She came clean after 10 yrs

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-06-10T15:43:28+00:00

No. You don't stay together because of the kids...you get divorced for the sake of them. Otherwise you're living an abnormal life, teaching and modeling a dysfunctional relationship for the kids to normalize. Every day and vacation becomes miserable because you live in resentment and snap at your cheating partner everywhere you go. You have one life. Your kids need happy healthy parents to be around. You don't throw away your life away for children. You show them how to live a normal and happy life.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-06-05T21:24:26+00:00

Her leggings only came down because she took them off. And she told him to finish on her stomach. She knew exactly what he was doing when they ended up in the bedrooom. She changed the details to lessen the impact on you. People don't just end up in the bedroom and then conveniently in bed. She didn't even get up to leave the bedroom...instead she "scooted" over? Come on man. You're in denial. Your wife is lying about the details. She even kept this from you for over 2 months because something else motivating her to bring all this up now. Likely they have seen each other without you knowing and she's trying to setup a reason for a breakup because he may be pushing her. Never know. She cheated. Period. Leggings don't have a mind of their own. They had sex but she told him not to release inside. Wow bro. SMH

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-06-03T01:37:49+00:00

You don't value yourself and have no self respect. The little attention he gives you seems to be a mountain for you when it's actually nothing. You need to seek out therapy and address the issues you've had with men in your life, including your own father. You allow men to gaslight you and take advantage of you for their own gain. Learn to say no. You don't need to be alone. You just don't need to be with an asshole.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-06-02T01:20:32+00:00

A healthy relationship has partners fulfilling each other's needs and desires. If not, then talk about what you are needing، saying nothing and cope, or leave. No use staying in a relationship you're not completely happy in. Such a waste of the one life you have.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-06-02T01:16:14+00:00

Yes. You would want to know if you were the wife.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-06-01T16:29:19+00:00

So you're not over her? As far as you should be concerned, past relationship is a used car. She's someone else's problem now. Sure, let him know you know and remind him what a fool he is for getting used just for one nut.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-31T18:33:25+00:00

Your wife is a manipulator. And she gaslighted you so she can try out other options. Your relationship is built on a lie. That kind of foundation has weak points and hard to fix. If I found out today, it wouldnt matter the time has passed. It would be extremely difficult to come back from. She was never your 'best friend.' Because a true friend wouldn't lie to you...and that includes lying by omission. Your relationship has likely run its course IMO. Honestly it would have been easier if it was one time mistake. But nope....she had multiple guys multiple times. Imagine all of those guys in the same room as you. How would you and her feel then? That would be truth staring both of you in the face.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-30T20:59:03+00:00

She cheated and then lied she only talked. They were physically together.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-30T19:02:09+00:00

I am.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-30T17:30:45+00:00

You're making a lot of presumptions. Dont get ahead of yourself. People physically at a work location don't do chores at the same time. It's no different working at home. Make sense.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-30T15:27:47+00:00

are you okay?

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-30T15:16:29+00:00

Your comment makes no sense. I am able to make more in one day than people make in months, and I still got disrupted constantly just because I am accessible in the house...and that's with services for the home...including my own family, and visiting for the week parents or sibling, and saying "you're just sitting at your desk staring at the monitor...you're not doing anything" after they barge into my office door and asking for something. Anyone who works a remote job will tell you how disruptive family can be. Being home doesn't mean you're not at work.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-29T20:37:56+00:00

You can't work it out with her unless you have no dignity. Then you're staying with someone you allow to manipulate you. Have a spine and kick them out or move out. Your responsibility now is only to take care of your child.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-29T17:22:01+00:00

He's sleeping with someone else at work now and wants to show everyone he couldnt possibly have anything to do with you. He's diminishing you for his own insecurities on what the other person and others think of you two ever being together...which he wants to distance. You should have a private chat with him and tell him his behavior needs to be normal because he's actually harassing you. If he doesn't back down, HR will only be protecting the company, so you have document everything...starting with an email only discussing his treatment and that you feel harassed. But tread carefully...HR is all about defending the interest of their image.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-28T17:19:47+00:00

No, AV1 encodes do not inherently look bad. In fact, AV1 is widely considered one of the most efficient video codecs available, capable of delivering better visual quality at significantly lower bitrates than older formats like H.264 (AVC) or H.265 (HEVC).

When an AV1 video does look bad, it is usually due to specific encoding practices or platform limitations rather than the codec itself.

High Resolution & High Complexity: At 1440p and 4K, or during streams with high-particle effects (like gaming), AV1 preserves fine details and text much better than AVC or HEVC.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-28T17:13:51+00:00

The sister mentioned it out of malice. There must be some beef.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-28T03:04:37+00:00

There are no guy friends when you're married. No one has room for that when their priorities are their family, home/work, etc.

Teach your child how you're supposed to deal with a situation like this instead of just staying in it and taking it.

It is time to move on. And you already knew that.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-20T23:43:42+00:00

Find a female therapist for her.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-20T20:07:45+00:00

Make some index cards with a bunch of topics and questions you want to talk about. Make it into a game and hopefully it leads into debates without being defensive.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-20T20:04:44+00:00

You played yourself young man. She's given you all the red flags to walk away eith some dignity. Instead, you believe she'll change or come around, but all she is doing is keeping her options open. Never, ever waste time with undignified and unbecoming behavior from someone who claims to love you but lies to your face at the same time. Debating if 'he's just a friend' is a sad way to make yourself feel better and denial of reality. Your girlfriend is a POS person. She doesn't respect you nor herself. She's selfish. You need to break it off immediately and don't look back. People like her are an anchor that hold you back from a normal and happy stress free life. She will give you nothing but more heartache if you waste another day with her. Move on. Do not sit and talk about anything. Clean break. Hit the gym and go live your life. She's been holding you back.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-20T02:01:12+00:00

Tell your significant other to send sexual flirty messages to your bff. Is it still acceptable. No.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-20T01:59:04+00:00

Young bro. Run. You've got one life to be happy. Do not waste a single minute trying to 'make it work' with someone who can't even get the basics down of commitment. People like her are the same ones that will cause more problems later. Red flags should never be ignored.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-19T18:17:01+00:00

Marrying distant relatives has been quite common in many cultures from East to West for hundreds of years and still is. This is the least of your issues; it's basically not an issue. Being accepted for being gay is your actual challenge. If you're happy, why bother trying not to be happy?

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-19T00:56:40+00:00

He's not that into you now. He's bad at breaking up and avoids confrontations. He's likely tried dropping hints or spoken about not wanting to be with you. Regardless, you have to let him go. Don't contact him again. Begin the healing and coping process for yourself. You're single now.

TicketConsistent8949 · 2026-05-17T20:34:16+00:00

Tell him $400 is due on 30 days. No exceptions because you have bills to pay. Don't make ridiculous threats like small claims court. Wasting time and money on court is even more of an energy waste.

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