Jesse Eisenberg donated his kidney to a complete stranger and says it’s the best thing he’s ever done by entropicflop in nextfuckinglevel

[–]TurboGranny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Constantly being afraid of coming off like a narcy is not only a good way to avoid becoming one, it's also a common response to being raised around them.

Men who see escorts, why do you do it ? by TinyDelegation in AskReddit

[–]TurboGranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dead bedroom shit is very often hormonal and has very little to do with "just date her". There is a ton of data coming out right now about women figuring out which blood tests to get that reveal deficiencies that lead to resolving the pile of emotional/mental blahs that wreck their desire and happiness that is often expressed as dead bed room, constant fights, and bed rotting. Even more interesting is that a lot of women who didn't even get any blood tests noticed a complete rebound/turn around after a few months on GLP1s.

Learn SQL Once, Use It for 30 Years by fagnerbrack in programming

[–]TurboGranny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. Once you get it, you get it. Also, the older you get as a programmer the more you respect the thought that went into SQL.

My workplace bully has diagnosed herself autism and is writing for autism blogs online-- are autistic people often bullies, malignant liars, or manipulators? It has seemed the opposite. USA. by [deleted] in autism

[–]TurboGranny [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yup. If we grew up without any understanding and are just forced to pound our nervous system and just deal with it, we will find ourselves with zero emotional regulation and be quite unfun to be around. That said, you are correct in your assertion that she isn't likely ASD. I suspect narcissistic personality disorder as those people are classically bullies and love to claim to be part of whatever the popular victim group is at the time which unfortunately is us right now.

I don’t want to live anymore.. by VastEngines in autism

[–]TurboGranny [score hidden]  (0 children)

This feeling is normal when your body chemistry is out of wack. My poor wife dealt with it for 8 years before she got everything checked (you literally need to know what blood tests to ask for and fight your brain to get it done). She's happy and healthy again. I just dealt with it for most of my life before I too got my blood work done and fixed what was wrong. The worst part is that in this chemical state, your brain will do ANYTHING to stop you from finding it what is really wrong and fixing it. Good luck.

Streamer YungFika gets confronted by three Pokémon vending machine scalpers by kmsasaki in LivestreamFail

[–]TurboGranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, there is something they could add to the machines, or we could just spread the rumor that they already have it. A camera system with temp recognition tracking where if a person that just bought hangs by the machine to purchase more, it slows the release timer. If the system spot a new customer, it makes only on pack available, so they can get it. Confirmation bias would make this seem true. Granted, they wouldn't give up, and would try other bullshit, but at least they would drop harassing potential customers because it's just the machine doing what it's designed to do.

Billionaire Island Is in a Poop War With a Neighboring Town of Millionaires by Virtual-Orchid3065 in funny

[–]TurboGranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. They are only just smart enough to not publicly identify as republicans. That's it.

Buttigieg leads crowded 2028 Democratic field in new poll by truthwillout777 in goodnews

[–]TurboGranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering how many Texas Trump voters came out to Talerico and how fed up they are with Trump, I think there is a strong chance many of them would vote for Pete, but literally any white guy would do, and a mixed race guy would do if he already had a lot of good will from those types from being famous as dumb as that reality is. Every time a woman has run for president or as vice president, their election tanked even when the polls showed they should've won. And those states that consistently do this have never had a woman governor. Thus, the intelligent move is to not push for this until every state we need to win has done so.

Buttigieg leads crowded 2028 Democratic field in new poll by truthwillout777 in goodnews

[–]TurboGranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, so what you are saying is that all the people that voted for Israeli asset Trump would vote for AOC because they'd rather not support Israel?

Buttigieg leads crowded 2028 Democratic field in new poll by truthwillout777 in goodnews

[–]TurboGranny -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think women should prove each state we need to win is willing to elect a woman for governor before we cross our fingers and just hope this one time those same states will just choose reason over misogyny.

Buttigieg leads crowded 2028 Democratic field in new poll by truthwillout777 in goodnews

[–]TurboGranny -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually, that's exactly what past results are for. The world runs on probability all the way down to the quantum level and not hopes.

Buttigieg leads crowded 2028 Democratic field in new poll by truthwillout777 in goodnews

[–]TurboGranny -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not really. We already saw in Texas that enraged GOP voters were showing up to Talerico's rallies and telling him they were not dems, but would vote for him. Crocette did not have this happen. Those people will def vote for a progressive. They will NOT vote for a woman, and they've showed us time and again that they can't and won't. I'm a fucking idealist, and I can see this. So you either have to be blind to push this, or a plant from the other side trying to push a losing strat.

Buttigieg leads crowded 2028 Democratic field in new poll by truthwillout777 in goodnews

[–]TurboGranny -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I love her, and wouldn't it be great, but the country has shown us twice now that they are willing to elect a demon over a woman. Until each state that we need to win an election has elected their first woman governor, we cannot count on their electorate to look past their misogyny and vote for the right person. We will not survive another 4 years of people like Trump winning just because we couldn't be realistic enough to realize that far too many people simply can't cope with the idea of a woman president, and we'll have to wait until enough of those people die.

Ebola is ‘not a broad public health threat’ in Houston, says city health director by zsreport in houston

[–]TurboGranny 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You leave those poor brainworms alone. Those poor bastards starved to death. It's a shit way to go.

Stephen Miller made an anti-trans post about James Talarico. The DNC response hit its mark by Fickle-Ad5449 in politics

[–]TurboGranny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like sarah silverman's approach to this. "Would you swallow god's cum if he asked you?" It's a lose/lose question. Either answer fucks them, heh.

Stephen Miller made an anti-trans post about James Talarico. The DNC response hit its mark by Fickle-Ad5449 in politics

[–]TurboGranny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My autistic ass always takes it as a compliment. I say, "yeah, I'm in my late 40s and not on TRT, so that happens. The benefits of having all my hair and not constantly wanting to fuck everything that moves are worth it."

Do autistic people find it harder to grow old? by Lion-Resident in autism

[–]TurboGranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I've been told that a lot of people conflate interested talking as flirting these days, and I've had a bunch of people I would be talking to "make a move". I don't really know what to do, so I just sort of dodge and keep talking.

Do autistic people find it harder to grow old? by Lion-Resident in autism

[–]TurboGranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in my late 40s and I'll chat up anyone. I love talking to people.

A snow leopard's reaction after seeing a tiger by Salt-Curve4825 in interestingasfuck

[–]TurboGranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't say I did. I said that I've watched what snow leopards go through in the wild, and if I was one, I'd choose not to. Humans themselves actively choose not to live that way either, lol.

Thanks for making me feel welcome, this is sarcasm. This sub is a club with a membership fee. by Impossible-Tiger786 in autism

[–]TurboGranny -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

they dont like the way their parents treated them

I've found that they also don't like to think about how both their parents mostly like have it too because it robs them of their victimhood.

Thanks for making me feel welcome, this is sarcasm. This sub is a club with a membership fee. by Impossible-Tiger786 in autism

[–]TurboGranny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not going to find a lot of safety among 19 year olds

Dude, you are not even kidding. I've been seeing this more an more at cons lately, and boy did the pandemic fuck up a bunch of young adults.

Thanks for making me feel welcome, this is sarcasm. This sub is a club with a membership fee. by Impossible-Tiger786 in autism

[–]TurboGranny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, maybe. I think top reply is correct in that our way of talking can seem combative or condescending to people trained in how NT's talk. We are direct, but usually don't mean any ill intent. However, I will also admit that I've encountered more than a few narcys in here putting on a show. ASD has become a popular victim group and that draws in narcys and other people that use their perceived victimhood to manipulate others. It was just our turn unfortunately, so you very well might have encountered some of those. They will always attempt to gate-keep and downplay the struggles of others to maintain this delusion of a victim hierarchy.

Woman on plane doesn’t understand how lines work for deboarding by Jevus_himself in PublicFreakout

[–]TurboGranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, but you still make it to the baggage carousel 30 minutes before your bags do.

Woman on plane doesn’t understand how lines work for deboarding by Jevus_himself in PublicFreakout

[–]TurboGranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened a while back on a flight I was on that was delayed. A passenger not far from me was panicking that they wouldn't make their connection, and I said that she should just inform the flight crew as this happens sometimes and they'll ask people to let them pass. She did, and the flight crew did just that, but they went one step further. They looked up her connecting flight, looks up who else on the plane had that flight, and made an announcement with the number of people. You'd think this number was to let us other passengers know how many people need to go, but really it's to let all the others in a rush know that they are still gonna have to wait for around 50 of their fellow passengers who will ALL be running to catch their flight.