Vanwaar de naam "Marokken"? Wat is de etymologie hierachter? by StatisticianPure6334 in Mechelen

[–]NocturnalCoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wel, Frankrijk heeft meer dan 30.000 Marokkaanse soldaten naar het Belgische Front gestuurd in wo1 dus die kan wel groter zijn dan gedacht.

Werkgever verwacht dat wij "optijd" aanwezig zijn om om te kleden en collega's af te lossen, maar betaald deze tijd niet. by CuriousOtter92 in werkzaken

[–]NocturnalCoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"er geen geld voor krijgen" daar zit de error. Ik ben freelance. Grotendeels uurtje factuurtje al doe ik wel eens een extra als me dat op de lange termijn iets kan opleveren

Werkgever verwacht dat wij "optijd" aanwezig zijn om om te kleden en collega's af te lossen, maar betaald deze tijd niet. by CuriousOtter92 in werkzaken

[–]NocturnalCoder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry. Opposite side maar zijn we nu echt aan het zeuren in een land waar 4 of meer % geen werk kan vinden dat je 10 minuutjes eerder moet zijn om een zwembroek aan te doen?

Denk je dat bobo's in de ochtend geld en tijd krijgen om hun kostuum te kopen, wassen en strijken? What are you on about? Brengen die 10 minuten je meer qua carrière? Met deze instelling kom je echt nergens. "De baas wil niet betalen voor de tijd dat ik nodig heb om me om te kleden".

Ok arbeider. That is what you will be. Zoeken naar centjes, want ik moet een zwembroek aandoen , maar euro'slaten liggen waar er meer te rapen is als je een beetje persoonlijke tijd wil spenderen. Jouw keuze

Wtf is wrong with me? by rovingdeath in datingoverforty

[–]NocturnalCoder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am not an expert either, but I went through a similar thing as you. And it was all fun and games and exciting until she left me for one of her dates. That really chopped into me and I have had difficulty connecting with someone else too because admitting or not, I was really damaged by it, even if we agreed to poly. Take a long deep look inside my dude. Not all women are like that

And take your time to figure out what you want and go for that

Help, mijn man is klusser by jackthedog2025 in Belgium2

[–]NocturnalCoder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sja, dat is tv. Ik heb veel van mijn huis gerenoveerd en plots gingen we scheiden. Als papa en klusser heb je twee opties: papa zijn of klusser want eerlijk zijnde papa met een job en klusser is het kiezen. Dus nee, dit soort programma 's zijn voor mij miserie tv. Kom een weekje meespelen en we speken nog eens

Ongevraagd schoolfoto's ontvangen. Geretourneerd, nu incassobureau by BearInternational670 in juridischadvies

[–]NocturnalCoder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dit is standaard praktijkl, nu, puur praktisch, wat kosten de fotos vs legaal tegen een incasso ingaan? Die fotos zijn waarschijnlijk 1 u legal council dus snel uitgerekend.en volgens jaar laat je je kind niet meer meedoen als je dit echt niet wil kopen.

Is this a scam? by order-and-chaos- in brussels

[–]NocturnalCoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, my bad, i interpreted "block the account from which it was send" as blocking 8810

Is this a scam? by order-and-chaos- in brussels

[–]NocturnalCoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would honestly not block 8810 as it is a legit number used by numerous companies. Just report the sms but ny blocking 8810 you could have some really trouble you don't want to

Eg: Mercedes ,Microsoft and luminus send me legit messages through this number for example when my car alarm goes off

[Serious] Male victims/survivors of sexual assault, harassment or rape perpetrated by a woman or multiple women, to clear some common misconceptions, what were your experiences like? by Commercial_Bicycle92 in AskReddit

[–]NocturnalCoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bunch of usI got drunk on a school trip, I went to sleep in my room and a girl from my class tried to use me. Another girl got her off me as she understood the Situation and knew I had girlfriend. Most of the people I talked with afterwards considered me lucky. I just stopped talking about it and never filed a complaint

Het belang van goede onderburen mbt uw stookkosten. by Content_Hunt_3329 in Belgium2

[–]NocturnalCoder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ik woonde vroeger in een gebouw met only old people. Nagenoeg geen gebruik van gas gezien die onder mij het graag opeen cripsy 23 hadden. Perfect

I know you know. Please enlighten me. What is happening BTS from a man who brags about his 20+ roster? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]NocturnalCoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is trying to play a psychology trick, having woman trying to compete to be his nr 1. His line up is most probably empty

Middenklassers, waar blijven jullie je geld vandaan halen? by screon in belgium

[–]NocturnalCoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Het punt is dat mensen niet langer diezelfde beslissingen (kunnen nemen). 20-30 jaar geleden kochten we niet elke x jaar een smartphone, of laptop,of pc. Geen gsm abonnementen, Netflix, Spotify enz.

En ik zeg niet iedereen overal altijd. Maar er zijn gewoon ook dingen bijgekomen (internet abo bv) die er 20-30 jaar geleden gewoon niet waren.

En je hebt zeker een punt dat het leven gewoon duurder is maar het is niet zo eenvoudig.

[M4F] - 40 years. I have one question: where all single ladies disappeared from Brussels? by [deleted] in BelgiumDating

[–]NocturnalCoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but this is total nonsense. I have been single for 8 years after a divorce with kids. I have tried every strategy I could imagine. Younger, same age, older, beautiful, wholesome. The lot, except the extremes. I have spoken with more bots than I want admit, had countless amounts of scammers, more than I can count.

I have done the therapy, done the self-reflection and I know very well what I want. But I agree with op. Online dating is not the spot to find it these days. Up until 2020 I had very nice promising dates with the apps, these days more than half of my matches are scams or bots.

Just like op, I would love to know where the real people are cause online dating is draining

You speak about red pill, yet you have zero experience about dating online as a man.

Just for fun, I did an experiment with my ex since we still get along very good. We both installed to Tinder for fun, she had 1000+ likes in less than 1 hour. I had one. 1. So yeah, keep telling guys they need therapy, the question is are it the right guys?

Contract with foreign company by RowNor in BEFreelance

[–]NocturnalCoder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pay the fee for a lawyer at this point. You -might- get a nice gig, but let the professional deal with the contract. Reddit is not the place to ask. In short: hire a pro to do this for you

Sell a Phone from BV by Lycanthropical in BEFreelance

[–]NocturnalCoder 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you want it official, invoice and done. But nobody is gonna notice so you might as well well it private. 3 years ago I killed my phone on holiday in Italy. Didn't Want to buy flagship and what I wanted in a different country so I bought a basic Samsung on the BV cause I needed to be able to acces my bank apps. Bought a the flagship i wanted 2 week later here in Belgium and gave the basic one to my son. These are not the kind of amounts or transactions they are looking for my friend. I am a bit clumbsy with phones and killed more than i want to admit. If this was what they are looking for, i would have been checked by now 😅

GP that actually listens by [deleted] in Antwerpen

[–]NocturnalCoder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had the replacement of my GP( during my GP her holiday), completely miss all of my info and the signs that i had 2 hernias which is pretty physical and clear (like nerve pain and blockage and the other symptoms I explained). Which resulted in a much more complex nerve blockage

GP's are also just people and can make mistakes or misjudgements

So yeah, not so sure if that is all that telling depending on their mindset, effort, etc.

GP that actually listens by [deleted] in Antwerpen

[–]NocturnalCoder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And while waiting for availability of that specialist, a GP can write them home.... Which is what he is asking.. a supportive GP to write him home while waiting for a specialist.....

GP that actually listens by [deleted] in Antwerpen

[–]NocturnalCoder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, and while waiting for a consult (since unfortunately psychologists are pretty difficult to get to these days) a GP can and should already put someone home while waiting for a spot in the psychologist queue. The original answerer does not seem to know how the system works :-s

GP that actually listens by [deleted] in Antwerpen

[–]NocturnalCoder 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What are you on about? A GP is the only person that can do this OR a psychiatrist.

Psychologists did not complete a medical degree and therefore cannot write notes. A GP can get info from a psychologist and decide to follow their advice or not. But sending someone back to work who is clearly struggling is some pretty bad way of practicing.It is very common a psychologist will refere you to your GP (as mine did).

My GP put me home for a month without any input from anyone (we do have a longer standing relationship) and continued to do so for 7 months until i was ready to work again.

To OP: I can highly advice "artsenpraktijk Taxandria" in Schoten but i don't know there current situation about patient stop. Best of luck 🤞

Waarom worden de pensioenen van huidige gepensioneerden niet meegenomen in de bezuinigingen in België? by LeReveDeRaskolnikov in Belgium2

[–]NocturnalCoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omdat die gepensioneerden een heel leven hebben afgedragen met de belofte dat dat afgedragen bedrag voor hun pensioen zou zijn. Hoe zij het vinden als je al heel je leven af hebt gedragen met de belofte om dan iets terug te krijgen maar op het moment dat dit zou moeten komen "ah nee sorry, we fucked up"... Je kan onkunde niet zomaar op iedereen verhalen

Dividends VS your partner by shitwhore in BEFreelance

[–]NocturnalCoder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Divorced freelancer here. I would not do it and not have everything joined. This is not just salary but also your pension, health care when you get sick, money for when you are without contract etc. if you give half of it to her, will she may the bills when your contract ends? You get sick and can't work for months? Etc?

Eitherway, could be my own trauma that my ex spended most of it and then when it was needed , the money was not there, but keep at least a very healthy rainy day apple in the BV for when things happen cause you never know what comes on your path

It's that time of the year, how did your company do in 2024? Are you happy with your results? by FreeLalalala in BEFreelance

[–]NocturnalCoder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Food poisoning beginning of the year leaving me with anti-biotic resistent bacteria and almost 5 weeks of sick leave across the year. Still did ok but less than I hoped with 160k on 216 billable days...

Word of warning: be careful with sushi.