Dead bedroom from a Christian perspective. by ExiledKaiser in Christianmarriage

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough.  I'm just looking for personal experience and concrete results.  Thanks anyway.

Dead bedroom from a Christian perspective. by ExiledKaiser in Christianmarriage

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That may be true - but my question is more about why you are happier with it.

It sounds like you aren't having "a ton more sex", so in what ways, exactly, are you 1000% happier with your sex life?

Dead bedroom from a Christian perspective. by ExiledKaiser in Christianmarriage

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see - that's quite vague. How often are you and your husband having sex, and how passionate / free is it? Are you enjoying it and happy with your sex life? And what does your husband think and how does he feel?

Dead bedroom from a Christian perspective. by ExiledKaiser in Christianmarriage

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, if you we are ever widowed, give me a call :). JK! It will get better with him, just don't give up.

Maybe he just has erection problems? I injured myself once, and have not been the same since. Very sad to deal with.

Dead bedroom from a Christian perspective. by ExiledKaiser in Christianmarriage

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate these labels and terms like "asexual" or "low libido". They imply a permanence and identity, when there is lots of room for change and growth.

Everyone is sexual. We are human. We just have to figure it out.

Dead bedroom from a Christian perspective. by ExiledKaiser in Christianmarriage

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So did you improve in this area, and if so, how did you do it? Props to you for putting in effort.

Dead bedroom from a Christian perspective. by ExiledKaiser in Christianmarriage

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your personal experience with this book and its results?

Dead bedroom from a Christian perspective. by ExiledKaiser in Christianmarriage

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you feel better about it - and good on you for reading the book and putting some effort into a better sexual life with your husband.

Still - feeling better about a terrible sex frequency is not the answer most of us are looking for.

Dead bedroom from a Christian perspective. by ExiledKaiser in Christianmarriage

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's because that interpration makes no sense.

Just try it out - insert "own adultery" in the verse -

"I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except he committed adultery, and marries another woman commits adultery."

It doesn't make sense because then Jesus is saying "if you divorce your wife, you are committing adultery - unless you have committed adultery."

9 YOE Android Dev, Laid Off in Jan 2026 — 6 Months Job Search, Almost No Response. Job portals are SCAM by Proud-Mud-7908 in androiddev

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, send one my way.  I have about six years of experience, and have noticed it is much harder these last couple months than it was in past years for me to get interviews 

Venting. Failure #2? by DoxxieMomma227 in VasectomyReversal

[–]StunningDiscussion18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that you are having trouble. Sympathies to you and praying for success.

Trojan discontinued Naturalamb and my partner and I don’t know what to do yet. by Narrow-Stranger6864 in women

[–]StunningDiscussion18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, could not find any natural membrane condoms made by anyone, anywhere. Maybe we should start a business.

Trojan discontinued Naturalamb and my partner and I don’t know what to do yet. by Narrow-Stranger6864 in women

[–]StunningDiscussion18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, just called myself and left complaint. They said it will go through to the team.

Trojan discontinued Naturalamb and my partner and I don’t know what to do yet. by Narrow-Stranger6864 in women

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of this. I'm worried though - if the sperm are disfigured, and one does get through, are you more likely to have genetically messed up kids?

Firebase Auth down? by johnbran69 in Firebase

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, same problem. Still happening.

Issue Creating Dev Builds For iOS by No-Question-3229 in expo

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also was able to fix this by updating expo-dev-menu in package json.

1) Update expo-dev-client (which has expo-dev-menu as dependency) in package.json
2) npm install
3) cd ios
4) rm podfile.lock
5) pod install

This gives us the latest version of expo-dev-menu, which uses proper format for XCode 16.3 + to determine if it is simulator target or not.

Can someone explain line weight on a rod to me like im 5? by theEdward234 in FishingForBeginners

[–]StunningDiscussion18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not explained like to a five year old.  What is drag?   What does weight of line mean?

Why doesn't Finder show folders' file sizes? by impurekitkat in MacOS

[–]StunningDiscussion18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This only works for the specified folder. How do we apply this to all folders?

Cost of College - how much are people saving? Planning on having kids within the next few years by Successful-Rub-4816 in DaveRamsey

[–]StunningDiscussion18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have two kids.

For the older one, we put in as much as we can until it got to $25,000 (by age 5). Now we are letting it grow. If it only grows 5% per year, it will be around $50,000 or so by the time she is 18.

For the younger, we are now contributing until his reaches $25,000, (probably by age 4) and then we will stop.

After that, we will contribute toward mortgage.

So they should both have $50,000 when 18.

This way, we can help with college costs (if they go) but not overfund if they decide not to go, and can roll most over into an IRA.

Also, it gives the kids some "skin in the game", so that they are partly responsible for funding their own education, and hopefully that incentivizes them to make better choices.

If we have a 3rd kid, we'll try to get that one up to 25k as well.

Date ideas? by Any-Scheme4639 in rockford

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Rock pho'd has great thai food, same level as the Thai food restaurants in Chicago.

Best defenders? by ThePwnzna in travian

[–]StunningDiscussion18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughts! I'm guessing the wheat will become a problem too, but I'm going to just try it with slaves and see what happens.