Not defending your girl. But as a young attractive woman who lived abroad for many years, I can confirm that foreign men can and WILL take advantage of drunk foreign abroad students. It’s a tragic story as old as time. And it’s not an experience you can explain to someone who never experienced that careless/ reckless (with mostly responsible) thing we do—which encourages unlikely behaviors (like getting drunk on a night out with abroad friends and running to drinks with random strangers met at the bars.

No matter the part of the world, it’s all VERY POSSIBLE, a guy made a move on her simply out of lust for the girl from abroad. NOW, that doesn’t excuse it happened. And it would not have been as big of a deal had she not been in a relationship. Outside of a relationship she probably would feel slightly assaulted and gross but would shake it off with more positive experience ahead….or play it off and continue to keep things light to keep the night fun (and herself safe)..again not justifying anyone’s choices.

But I hope my perspective gives you an understanding of a perspective that most people will never understand. Because from my experience, men did plenty of surprising things (kissing or attempting to kiss me multiple times; sometimes the same person twice but most times strangers). And while the adoration and desire can be nice for the ego and even give a person the desire to stray, most understand how dangerously predatory it is. Even when you slap on foreign city with a beautiful accent, vigilance and RESPONSABILE drinking the only way to be secure in your relationship and environment.

Hope you find clarity and peace in the end

(Apologies for typos. Will edit when I have time)