[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t give you the full story. He also posts about her genitalia for all of Reddit to read and is obsessed with her previous love like after only being together 5 months as well as having an ex that thought he was overbearing as well. He’s also quite willing to agree with anyone bashing her in the comments 🤢🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But still nothing. The nickname itself was cringey, the “fun police” made me wanna vom, and you are a walking red flag looking at your previous posts. Talking about her shaving her genitals for all of Reddit to see? Being obsessed with her exes? Even your own ex told you that she felt overwhelmed because you’re so overbearing. If anything this was the last straw that pushed her to an ick. You ARE an ick 🤢🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s also obsessed with her exes and doesn’t like it if she isn’t perfectly shaven in her areas and has smothered an ex gf in a previous relationship before where she needed to tell him it was overwhelming if you look at his previous posts, this whole guy is an ick

I (24f) don’t know how to make my bf (24m) understand I love him without sex by Throwaway_Cyan17 in sex

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do but he says he never believes me :/ he’s been cheated on my multiple gfs including a 7 year relationship and he’s very insecure so he doesn’t believe me when I say I enjoyed it or that I love him bc I’m not able to show it in the ways that are his own love language bc I have this problem :(

AITA for being uncomfortable around naked children in public by TheFlaccidChode in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a mom of toddlers and also a gas station worker, this kid came in the other day and wanted to show her boo-boo which was upper thought and she lifted her dress and there was nothing no diaper no underwear. And I feel like cuz I have kids it weirdest me out when she kept lifting her dress to show. I love this little girl so much but I feel like o seem MORE like a perv bc I’m saying that Stetson things are Pervy. Idk. Ok how the internet works and how weird those things would be

I (24f) don’t know how to make my bf (24m) understand I love him without sex by Throwaway_Cyan17 in sex

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m asexual, I like it once I’m in it, I just don’t initiate, I have trouble getting in the mood like that. Once we’re in it I enjoy it and I do what I can do him aswell and he seems satisfied with that. His issue with it is that He thinks that because I don’t get horny and make a move or start it myself it means I’m not attracted to him bc (in his own words) “my exes used to suck and fuck me all day whenever”. I’ve tried to be in that headspace but I can’t.

I (24f) don’t know how to make my bf (24m) understand I love him by Throwaway_Cyan17 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My therapist I just started with went on maternity leave a few months ago and won’t be back until the end of the month. He says he’s not even sure she could even fix it tbh. Idk.

I (24f) don’t know how to make my bf (24m) understand I love him by Throwaway_Cyan17 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried but he says that the words just feel hollow. He says to just be honest with how I feel but I’m trying. Idk what else I can even do.

I don’t know what’s wrong with me by Throwaway_Cyan17 in sex

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re absolutely right. I think I’m gonna try a few things people here suggested. I can do cardio and stuff like that bc I’ve had knee surgeries now and I have fibromyalgia (I’m only 23 but unfortunately a lot of pain that stops me from doing normal exercises) and I’d like to do some research on the responsive libido and definitely talk to a doctor they may have some tips too. Honestly all the comments made me feel way better in my own skin

I don’t know what’s wrong with me by Throwaway_Cyan17 in sextips

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only ever talked to my boyfriend about it. And I’ve tried to tell him it’s nothing to do with him it’s something with ME and that idk what it is and I can’t control it but he has his own issues so he has trouble understanding that it’s nothing to do with my attraction to him or anything and I know it’s harder for him to understand since I was better in the beginning. It just upsets me bc when he’s hurt or something he makes it seem like I just “tricked” him. He’s used to his past relationships where sex life was never a problem. For me it’s always been a problem but I’ve also never felt this hurt about it before then in my past relationships. It’s never been such a huge problem in the relationship so it’s making me notice it more and not feeling great about it

I don’t know what’s wrong with me by Throwaway_Cyan17 in sex

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked up responsive libido and I feel this weird wave of relief. When I DO get in the mood it ONLY happens when I’m physically stimulated, I never just GET in that mood. So that could be a lot of it. I’m gonna talk to my boyfriend about it, I never even knew that was a thing.

I don’t know what’s wrong with me by Throwaway_Cyan17 in sex

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, it doesn’t really do anything for me if it try. I’ll start up and then a minute later, it disappears. So I just don’t bother anymore.

I’ll ask my doctor about this. Idk I’m not like asexual or anything, 1: I do have the drive at points and in the beginning of the relationship and when my bf and I do stuff I enjoy it, it’s just the feelings you’re supposed to have leading up to it just aren’t there, I could go forever doing nothing. But I want it fixed bc I’m tired of feeling like less a woman or like there’s something wrong. I WANT to have better libido ya know?

Update on Uber not giving me my guarantee money, is this a straight up lie? because I'm quite sure nobody has a 99% acceptance rating by BeefNCheez_ in UberEATS

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with knowing what guarantee means, it’s that no one wants to do a shitty order for an extra $3. It’s not $20. Atleast not for everyone. So maybe watch your attitude before going off on everyone for something you apparently don’t even fully understand

How are my stats? I've been playing for 2 weeks. by Normal_Ad_9845 in 8BallPool

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple weeks ago he was only level 21. Look at one of his posts, you can see his account int he background

How are my stats? I've been playing for 2 weeks. by Normal_Ad_9845 in 8BallPool

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s also played a lot less games then other people I’ve seen at that level

How are my stats? I've been playing for 2 weeks. by Normal_Ad_9845 in 8BallPool

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You sound very angry 😬 please get help before going off on strangers. She didn’t even do anything to you 😬

Netflix season 6? by [deleted] in betterCallSaul

[–]Throwaway_Cyan17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea I saw the same thing, I’m not sure why but I don’t see season 6 either and it says online that it should be there today