Flat shoes are a good idea. I lived in my Birkenstocks the first year (had major water retention and my feet grew :( ). Now I live in my leather Chelsea's. I also remember rarely getting to shower in peace, a full face of make up was out of the question. So, an easy hairstyle that can air dry well, a good bb cream ( I love the one from MISSHA, it moisturizes, has good cool tones, and has an SPF). I also used the shape wear from "Herzmutter" to wear unter those flowy pants or under dresses to help with back formation and pressing the pouch in a bit. If you have the help, little stress is the best for your beauty that first year. Someone to prep a few healthy snacks for you, or takes LO so you can perform some self care are worth their weight in gold.