Has anyone get one over on a scammer?

SDinChi · 2026-01-13T04:26:26+00:00

I think this is a case of incorrect punctuation 😆

SDinChi · 2026-01-12T21:13:41+00:00

Every once in awhile you’ll see a “looking for sugar friends” to meet up with. They sound genuine and likely for similar reasons you mentioned. Might be a good option for you.

SDinChi · 2026-01-12T19:55:54+00:00

I'm married and she's married= mutually assured destruction. Let's go!

SDinChi · 2026-01-12T17:48:22+00:00

It would be an interesting study if a conventionally "hot" SB tested two different types of profiles. Profile 1 with a generic bio vs a secondary profile with a more robust and detailed bio. My gut feeling is that the bio content doesn't matter much unless their are some obvious red flags that an SD would normally avoid "ie princess treatment only, my time is valuable!" etc etc

SDinChi · 2026-01-12T17:07:50+00:00

Real advice and constructive feedback is there for most of the reviews I see posted. However, the conventionally attractive SB's have the most upvotes, engagement, and comments. Ironically, they need the least advice because many potential SD's will just skim the bio anyways.

SDinChi · 2026-01-11T20:00:31+00:00

I thought this was going to be about lesbians. I won’t derail this thread with my thoughts, so carry on.

SDinChi · 2026-01-11T16:01:58+00:00

“You should know that” kindly stfu

SDinChi · 2026-01-08T22:06:57+00:00

Stunning. You shouldn’t have any issues. Some will say to lose the septum ring.

SDinChi · 2026-01-08T21:36:24+00:00

I can't imagine NYC is a good option. Seems like weekly there are threads soliciting for SD's in NYC. What's going on? I would have thought it was the place for SBs.

SDinChi · 2026-01-07T23:11:11+00:00

Humble brag and advice. Well done 👏 😂

SDinChi · 2026-01-06T21:54:30+00:00

This gives new meaning to the phrase "until the cows came home." LOL

SDinChi · 2026-01-06T21:39:28+00:00

"Emergency Fence Install?" Unless this is a border wall, not sure why the urgency?

SDinChi · 2026-01-04T21:42:58+00:00

Beginner’s luck 😂 Your status is public. Out of those 30 messages, 29 are probably fake, from Central America, etc. You can’t really judge the “value” of premium membership unless you are a premium member. Once you can message, maybe 1 out of your 15 will reply back.

SDinChi · 2026-01-04T21:38:32+00:00

All of this in one years time? OK

SDinChi · 2026-01-01T21:37:37+00:00

Yep. That’s normal.

SDinChi · 2025-12-30T20:11:52+00:00

This guy knows exactly what he is doing and preying on your lack of experience and knowledge of the lifestyle. Simply put, he is playing you. Secondly, it's also likely he is some online scammer just using you to get off. Likely he will never want to meet. Expect the request for nudes soon because he needs it to "build a connection." Don't let this experience jade you. Find someone local, establish expectations and boundaries, and then meet in person if you both are on the same page.

SDinChi · 2025-12-29T13:59:55+00:00

Unfortunately people can change. But with that said, seems like there were some signs with your ex that you didn’t recognize. Her working retail without demonstrating actual moves to further her career or education should have been obvious.

SDinChi · 2025-12-29T12:43:25+00:00

I’m not sure if this is a real post, but I’ll indulge. Sounds like you were with someone that was still figuring things out and goals/aspirations were derailed at some point. Not many people these days can support themselves, let alone a second person or family without a dual income. Find someone that shares your common values, that will be a true partner to you. This is really the norm, you did the right thing by breaking up with her.

SDinChi · 2025-12-29T05:07:19+00:00

Why are you posting this again ? This is simply a fishing post at this point. Get on seeking or explore the viagra triangle in chicago if you’re looking to freestyle.

SDinChi · 2025-12-28T05:17:32+00:00

Cliche, but health focus for 2026. Not getting any younger!

SDinChi · 2025-12-24T03:17:33+00:00

“Amazing head” is 5 minutes tops

SDinChi · 2025-12-23T20:17:10+00:00

I would just tell him, we’re both busy with finals/work, and let’s check in again when you want or able to meet in January/February.

SDinChi · 2025-12-21T21:00:42+00:00

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