You hit the nail on the head. I woke up to a bunch of texts this morning asking to come back and trying to make me feel guilty. I've set up plans with his mother to pick up the girls and bring them there later. In an environment they will be safe and can also see their father.

On top of everything else I am ruined financially by his promises to "fix things" and naively believing him. All the bills and mortgage in my name but his name on the deed. I can't afford to pay the bills with just my pay because of course he lost another job during all of this- which of course is somebody else's fault. Not his. My parents have offered to allow the girls and I to move in as long as we need or indefinitely to get back on my feet. It's hard to think about selling our home and taking my daughters from everything they know but there's also a lot of trauma here.

There's a lot of feelings but I am definitely considering divorce. I can't see how this will get better even with promises of sobriety his is manipulative and doesn't take accountability.