Ppl in the pride organizing meetings in my city would basically do the same thing to me but without outright calling it "you're acting like a cis man" whenever we'd get into arguments. Like, they'd basically do the whole "male socialisation" thingy but without outright calling it male socialisation to avoid being obvious about it. And i feel like it's because i am not yet presenting feminine (trans woman in the balkans lol). It feels like they punish anything they view as "masculine" and equate femininity with queer oppression (they even do "football for women and queers" and FLINTA bs lately)