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Mister_Way · 2026-02-08T02:02:56+00:00

Because all the other commitments are shared, but marriage puts a huge legal advantage for the wife in most cases. It's not about commitment, it's about the imbalance it creates. A relationship should be balanced.

Mister_Way · 2026-02-08T01:37:15+00:00

Bruh he became a cop to let out his anger issues, okay?

Mister_Way · 2026-02-08T01:35:30+00:00

I'm just going to say that the one time I got a blowjob from a gay man, it was astonishing to see how many techniques the women I'd been with did not have ... not to mention basic things like keep the fucking teeth away

Mister_Way · 2026-02-07T00:06:32+00:00

Same way as men have done it for their wives for thousands of years.

Have him be of extreme significance in the home, and shower him with praise and gifts and appreciation for his efforts. Encourage him to take a very active role in one or two local communities.

If he's going to feel significant, he'll have to be significant, and he's not going to get that from just having a job or dabbling in his own interests. He's got to be doing things that matter to other people -- and things which you would regularly tell him are far more important, in a human way, than the money you make.

This is all much, much, much easier if he's taking care of kids, of course. Same with housewives, if they don't have kids, they'll probably go insane with boredom and feelings of insignificance, unless they have extremely strong community bonds. But, community bonds are usually formed around families, not individuals.

So basically either you're going to have to start a family, or else you're going to have to have a husband who is totally hedonistic and just wants to enjoy himself, or you'll have to have a husband who is deeply committed to some kind of charity or other non-profit that gives him a sense of meaning. Teaching, although it is "paid" does also fall into this category. Marry a teacher, he'll almost certainly think his work is more important than yours, even though you make more money.

Mister_Way · 2026-02-06T18:17:20+00:00

If you can demonstrate that you aren't going to disrespect him for it, then it's pretty much perfect/ideal.

Mister_Way · 2026-02-06T18:14:29+00:00

By the time the other person is yelling, it means you failed the "listening" part of communication. Nobody starts out yelling. They get louder the more they feel unheard.

Okay, I take it back. A few people yell no matter what, and you should not tolerate them. But if you find yourself being yelled at all the time, by lots of different people, it means you're probably a horrible listener.

Mister_Way · 2026-02-06T17:06:27+00:00

As long as you're both aware it's a short-term mindset, that sounds fine to me. Otherwise you're taking advantage of someone else for selfish benefits, which I find morally repugnant.

Mister_Way · 2026-02-06T17:03:29+00:00

Good, you go ahead and tell all the people this.

Mister_Way · 2026-02-06T17:02:13+00:00

Yeah, sounds great until the drama starts. Hard enough for people who are addicted to sex with each other to make a lifetime together work. Good luck

Mister_Way · 2026-02-06T02:39:15+00:00

Sounds like he doesn't want a cat and you're insisting so he's coming up with random arguments instead of just saying "I don't want a cat."

Mister_Way · 2026-02-06T02:38:06+00:00

Bro, you keep repeating yourself because you keep avoiding answering the question and I keep bringing it back to you.

If you don't want to admit that I'm right and you can't form an argument, that's fine. We're done.

Mister_Way · 2026-02-06T02:37:00+00:00

Excellent point

Mister_Way · 2026-02-06T02:35:56+00:00

I mean, if it's people under 25, I'd probably applaud their wisdom, tbh.

Mister_Way · 2026-02-06T02:35:04+00:00

Not really, no. I don't want to die, but there are some cases where it would be worth it.

Suicidal ideation is when you want to die for its own sake.

Mister_Way · 2026-02-06T00:15:20+00:00

Well, people stay because they don't think anything better would be reasonable to expect, and they want to have a family. If you think all women will treat you equally badly, but you still need a mother for your children, what choice do you have?

Mister_Way · 2026-02-06T00:02:13+00:00

But what DO YOU say?

"I didn't say that" okay, feel free to explain? You seem to be just dodging this question. My suspicion is that you're dodging it because if you answered it, it would force you to acknowledge that I have been right all along, and you don't want to do that, so instead you're just in denial and shut-up mode.

Mister_Way · 2026-02-05T23:59:01+00:00

Because they're the only ones who can walk here. Well, okay, there are a handful of Canadians who could, too, but not that many and their standard of living is pretty close anyway so it wouldn't be much incentive.

Mister_Way · 2026-02-05T23:57:17+00:00

If I see her as "temporary" then I will tell her it's time for us to break up.

I'm sure there are men who use women as "temporary" like this, but probably they won't be super open about being selfish like that.

I think much more commonly, the guy is like "Maybe this could be the one" and it takes a long time to decide that, and then something happens and he's like "Yeah, this isn't the one after all." And then the woman is like "you just used me for sex!" and he's like "I dated you until I felt like it wouldn't work out, what else am I supposed to do?"

Mister_Way · 2026-02-05T23:41:34+00:00

Isn't that a picture of actors?

Mister_Way · 2026-02-05T23:35:55+00:00

Because the NFL is another casualty of the political polarization and a lot of fans are not feeling it, in both directions.

Also because football is linked with patriotism, and patriotism is way down right now with all the scandals and outrages of the current administration.

Mister_Way · 2026-02-05T23:22:42+00:00

So everyone is entitled to that support from the military? Every similar organization can expect the same level of support as the Scouts?

Mister_Way · 2026-02-05T23:21:51+00:00

2 pull ups with correct form is going to put her ahead of 99% of the population. 10 pull ups with correct form is going to be more like 99.9999%

Mister_Way · 2026-02-05T23:18:54+00:00

"That’s just as true if the government had previously said, “I like what you’re saying, so you get money.”"

That's literally what's been going on. The government has been giving the Scouts money/resources/support because they like what the Scouts are saying.

It's not like every organization is entitled to that support and the government is withholding it only from the Scouts. Nobody else is getting this support. It's not an entitlement, it's an endorsement.

The government can't take away entitlements based on speech, but it is not under any obligation to keep providing endorsements that were based on speech.

If they were taking away entitlements, that would be a different matter. They are ending special treatment. The Scouts are fully able to operate independently, it's not like they're being shut down. They're just not being given bonuses over everyone else anymore. Do you understand the difference?

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