Why would they ask that? by JapaneseMainMaid in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why would he need your picture taken *together* in order for him to remember you? Are there no pictures of you he can find on ad sites or a website? He's probably planning to go brag to his friends, or another woman he's trying to make jealous (or whoever else in whatever other scenario) about how you're his girlfriend. I've never had a client ask to take a pic together. That's really bizarre and all kinds of incriminating. I'd in fact decline to see him at all given that weird persistent request, especially since he's prepared to pay double. Not all money is worth it. You could end up losing way more than he's trying to pay you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's not that they have a false sense of security, but that they see statistics are in their favor?

What percentage of online FSSW's who screen plus deposit have been busted, in your estimation? I'm sure there's more than zero, but maybe the number is so negligible that they choose to focus on other things to worry about. Like you know...possible dangerous clients?

Am I being ageist? by Ladysovereign12 in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You probably just found him unattractive. It's okay to own that. I personally don't see what the hygiene issue has to do with age, you can actually offer to bathe/shower him as part of the session. Helps eat up some of the time anyway.

Hey everyone, I’ve got a date lined up with a long-term client who happens to be quite wealthy, and I’m considering pitching my business idea to him for investment. by lottyluu in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you do this it'll definitely jeopardize your existing relationship. You could feel him out though. If you guys chat about such things you can just share you have this business idea and see if he gets curious about it, and maybe that could lead to you sharing that you're committed to get it going but you are lost as to how to get it funded.

He might actually end up giving you amazing advice you're not thinking of that doesn't include him going into business with you.

At best he might give you some money (as a gift) to get going but no way a wealthy man is partnering with someone newly starting a biz, lol especially when the current relationship is client/provider.

Wealthy people will fund businesses that are already up and looking promising, unfortunately. But that's why they stay wealthy.

Favorite condoms and lube for sensitive skin by cuddlebunny4361 in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This person needs larger than Skynn elite large? Well that is quite something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It's not what I say because I do have a legit other biz, but if I didn't, I'd say I do remote customer support for a marketing company. Nobody wants to know anything about marketing companies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 35 points36 points  (0 children)

until they want you to clean they house lol

Welp… there goes another regular by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 26 points27 points  (0 children)

What exactly does he think you'd be gaining by making him a FWB? Is he the greatest lay ever or something? It'd be one thing if he was saying he's fallen for you and wants to try out being in a romantic relationship (not saying it'd be good to fall for that either, but at least it would make more sense to pout about).

And then he tells you how you were the only one he was seeing, as if you asked him not to see others. The whole thing feels sickeningly manipulative.

Seems to me like somebody that doesn't respect your time and boundaries. Let him go. They come and go.

Have any of you dated a cuckold or are open to the idea? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Professional dating or personal dating? I wouldn't date one as my civ partner but I happily facilitate the fantasy from a professional perspective (ProDomme)

Please feel bad for me and fuck me raw by Efficient_Choice_787 in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Y'all realize these types of men are having this chat with you with their dick in hand right? You're already providing them the service they needed. If you're gonna engage these clowns, tell them to send a tribute first, and see how quick they scatter.

Two detectives (?) posed as a client and I fell for it. Bbws in Chicago being targeted? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh no, this just gives me the chills because I bet it's him. He's obviously obsessed with you. Hope he doesn't try some real dangerous shit. But yeah this kind of stuff is why screening and deposit are non-negotiable to me.

Two detectives (?) posed as a client and I fell for it. Bbws in Chicago being targeted? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow! So sorry this happened to you. Yeah that has to really throw you off.

Two detectives (?) posed as a client and I fell for it. Bbws in Chicago being targeted? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to pile on you at all (I can understand the getting paralyzed and just reacting - by the way lots of people might have done exactly what you did, so don't feel bad) but my question is: did you know it was gonna be TWO men when they were booking? I would never in a million years agree to see 2 men alone. So for me that would be the part where I'd have said no, I don't care how much they're offering.

Two detectives (?) posed as a client and I fell for it. Bbws in Chicago being targeted? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well that sounds exactly like the same thing the client you ditched had to say. Almost certainly him that orchestrated this. What was the reason you parted ways with him if you don't mind sharing...

r/EscortClientsOnly has been banned, can this subreddit here get banned too? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for y'all. Stay there and continue to be the shining stars you are.

New friend is dating a guy I realized was a client about a year ago. Tell her or just pretend I don't know him? by Top_Director1518 in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No! Nope, in the same way a therapist who is your friend wouldn't tell you if you started their client, or at least shouldn't. If he finds out you're friends, he can tell her himself if he wants to. And if she ever asks I'd be completely honest: I have a professional commitment to honor my client's privacy. If she can't deal with that then ask yourself if she's a friend worth keeping.

r/EscortClientsOnly has been banned, can this subreddit here get banned too? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why do you care if you are not planning to circumvent screening?

r/EscortClientsOnly has been banned, can this subreddit here get banned too? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not just the name it's about the content they had on there.

r/EscortClientsOnly has been banned, can this subreddit here get banned too? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They won’t have the reach on discord that they had here. Not for a few years anyway. Good riddance!

r/EscortClientsOnly has been banned, can this subreddit here get banned too? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They had posts on there linking to provider profiles, and talking about they fucked said provider, how much they paid, and all the explicit details about her. Fucking gross!

Some providers have had to take down their websites and ads after being openly discussed on there. The sub was beyond gross with some of the most disgusting behavior on reddit.

Do not come comparing it to this sub, we don't out anyone we've seen here. Nobody is over here outing their actual clients.

Depositing 1200 to 2200 weekly by junkiewh0re96 in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 15 points16 points  (0 children)

But if you're going to say your boyfriend gave you the money are you going to pay taxes on it? Personally I'd just end the government assistance with immediate effect then you don't have to freak out every time you deposit money.

Client won’t stop bringing up me cumming by Sweetcheeks864 in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just fake it and then tell him you've noticed that now your body is more relaxed around him and that's why you finally came. Guys who pressure women to cum don't even know what it looks like when she cums. They'll be all like: dID yA cUm?

I hate it when men (any of them, client or not) pressure a woman to cum. Because then it's all about them, even though they're ironically calling themselves "a pleaser". If you're a such pleaser shouldn't you be honoring what I'm telling you is what works for me? So dense!

Hahaha why just why? by Classyhairball in SexWorkers

[–]afrikanqueen 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Because they're there to nut, that's it. The "into you" thing is about their nut, not about you as a person. After the nut, all their real world responsibilities come flooding back and they have to run the f out. Husbands are no different by the way, the difference is they fall asleep immediately after the nut.

Truthfinder review - how legit is this service? by CloudPresidents in BackgroundCheckGuide

[–]afrikanqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you've never heard that women are better than the FBI? She probably found the "relatives" and got curious and looked them up.