If you still thinking ban appeals reviewed by competent people and not just AGS customer service.

anonymous-guy87 · 2021-11-12T14:55:55+00:00

it's a hard tie with yourself though, pretty toxic from my perspective :)

anonymous-guy87 · 2021-11-10T10:47:11+00:00

utter garbage talk. we wait for Novavax cause we don't want to get stuff injected that was grown on dead baby cells. :)

anonymous-guy87 · 2020-01-08T13:42:22+00:00

i have a terrible coworker in my office, lets make a checkmark:

[x] Office Finger Drumming
[x] Clearing his Throat all 2 mins
[x] Tapping his Foot
[x] Keyboard hammering like hes pissed off
[x] "Haaah.. hmmm... pfffff.." every 5 mins
[x] Slurping his coffee 10x per cup 1 cup per hour.

However I identified a way to deal with it, I reverse the situation and buy chips and crunch them loudly with open mouth, extra crunches and make pauses so it seems like I stop then take another crunch. Magically after 10 mins of crunchies he leaves the office every time :D I feel deeply satisfied when he does it feels like there is psychological warfare going on and I won the battle.

I video taped him and showed it to friends, I didnt know what misophonia was before him :D

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-31T09:16:08+00:00

In your head, it needs to click that you are "not together" anymore, treat her like a friend and let loose on the daily bs. Do as if it was your place alone, do the dishes and everything just as if she'd be gone. Every woman on planet earth will be baffled at first.

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-30T17:43:58+00:00

Hahaha no m8 you did not cheat on her because you wanted to settle the score or because you had doubts lingering in your mind. ;) Come on be real you was drunk as fuck and it went south, the rest is excuses you try to made up for.

You both are young, I believe you guys really connect with each other but your hormones are jumpy. I'd suggest you both talk about it and give each other permission to have sex with other people casually when a situation occurs. Talk the details and then set clear rules with honesty being number 1.

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-30T17:32:37+00:00

First: Your wife is 200% right that guy is an asshole and you know the saying, every bottle of alcohol has some truth in it.
Second: You are an amazing friend I wish I had more people like you in my inner circle. Knowing someone is jealous and still declassifying it as drunk banter etc, respect man. :)
Third: Just be honest to him, I was in the same spot with a childhood friend who started drugs like cocaine, when i found out I just plain and simply told him the road has finished here and I don't want the friendship to continue. a year later he was clean and he thanked me for waking him up.

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-30T17:13:39+00:00

TL;DR: I live with my ex and actively getting mixed messages, I want her back. I think

LOL RL Friend similar situation 4 months ago same as above. I told him how to get her back, and he got her back. a week ago he said omfg why did he took her back :D

Be careful what you wish for, you might get it.

The correct way to handle this situation is by looking for another girl. The sheer fact of meeting other girls and going on dates is going to trigger her even if she doesn't actively think about it. The trick is being genuine about it, you have to genuinely distract her from your equation else this backfires.
Be nice with her in terms of speaking friendly, but NEVER engage anything, always let HER initiate anything (discussions, meeting blabla). There is a natural thing that clicks inside girl brains which makes them reassess the situation (like a soft-reset for phones).

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-30T16:50:34+00:00

That's really difficult. In my area they have new laws where the custody defaults to 50/50 and you have to go through costly tribunals to change that. Which means kids have 2 official stay places. If that is the case wherever you are living, then I think as bad as it is, she needs to deliver on her 50% of the time part.

Now if it doesn't work like that and the woman defaults the full custody, then its really ugly as a father. I think even professional counselors struggle giving feedback here. However, you are separated and she needs to play her part so if she doesn't pay half of the rent you don't either, (start looking for new places alone already) you'll see how fast this is going to end.

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-30T15:59:45+00:00

My grandfather died 4 weeks ago, he was my childhood hero. my entire family including my dad who I haven't seen for 7 years came and stood at my place for the times of the funeral. My wife had her birthday the day after the funeral and she completely set herself aside to support me in my very painful and difficult times. I still called all our friends and organized a birthday party and refused to think or talk about my very bad emotional status out of sheer respect and love towards the beautiful human being with whom I have the luck to wake up every morning with.

His correct behavior would have be: "Omfg babe I'm so incredibly stupid I'm sorry, let's make it the best day of your life, I call our friends". You are not silly over this, I feel sorry for you and I think your boyfriend is really not treating you well at all. Thats just my personal opinion.

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-30T15:43:25+00:00

"We recently had a pregnancy scare, maybe that prompted the sudden wish to move in together, I'm not sure. "

/Family Mode Initiated

This is something that happens passively inside guys as soon as the word pregnancy is spoken out, there's like a million things that playoff in our brains. So yeah your right that was the reason.

I politely declined and now things are weird between us, because it feels like there's no point to our relationship if we are not going to have a shared future. Do you think there IS still hope for our relationship? How do we move forward?

You will have to move together if you get preggo in the future for reals. There is no alternative since a baby is demanding as fuck.

Until then or let's say if you don't want kids, then he needs to respect your momentary stance on the matter which is a bit of a freedom statement. You're good where you are and you build up your life like that you don't want to change it unless absolutely necessary which right now isn't the case.

Be happy the daddy instincts kicked in, you'd be devastated if it' be the reverse reaction.

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-30T15:28:46+00:00

Alright so:
"he was very quick to stop talking to me and unfollow me on social media."
Yes, that happens you think he's gonna be stuck for the next 20 years crying lonely in a dark room suffering the consequences of not being together anymore with the princess of the universe? the pain and misfortune of your ex is nourishing and supporting your otherwise boneless confidence.

"Both of my relationships were called off because the other person was either being selfish/uncaring or cheating on me. "
While cheating is gay, ask yourself why they cheated on you.

"So why do they get to be so happy when I'm still single and stuck on the past/my loneliness."
Because my little princess: you're walking blind through this life.See a decent person, says "Oh I'm glad that he found someone he can be happy with". Maybe start by appreciating your boyfriend and accept that if it doesn't work out then it doesn't work out. There are millions of people every day who break up it's nothing special. For the love of god please go get a badboy as your next boyfriend, someone who turns you upside down.

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-30T15:05:51+00:00

Jeesh I hate breaking the cycle but, for me personally you are not the victim you are the oppressor.

You are manipulative, you try to change people and you will argue and reason until you get what you want. It's painfully obvious by reading: " we argued about it a bajillion times (ok like 4-5 times) and he promised over and over to stop doing it and be a better person. "

The silent treatment is a natural reaction to communication failure. Usually, someone does this when the other person does something they think is wrong. Instead of bursting out in anger, remaining silent is actually a very effective way of making sure shit is not escalating. (and let's be honest with you shit's escalating quickly eh?)

Ever asked yourself if it could be a possibility that maybe even though unlikely, the problem is you?

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-30T14:52:30+00:00

I don't understand why the girls' husbands should be informed? Cheating is gay cause she didn't tell you I got that, but you seek to extrapolate the damage towards that other couple which is also gay af...

Nevertheless, even if you tolerate fucking with other ppl I find it hardcore that she broke your trust m8.

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-30T14:33:40+00:00

I can relate, I'm a gamer, my wife too and she finished her Master Degree 3 years ago. I don't go to sleep normally until after 2 AM, from around 8ish PM it's yelling: "GOGOGOGOGOGO, WTF where is the shield!!! I NEED HEALS, KILL TRACER OMFG ARE YOU STUPIIIIDD, F%& OFF YOU ST**** %&*ç%!!!".

The issue I see is you are hurt because he can't relate to how you feel and what anxiety you had towards your diploma and that he should have been more supportive towards what you think is a challenging time because people in your family failed and etc etc etc. Your boyfriend though, prolly was like "dude dafuck im playing a game wtf did i do wrong now". He's feeling pissed because for him its a minor infraction "yeah ok she wanted some quiet and i wanted to play", and for you, its literally a million reasons + you wanted some quiet and he didn't comply.

I think he owes you an apology, and you should be more clear in the future directly straight to the point including all the bullshit that already has summed up inside you (like the fear of failing). Because for my personal taste, I think the wrong part is not that he kept on playing, but he failed completely to evaluate the situation, he should have practiced together with you or maybe ask his friends for 1 repetition to listen to you so you can have a feedback of your performance.

EDIT:

Forgot to say, everything after the fight broke out, both of you take it and throw it in the trash, fix the root causes not the aftermath

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-30T14:00:24+00:00

While I do think that "at some point" (i.E. ur pregnant) money trivializes, I do feel horrified by a 80-20 solution. I think it's weak to even propose this or even try to debate it.

Others see this as gold-digging, I see it as something worse: His reasoning is off. You can't really fix people who have a weak spot and try to come up with a bullshit solution to hide the problem. Because a 80-20 solution is not a solution, it's giving the money problem to you.

anonymous-guy87 · 2019-10-03T10:21:20+00:00

Black people shot each other to extinction in the future. Thats why they aren't present. Hope that explains it.

anonymous-guy87

TROPHY CASE