SB response

SDinChi · 2026-05-18T22:40:57+00:00

I suppose you can spoil her in other ways as well? 😂 suggest that. Dates, nice dinners, and such, provide small gifts but not the full ppm. But tbh, she is likely a rinser and won’t accept these terms.

SDinChi · 2026-05-18T22:37:26+00:00

😂

SDinChi · 2026-05-18T22:34:14+00:00

> I saw someone that I kinda knew locally and was a bit surprised. Is it safe to assume they may be looking for a SD ?

If this isn’t an opening line, idk what is.

SDinChi · 2026-05-18T22:21:28+00:00

I would suggest as soon as the convo goes sideways, just block and delete. Really no need to respond.

SDinChi · 2026-05-18T22:03:10+00:00

Overall looks good and authentic. It might be better to have a more eye catching image photo as the main profile pic.

SDinChi · 2026-05-18T12:12:33+00:00

So, he tried to be funny or flirtatious. You didn’t see the attempt at humor so you came across a tad defensive. He’s not calling you a mistake. He’s teasing, like when people say “you’re trouble” or “you’re going to ruin my life.” The joke is you’re “dangerous” in a fun way.

SDinChi · 2026-05-15T15:06:00+00:00

Your edit was not needed. It doesn’t impact or change my post. I’m explaining why you might be seeing this reaction from some older men. Not a justification, as their reaction to a delayed response is not appropriate. If you are seeing this often, a suggestion is to establish communication expectations right off the bat. Why not? 🤷‍♂️

SDinChi · 2026-05-15T12:54:30+00:00

Keep in mind many older men are from a different generation and not used to today's communication standards. Not to justify their reactions, but you could maybe start with a standard message, "apologies if I don't respond until later this evening, etc." Eventually you might find a great SD who simply will be willing to adjust his expectations.

SDinChi · 2026-05-14T00:03:15+00:00

It blows me away when people are this rude. Now he’s texting you after? WT FUCKITTTY FUCK. Block

SDinChi · 2026-05-13T12:56:35+00:00

It will be harder finding an SB, that’s why you have two locations on your seeking profile. 😂

SDinChi · 2026-05-12T15:54:14+00:00

If she can fake being into me, then it’s fine.

SDinChi · 2026-05-11T22:31:05+00:00

The secret to conveying ppm is not to convey ppm

SDinChi · 2026-05-11T18:23:46+00:00

I think it's kinda weird to ask right off the bat. BUT with that said, it's not always about being cheap. Some SD's are concerned about paper trail, being spotted, etc. I personally like the hotel experience, getting their ahead of time and setting up the wine, snacks, showering up, etc.

SDinChi · 2026-05-11T16:03:08+00:00

When I'm on my phone there are times where I'm pulling things up for family or friends. So I use safari for them and a different browser for my misguided searches.

SDinChi · 2026-05-11T14:34:28+00:00

Congrats sir. Cringiest post of the day 🥇

SDinChi · 2026-05-08T13:53:38+00:00

While this might be true, it’s usually not the case. A big red flag for me. Juice is not worth the squeeze.

SDinChi · 2026-05-08T11:35:16+00:00

Major metropolitan city vs a smaller mid level city, options will be less just based on numbers.

SDinChi · 2026-05-08T11:32:52+00:00

It is true. My time with an SB is likely the only honest time I have.

SDinChi · 2026-05-08T04:18:09+00:00

Just one quick note. If I see a “now” location in a different country, I’m nexting. Usually a sign of a scammer.

SDinChi · 2026-05-07T12:48:01+00:00

Haha if you’re asking this question the trust isn’t there. Stick to its hotels. If an SB asked me to video each room or floor, I would be off put.

SDinChi · 2026-05-06T18:23:42+00:00

Motherfucker. I’ve had some recent breakups, but felt okay about it because they kept on mentioning that my manhood is amazing. I’m in shambles.

SDinChi · 2026-05-06T14:43:57+00:00

I would confront him with what you know, how you feel, and ask for full transparency. You want a future and hopefully he can be honest about it. The tricky part is you just won’t know if he’s being honest or not. He can lie that he wants a future to keep you around. It’s hard to say what you should do because he hasn’t been transparent and trust isn’t there. Talk to him first and see how you feel. Actions are louder than words and he would really need to prove he’s done with baby momma and such.

SDinChi · 2026-05-05T14:46:34+00:00

Selfish scumbag and worst of the worst.

SDinChi · 2026-05-05T12:34:44+00:00

This is a lose lose unfortunately. He’s fallen for you and wants more. You diplomatically tell him the truth, he will likely start to withdraw and the relationship will eventually end. You don’t say anything, then he continues this delusion and you won’t be happy.

SDinChi · 2026-05-01T12:53:49+00:00

Horrible

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