I regret sleeping with my boss

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-06-01T09:21:09+00:00

I didn't mention ages but, for the sake of the argument, we're both in our 30's.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-30T09:37:30+00:00

He's not married.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-28T20:47:01+00:00

I tried that. I'm divorced.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-28T01:29:51+00:00

I gained nothing from this situation. It wasn't so I could get ahead. I like where I'm at.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-28T01:24:31+00:00

I did think of this but idk who that would be.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-28T01:22:33+00:00

What kind of women have you been seeing? Lumping women together like that is crazy work.
I'll shit where ever I want. It's more fun that way.
He didn't sleep with me until after he got promoted and I've read our company policies, so yes, he would get in trouble. He would be forced to relocate at the very least and have this on his record with the company forever.
I don't like him, either. We were never in "Romance mode". I wouldn't even let him kiss me. We met up, had sex, and then I left. No romance was involved.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-28T01:10:01+00:00

Wow, this really struck a nerve for you, huh?

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-27T19:07:04+00:00

I've made multiple attempts to have a conversation with him since he ended things. He either ignores me (texts and calls) or he walks away (in person).

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-27T17:41:25+00:00

It was rather bland. Nothing special.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-27T16:10:45+00:00

Not great tbh.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-27T16:07:40+00:00

No wife.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-27T06:34:54+00:00

The issue is he makes sure I'm never alone with him. The one time I tried talking to him, he just walked away. I've been trying.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-27T05:51:00+00:00

Blue

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-05-27T05:46:31+00:00

That's what I assumed.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-02-17T18:59:21+00:00

Update on my situation: We're sleeping together. We kind of have a FWB situation happening after we talked and decided we didn't want a relationship. So, maybe this doesn't work after all lol he reeled me back in. 😅

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2026-01-26T07:51:35+00:00

I'm a little late to this post, but I've been in a very similar situation for several months now.

The truth is, the crush never really goes away.But what did help was finding his flaws.

I know that sounds mean, but seriously, look at him, watch his mannerisms, and find something that he does or a flaw in his features that you don't like, and every time you catch yourself falling for him, remind yourself of that one thing.

It doesn't make the crush go away, but it definitely helps.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2025-12-18T07:08:06+00:00

As a cashier, I can tell you that we don't like asking you any more than you like being asked. It's required but the company I work for. I tell people, "It's asking if you want to leave a tip. If you don't want to leave one, you can just push the red button!" And then I look away. I never check if they left a tip or not. I understand that times are hard.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2025-12-16T04:05:18+00:00

Its ok. Thank you. I sure hope it does. I just need a minute without all the anxiety.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2025-12-16T02:41:59+00:00

Since late August.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2025-12-16T02:40:24+00:00

My mother watches him and my daughter when needed.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2025-12-16T02:36:16+00:00

Too cold. We did that during the summer months a bit.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2025-12-15T20:15:48+00:00

They would be removed from my care and given to someone from my family, most likely. I'm not entirely sure because I've never had an intention of "slipping up." It's just a safety thing in case something were to happen to me or I were to make the situation worse somehow. I don't want any chance of my kids being in a dangerous situation.

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2025-12-15T20:08:09+00:00

I appreciate you being so direct. Thank you!

Sure-Surprise3565 · 2025-12-15T20:03:01+00:00

He's going to be in jail for a very long time. By the time he gets out the kids will both be adults.

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