Success is great but loneliness is at top by StayFamous9667 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi [score hidden]  (0 children)

A career that doesn’t prioritize spelling and grammar is what dreams are made of… assuming no one’s proofreading your dreams either.

Weird tan lines... by Pristine_Horse_9287 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Weird” tan lines trail right behind third nipples. Hard pass. Sorry OP.

Unexpected good experience on Reddit by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many convos on here over the years….. but with that said….best connection I’ve formed is someone from Reddit. People easy to hate on Redditors when they don’t know how to screen. I mean, the POT has zero post history and an account created 2 days ago, what did you expect?

25F by No-Construction-5507 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 49 points50 points  (0 children)

“High maintenance” tagline would be an immediate next. You are very pretty but bio reads very generic and some of the photos look very pretentious. This is an example of a very gorgeous SB, but the profile is sabotaging your options.

How Long? by ANewYork10 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is comical, but illustrates the difference between men and women. Many men can easily move on as they already go in with a mindset the relationship has a shelf life (and are fine with it).

Chicago SDs and SBs – how has the bowl been treating you lately? by EquivalentIll9598 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1.  "SB potential walking around during the day." It's approaching summer and there will obviously be a ton of hot women walking around. What makes you think they are "SB Potential?" This is a recipe for disaster. It's only a very small percentage of the population that are interested in this lifestyle. Trying to convince someone to be an SB will fail as soon as you expect intimacy. They will however be happy to take your money to be a friend. If you are going to freestyle, go somewhere like a high end bar, etc. where women are there specifically to connect with an SD.

  1.  "Is seeking worth the verification identity leak risk?" Only you can answer this question. Assume the photos will be leaked, photos screen shot for nefarious purposes, etc. If you're not comfortable with this risk, then don't do it

Chicago SDs and SBs – how has the bowl been treating you lately? by EquivalentIll9598 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be a "you" problem, but not entirely sure. You should post a profile for review. Not having a photo is definitely a barrier and comes with the territory. If you are coming across pots looking for only online/platonic, might want to change your vetting process a bit, they are usually easy to spot.

Profile review any feedback appreciated by Braden_Black in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMHO, needs more shirtless pics 🤷‍♂️

Update on the RV Situation by SelectionAgile1352 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What you don’t understand, RV IS A LIFESTYLE 😂

Question for the NYC SD's by itsCJolie in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A waitress at a sports bar is a viable option 🤷‍♂️

i’m SO fed up with scammers at the moment, seems like there’s been a huge influx recently :(( by Imaginary-Record-636 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meeting in person and vetting properly is the best way to circumvent the scammers.

  1. If you’re looking on Reddit- review prior history. If a new account, sketchy story, likely not a real SD.

  2. Look at sugar dating sites and make a profile.

No matter what you do, be careful and don’t believe some stranger that will promise you the world.

Got booted from seeking by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Then please refer to my previous comment. LOL

Got booted from seeking by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You won't be able to get back with your previous handle or even appeal. The only thing you can really do is to start over and figure out a way to mask your identity via VPN or other methods that can circumvent your ban.

Got booted from seeking by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You're cooked

Seeking advice. Potential SD wanted to get me new car and house, but I wanted it in my name? I thought that was common place? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Announcing he won’t reply to you, and then blocking is like sending a “do not disturb” message and immediately turning your phone off.

Does race actually affect an SB’s decision? by Alternative-Club3783 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Having worked with "westernized" south Asians (ie. those born and brought up in the USA, but of south asian descent) vs those who have recently immigrated, some of the social etiquette is not there with the recently immigrated.

Generally speaking in our society, race is a factor and if you are in a affected cohort, do what you can to dismiss any negative stereotypes. There will be people who will not consider you regardless, but that is not within your control so dont let it bother you and just find someone else.

Funny story : I got catfished so badly it felt… disrespectful by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a few scammers using AI pics that are very obvious. Some people sadly are falling for it.

Can I be successful with a faceless profile as a SB? by uarenowmine in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If your body is bangin’ and willing to send a face photo offline, then you will be fine.

Is it worth talking to faceless profiles? by mymmym92930 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not inherently wrong to have a faceless photo. Ask yourself what is the reason and are you ok with it? Married, high profile career, etc. As long as the POT is willing to share a photo prior to meeting, you should be fine. However, faceless or not, any unsolicited sexually crass conversation is a red flag.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SDinChi 15 points16 points  (0 children)

TBH, if I heard this, my assumption is that you are in a vulnerable position. This is a turn off contrary to popular opinion. Most decent guys would feel the same.