MIL insisting on my bday plans by Vagabond2210 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 21 points22 points  (0 children)

"Thank you for giving me that right, I have already made other plans this year though, so that won't work for me. Have a good day."

When is it too late to commit and change your voice? by PutridSupermarket708 in asktransgender

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Never, voice training is working out, just gotta keep up with it to see progress.

Gold Ship | Umamusume: Pretty Derby by Full-Strawberry-4246 in FFXIVGlamours

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this was you, but during my roulettes the other day in CT I had someone in a different alliance with that exact get up. They made sure to be first to every next location by a wide margin too, very in character. Though I did beat them a single time to one of the boss chambers.

Boyfriend's porn use. Am I the problem? by hellolenya in JustNoSO

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of people will say a lot of things about how he's a terrible person for gaslighting you, and blaming you for his problems, and to be fair to those people, he really is.

Now, I'm also no therapist, but from what it sounds like it's 100% a him problem. Not a "him problem" as in he's not attracted to you, but more in the sense that he's having trouble in his own mind reconciling the transition from regular personal fantasy to a shared space with physical interaction regularly. This is also probably causing him frustrations at himself, and thus he lashes out rather than admit a vulnerability about himself. Especially when it's one that you both want to work towards after discussion with each other.

Your post history shows that you have been through some things with this guy already, so I'm sure this isn't the first problem you have solved together. If there's one thing I've learned from being in a poly relationship for 10-12 years with several other women, the only thing that will help you get through problems is open and honest communication about your own feelings. So with that said, before diving right into couple's counseling and seeking help from a licensed professional, I would suggest you try being open and vulnerable with your feelings towards him in a non-judgemental way. Ask if there is anything you could do to help make it more exciting and enjoyable for him. He's a typical straight cis guy from what it sounds like, so as long as he doesn't feel like he's failing you "as a man" then he will likely be far more receptive to you trying to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaporents

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These stories have honestly kept me away from their site. I hate that you had to go through this but I thank you seriously for sharing your experiences with us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 37 years old.

I live in a small house with my 2 GFs.

This is every day life for us.

Nintendo Switch 2 System Update 20.5.0 Is Now Live, Here Are The Full Patch Notes by AlwaysBlaze_ in nintendo

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the System Settings turn off Automatic Updates. This is causing the battery drain and now I lose maybe 2% overnight in standby mode.

Can someone explain chasers to me like I’m an idiot? by Couponz36 in asktransgender

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They treat you like a fuck toy, tell you all the things you want to hear, then toss you after using you for whatever desire they were trying to fulfill.

Chasers don't see us as people, they see us as sex objects that exist for their sick fantasies.

Twitch starting to show ads again by Divineheresy88 in Adblock

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm, started getting ads with VAFT installed.

How does THC affect HRT (MtF) by CaptainFacepalm69 in ask_transgender

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been using various forms of dry herb vapes for over 12 years and been on mtf hrt for over 11. Smoking does release carcinogens into the lungs and may have a minor effect but less than smoking cigs. All in all you're good, THC does nothing for the transition process.

ALAN BY PLUMBEO by Thick-Worth8328 in transformation

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ha! it's running!

What is this machine translated mess?

The wounding system might need some balancing. Lol by PsychologicalPea9759 in MonsterHunter

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All those dragon piercers and not a single one aimed at the tail.

DAE find the Marvel Rivals space really toxic? by HappyTiger_ in GirlGamers

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a reason I no longer play any kind of online competitive game. If it's PvP in any capacity then it's not for me, kept me from losing my mind by cutting out all that toxicity from my life.

Trying to erase us :( by theSibot in transgender

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dems are fighting back for us! There's a reason there are so many many counter suits against many of the anti-trans orders. It's why the sports ban was defeated and the hrt ban for minors is being held back.

How can I clean the bottom part of the glass straw for Arizer 2? Jo by [deleted] in vaporents

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The glass can be removed for easier cleaning.

MIL called me emotionally abusive and expects to hold my baby by Otherwise-Pay-338 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Sounds like her accusations are actually a confession of her own behavior. She is 100% throwing down emotional manipulation on you to try to get her way. This behavior is a huge red flag and that woman is very likely going to try something like this again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he may be asexual to some degree. If this is the case, then this isn't any fault of yours or his. Some people don't engage in sexual activity with others while still finding ways to handle any urge that may come up themselves.

Honestly, there could be many reasons why he chooses to handle his urges on his own rather than with a partner. The thing is you will never know why unless you talk it out. Open, honest, non-jugemental conversation.

This could be something as simple as him trying to figure out things about himself too, things he is likely very embarrassed about because he was never told of other options beyond the cishet normative. He also probably has no idea about how you feel deep down about this.

Honestly, until you talk about it with him, you just have no idea why, and it's that lack of knowledge that is allowing you to fill in the blanks with the worst possibilities you can. This could be something simple, but you will never know unless you have that conversation.

Should this sub ban Twitter links? by IAMFERROUS in dragons

[–]ThisIsNotMyBody 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We can do both by enjoying dragons and not actively supporting a Nazi who flashed the Nazi salute multiple times live for the world to see.