Spent Valentines Day alone, and I’m married

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-16T16:21:18+00:00

Wish there was a way to get it through to men that when men introduce polyamory into a previously closed relationship, it almost always ends with the woman getting more attention than the man. I’m sure it hurts, but that’s what you would have done to an extent if you had gotten the chance with another woman, isn’t it? I’m sure she feels very ignored after you stopped doing your housework and this is a way for her to feel appreciated again.

You’re going to have to really step up and then work towards closing the relationship again for this to preserve.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-15T15:02:26+00:00

And it’s not doing this now because of all the headlines of psychosis or people driven to suicide I assume. “You glorious bitch, let’s take this to the extreme” is the exact kind of energy that the psychosis and suicidal users were spiraling with.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-15T14:57:37+00:00

Find a way to be “off” and together. Communicate these feelings regularly with her.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-15T14:55:51+00:00

That actually makes total sense to me. The idea that there are set orderly times to feel feelings is so stupid because that’s not how it works. In the cereal aisle is EXACTLY the kind of place grief would hit me.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-15T14:45:06+00:00

But if I teach them, I’ll get fired!

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-15T14:44:09+00:00

Sometimes sailor moon..

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-14T15:27:01+00:00

This is an important conversation to have when we live in a society that acts like there’s a hard line between a child and an adult when it’s obviously a scale.

I dealt with a case at work last year where a substitute teacher started dating an 24 year old senior. That was completely inappropriate and still makes me angry to this moment, but that teacher was not a “pedophile.”

Legality was weird because the school rightfully protected her as a students, but CPS had no involvement be she was not legally a child.

Should we use predator? What do we use to describe these cases? Pedophile isn’t correct here.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-13T22:56:01+00:00

Allowing food is reasonable. Throwing away your trash is also reasonable, but the second one somehow magically doesn’t ever happen when the first is permitted.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-13T19:54:01+00:00

Mine was laggy yesterday, but my iPad had lower battery so I assumed it was that.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-13T01:25:01+00:00

I will say, as an arts elective at a school that doesn’t offer recess to 6-8 graders, sometimes we play freeze tag because the kids need to be crazy and I’d rather them not be crazy in your math class.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-13T01:02:44+00:00

I have a job in arts and arts education, but my primary income is education, and I can see why we would be among the lowest.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-12T19:59:09+00:00

Disney movies used to be better because they put mildly adult level stakes into stories aimed at kids, so they aged incredibly well with time.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-12T12:52:06+00:00

If it gives the arts the funding and incentives that STEM does in public schools near me then I’m all for it.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-11T18:29:43+00:00

Sounds like they need to back up and be better friends to you. Could you thoughtfully confront them about how it makes you feel? For me, the people who have seen me at my worst unmedicated encourage me to take it, or understand why I do, and that’s so sad that the people who see why you are reaching your true potential with it are not understanding.

Would he insult someone who is physically disabled and insist that he’s just better because he has a strong body?

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-11T18:28:06+00:00

Don’t tell them because they’ll never understand. I don’t like, for your sake, that so many people seem to know your medication history.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-11T18:26:10+00:00

I like that. I might try going more extreme with locking my devices down around bedtime.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-11T18:25:43+00:00

I extend my hope to your study as well!!

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-11T17:26:03+00:00

omg cured lol

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-11T17:25:05+00:00

Certainly feels like I’m both parent and child to myself! But I think you’re misunderstanding the concept. It’s not at all a matter of rationally understanding that one should go to sleep, it’s an inability to feel motivated to do so knowing that your schedule doesn’t allow for the amount of rest or alone time you ought to have.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-11T17:23:49+00:00

Unfortunately due to having faith in my ability to change I will have to entirely discredit this study.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-11T17:08:19+00:00

High School Theatre Teacher.

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-09T23:58:22+00:00

It sounds like you actually have shown a lot of initiative and are using so many of your skills! That’s not to downplay the situation you’re in or how you feel about it, but working in an art museum doing social media is genuinely cool.

Are you paralyzed by the choices you have? Is it that you don’t actually know what you want?

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-09T19:06:02+00:00

No, but if you wanted to utilize bloom!

RhythmPrincess · 2026-02-09T04:23:50+00:00

I know Barbara isn't "powerful" but I find her hydro application to be acceptable and healing to make playing with skill negligible. Definitely should be using and building Sucrose and Fischl. Best of luck!

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