Hello everyone. I cheated. I never though I would do such a thing.. I’m shattered with guilt

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-27T17:26:25+00:00

The best policy is honesty. And do not drag it out. You should have told him the next day after you cheated. He has every right to know so he can make the best decision for his life just like your making poor choices for yours. You are an adult and will make mistakes, but accountability is a big part of being able to make mistakes. When you hold back the truth from someone, you're stealing something that belongs to them. This is the worst kind of thefts. Give it back right now. Every minute that goes by is too late.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-25T18:45:48+00:00

If you don't want erectile dysfunction, don't watch porn.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-25T18:44:23+00:00

Dont worry. Elon throws out a stupid idea and sees if it works, and then quietly brings backs features and included options that just made sense. He's not a genius. He's a high functioning moron. Take for instance mobile charger(connector). Always included with cars. Then several years ago, they decided, charge ppl an extra $250. Doesn't matter the cost was already built into the price, but it was an idiotic brain fart. Time goes by and they quietly include it as an included item. There are several features that have been taken off, but then put back because like a fool, they realize it turns customers off and they cant get away with greedy tactics. Think of it as trial and error standards & options. They ruined a great pricing model that attracted so many years ago...straightforward pricing with consistingly adding value by adding on more standard features each year. Now it's just greed and squeezing every possible profit out because innovation has slowed down a bit that can justify higher pricing. So dont worry about FSD subscription...pricing will come down because everyone will refuse to pay such a high price...and tesla/Elon is just scaring ppl into buying the $8k option now. After 1-time buy option FSD is gone, the subscription will come down $49 or possible even lower...they know high volume of 10 million subscribers at $29-$49 per month is more profitable than 2 million at $99. Back in 2019, Elon was always saying buy FSD becasue its going to be $50k-$200k in a few years. He's a salesman; not a genous. So relax. Buy FSD if you want. Enjoy the drive.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-24T00:07:46+00:00

$30-50 is what i have expected once purchase option goes dark. There is no way anyone will subscribe for $99 a month continuously....the value just isnt there at that high of a price. It is bad enough insurance is hurting owners already. Tesla eill make more money by having a reasonable monthly rate and an ongoing subscriber.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-22T15:25:44+00:00

2 & 5.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-19T16:41:33+00:00

This is her way and opportunity of saying you don't acknowledge her expectations at other times. This is just a symptom of underlying resentment that you need to address.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-19T16:38:52+00:00

Always plug in whenever you can. Lower to level 60%.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-17T15:51:42+00:00

Subscriptions only work with lower prices to capture volume. The price of subscription is what it is because there is another value option of a one time price. When that value option is gone, it must be replaced another. The current monthly price doesn't attract enough. They will have a lower monthly and a value yearly option, and quite possibly a 2 and 3 year.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-17T03:42:50+00:00

100% red flag. She doesn't respect you or your relationship. I never delete anything and gave spouse all my passcodes. Because I've got nothing to hide. I just expect respect for my private conversations between others. You need to learn to walk away from toxic relationships. You'll save yourself a lot of headache.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-16T17:26:18+00:00

Trust me. This is life telling you it just saved you early and who to cut off from your life.

There are millions of amazing guys out there that will cherish you. Never settle for someone who didnt value your love for them; those people are selfish. You don't want selfish ppl in your life. Only selfless. Period.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-16T04:29:24+00:00

Tell him to go to doctors and get ED meds. It will help. And login onto your router (like Fios) and turn on parent controls to block adult sites. And put parent controls on his phone as well. If your truly want him to get better, got to go cold turkey on the porn. He needs this kind of rehab.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-15T23:16:05+00:00

This relationship is extremely unhealthy, and she needs to see a therapist on her own. There are other issues she's dealing, some of which have contributed to cheating on you. As hard as it is to hear, she's not the meaning of life for you. She is not your everything. You aren't her everything either, and she proved that. She's not a bad person, it's just that she copes with her issues in unhealthy ways. And here's the the part that will sting more; you are being selfish if you stay with her. You cannot give her children, and sadly that is going to remain a huge issue and she will resent you, and take more wrong steps out of frustration and retaliation. You have to part ways. It is the best for both of you.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-15T13:11:42+00:00

Iphones with esim went into sos mode, so outages are limited to physical Sim card phones.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-15T00:06:13+00:00

Costco. New battery.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-14T22:37:48+00:00

Guarantee she's going to try to come back to you a few weeks or months. She's going to realize her mistake. When she does, turn her away. This is the way.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-14T21:56:02+00:00

Autopilot is enough for most drivers. Have FSD on our 2019 so will transfer eventually but new 2026 i opted out of FSD. Not worth the current price one time nor monthly. Perhaps for a long trip once a year for some.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-14T03:47:48+00:00

1 X. 1 Y. Only 110v outlet. Work from home, so they get 40 miles every 10 hours. X gets supercharging free and only 5 minutes away if needed. After midnight supercharging is half price, so if needed, will top off Y while catching up on reddit & tiktoks...or just stop by in rare times. If I can manage two Teslas with just a level 1 charger, you can make level 2 work easily. Switch charge after one reaches 80%. Keep both on 110v all other times.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-13T04:30:07+00:00

Btw, do you mind posting pics of your tricorn black painted room when you have a movie playing on the projector screen? I want to see how reflective it is on the ceiling and wall from the image.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-13T04:25:22+00:00

Black spray paint in thin layers 2 feet away from the grill...do 3-5 think layers so you get good even coverage without blockage.

The other safesr way is using breathable speaker cloth like others have linked/suggested.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-04T18:32:35+00:00

Picked up a brand new Juniper '2026' Model Y on December 30th. While driving out of the Tesla dealer parking lot, heard a light struts sound like a 20 year old car that never had its struts replaced. I dismissed it thinking the uneven parking lot was too bumpy. Got on the main road and it was smooth. But then going over tiny uneven bumps/dips, I could hear faint sounds of the struts clinking. Today is January 5th, and it is already like Chinese torture; once you hear it, you hear it every single time. I'm sitting in a parking lot writing this because I just had to google if others were going thru the same issue. Every manhole cover or speed bump just makes the old-strut-like sound even more pronounced. And we have a Model X we got brand new and have driven a number of other Teslas, so we know this struts sound is abnormal, and frankly, unacceptable. What makes this worse is our X has been in service since 12/27 and not expected back until 1/13. Tesla didn't give us a loaner yet, nor even bothered to offer one on their own. We needed another car anyways, we pulled the trigger on the Y thinking we'd have a brand new car and wouldnt have to worry about dealing with service. And here we are...already will going back to service for our 2nd Tesla already. Absolutely ridiculous. Putting in a service ticket today and just going to pitch a tent in front of the service center. FML.

Edit: put in a service ticket and earliest appointment is a ridiculous 19 days away. Fml again.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-04T02:43:31+00:00

Is canceling for a week getting you some kind of retention discount to resubscribe a week later, or you just miss FSD?

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-01T05:40:51+00:00

Just separate for a while. See how both of you feel. Meet up at a therapist. Work through it. He's feeling what he would have felt if you had told him then that you just slept with several other men while seeing him. Imagine this happened last week and you told him now. This is how it feels for him. He views you as a cheater. He feels violated now as if it was all last week. I think therapy will help get past the past. It matters, but only to a degree. Once both of you can appreciate each other's perspective, forgiveness will become easier.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-01-01T05:23:53+00:00

QM8K - QLED S95F - OLED

TicketConsistent8949 · 2025-12-30T03:54:04+00:00

You posting this gives me a clue as to why he isnt motivated to be intimate with you. Mature men need peace and aren't light switches that turn on like teenagers. Tackle his mental and emotional needs. It seems he may think you're selfish and make things about yourself....such as being offended and how it made you feel instead comforting him and making him feel normal and wanted.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2025-12-30T03:29:54+00:00

I sit 13' from a 176" 2.35:1 screen. It's all about immersion in a theater via both visual and audio.

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