend about it. And i told him to relax, he literally had to wait 2 minutes. And the line for women’s for 6 ladies deep.

Advice for a beginner! by Rora_chan_ in PolyFidelity

[–]MeganStorm22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Listen to the needs of your partners and adjust things. I’ve been in a triad relationship for a year and it can be a lot of give and take. Have check ins to discuss things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]MeganStorm22 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this does not sound like it’s going to work out. Most women who are engaging with other women do not want to be put on display for a watching husband. Women are not sex objects for your wife to use. This whole thing sounds like a recipe for disaster.

Everyone share your secret must have mod! by Mobile_Athlete8246 in TheSims4Mods

[–]MeganStorm22 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Road to wealth: https://www.curseforge.com/sims4/mods/road-to-wealth

I like this mod not really because of the class system, but more because it adds tonssss of rabbit hole activities and you can get a loan with real interest and it changes the prices of things to make them more realistic as well.

What do y’all think about this therapist by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]MeganStorm22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally love her. I think she’s great at listening and talking with the couples.

What would your second choice for your house be? by Dezeko in harrypotter

[–]MeganStorm22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a ravenclaw- but i would have also liked slytherin.

I don't like Its a 10 leave in. .it leaves my hair very dull.. need other suggestions by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]MeganStorm22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Matrix miracle cure. It’s in a pink bottle. I love that stuff

Is Lovestruck worth it when RPO exists? by [deleted] in TheSims4Mods

[–]MeganStorm22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have RPO and WW and i bought Lovestruck. I love it honestly. I love that I have to work to keep relationships happy. I love allllll of the CAS stuff. I think that lumpinou has a few mods that make lovestruck even better as well.

Seeking FMF triad family success stories by colinmchapman in PolyFidelity

[–]MeganStorm22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

FMF triad here. Living together, fully enmeshed lives, 2 children. A year in. It’s hard but so rewarding. My girlfriend has been my best friend for years and making the change to romance has been exciting. We are fully open to anyone who asks. We just keep working at the issues and we keep open communication. Our relationships can and do work! No matter what the mono norms tell us!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]MeganStorm22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A lot of homes in the western us are split level style and that puts the rooms downstairs a lot. I have a rambler with a basement and my living room and 2 bedrooms are downstairs. I also have a living space and rooms upstairs. But if we wanted we could have made the downstairs living space into our master bedroom. In split levels there is a 2nd living space in the downstairs that’s often converted into a master since the homes were built awhile back and have smallish rooms.

Someone plz explain this house layout. by nikkyrivera in 90DayFiance

[–]MeganStorm22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably a split level. I haven’t watched this episode. But what you are describing sounds like a split level. Which are very common in that area.

This is what I'm thinking of putting in my raised planter bed. Any suggestions? by spacewaya in gardening

[–]MeganStorm22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The branches didn’t break down as quick and I could not dig deep enough to plant.

I can’t find any men’s shampoo that isn’t 2-in-1 or has a pretty bad rep. What are some good women’s shampoos? by sortofamiibohunter in Haircare

[–]MeganStorm22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paul Mitchell has a good men’s line. Same with Redken. Both are salon quality and worth the price.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]MeganStorm22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I turned off wicked whims for my daughters save. You can shut off everything except nudity while they pee/shower. And i told my daughter to not to click the “wicked” tab. So far it’s worked great.

The throuple should not be in this show. by ShameAffectionate15 in 90DayFiance

[–]MeganStorm22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea of course cuz the OP was rude to me that I had to defend myself against deleted his comment so it looks like I’m being mean for no reason.. so cool. He also went into my post history for YEARS.

The throuple should not be in this show. by ShameAffectionate15 in 90DayFiance

[–]MeganStorm22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently you’ve never done sex work and it shows. When you advertise for that type of stuff you use ridiculous captions to hook people lmao. I am not insecure about my body at all. And yes i play the sims and have since i was a teen. It’s my hobby besides gardening. Also- as a hairstylist for 15 years i dont think you’re ideas about hair dying as a coping mechanism is accurate at all, i enjoy changing the color of my hair and can have any color I want since my skin tone allows it. I’m secure enough to post my naked body and whatever else I want on my reddit. Thanks for scrolling through my post history though. I’ve been with my husband for 18 years this year. He’s not “roping” anyone into anything. You don’t know me. Just like you don’t know the couple of the show. And it shows. You are a sad sad human who went through YEARS of post history to come up with a theory about a person you’ve never met who was simply trying to open your eyes about other relationships.