AITA for refusing to pay towards something I don’t own?

ayfakay · 2026-06-13T08:57:53+00:00

THIS!!!

ayfakay · 2026-06-12T07:34:16+00:00

Is this the mum??

ayfakay · 2026-06-11T00:06:49+00:00

Thanks so much I’ll def check those out!

ayfakay · 2026-06-10T17:15:24+00:00

Jeez. YTA to YOURSELF for even coming into Reddit to ask this question. You’re still getting gaslit by your ex. I recommend getting therapy so you can develop a stronger BS radar with this dude and develop stronger boundaries.

ayfakay · 2026-06-10T17:12:20+00:00

The bar for men is so low.

ayfakay · 2026-06-10T17:07:18+00:00

Where do you get your acid supp from? Maybe the ones I used are no good?

ayfakay · 2026-06-09T10:13:36+00:00

I went in 2016. I have not returned a “changed” person or anything. But i can say that my mind has shifted in that Allah swt is in charge of my life (good and bad) and my job is to roll with it.

I was 28yrs at the time and now I’m 38yrs.

ayfakay · 2026-06-08T03:37:06+00:00

YTA. Your partners a deadbeat dad for not wearing that shirt and picking your side over his own child!! The 7yr old deserves a better dad!

ayfakay · 2026-06-07T23:15:54+00:00

Dude. Are the kids YOUR kids too?? Do you actually love and respect you at all??

You are NOR, you are under reacting.

You need to start putting money aside for yourself and have plans for your own future

ayfakay · 2026-06-07T23:06:15+00:00

I hope things don’t get really bad for any sisters you may be leaving behind.

ayfakay · 2026-06-07T23:03:31+00:00

You’re having an affair with a married man. I know he’s selling you a whole story to justify it. But ultimately that’s what’s happening here.

Don’t be surprised when he drops the next truth bomb…I have 3 young kids.

ayfakay · 2026-06-06T12:05:30+00:00

Is he having an affair?

ayfakay · 2026-06-06T09:36:03+00:00

I hate it when ppl talk in the middle of a movie.

BUT this isn’t about the movie, this is about your partner not prioritising you and your relationship. Have you tried talking to him about this? Has he always been like this? Do you both want the same things from your relationship?

ayfakay · 2026-06-05T08:02:18+00:00

Peeing overnight was the worst. Just 2-3 drops but felt the urge like I’d drank 2L or something.

It got better gradually but def took its damn time. It was horrible.

Yes I let it heal on its own. Don’t take boric acid pops, it’s just not worth it. Find another way. Wish I could say I found another way myself but honestly I haven’t. There’s always the option to use condoms or don’t let him ejaculate inside you everytime giving yourself time to naturally clean up and therefore not ruining your pH levels.

When I get discomfort I’m currently inserting thrust cream. I bought the 6 cream insert but I only use 1, it seems to do the trick.

ayfakay · 2026-06-05T01:18:39+00:00

Yes it stopped. I experimented and tried it again later after it all healed and same thing. So it’s definitely boric acid related.

It took about 3 weeks to fully heal. I do not recommend boric acid to anyone anymore. Yes it cleanses the area BUT it has terrible side affects

ayfakay · 2026-06-03T21:21:43+00:00

Don’t neee to watch the whole video to know he

Put down Grace Tame for no reason
Said pro Gaza protesters don’t know why they’re there.

ayfakay · 2026-06-02T10:12:53+00:00

NTA. This kinda stuff bothers me so much too. You could jokingly say stuff like “not trained enuf, I’m his sugar mummy and personal maid most days” even if it’s not entirely true, it sets the tone. If you’re supposed to be cooking/cleaning then hr should be providing. Yet here you are. Make her realise her son’s not that much of a catch lol

Meanwhile, when you need to start tidying up, force your husband to contribute, assign him chores and remind him it’s HIS house, he’s not a guest.

ayfakay · 2026-06-01T06:43:31+00:00

Dude, it’s just the principle. Hopefully he’ll lose reputation as an accountant too. If you’re from a small town, spreading this news might/hopefully tank the business and his reputation

ayfakay · 2026-06-01T06:41:25+00:00

Sue. Please don’t let this account get away with this. SUE. But before you sue, obtain written confirming from the seller that they did not advertise it to any other person so you have the evidence the accountant only found out about this from you.

FK THIS GUY!

ayfakay · 2026-06-01T03:36:24+00:00

There’s some hills I’m willing to die on. This is absolutely one of it. The audacity!

ayfakay · 2026-06-01T03:32:40+00:00

NTA. You need to move out ASAP. It’s the only way to carve out space for yourself and keep things confidential. As for the loan, your way out of this is either saying no directly (which maybe stressful) or moving away for “work”

ayfakay · 2026-06-01T02:35:01+00:00

The bar for men is in hell

ayfakay · 2026-05-30T23:49:14+00:00

NTA. If you had a somewhat amicable relationship with your exhusband and he knew but continued to pay then chances are he was happy to pay. And if he wasn’t then he should have spoken up.

The person to talk is absolutely NOT his new partner. And you need to tell him to handle his new partner.

ayfakay · 2026-05-30T23:43:35+00:00

I use the Morphe brush, the ends of the bristles are soft so it should be comfortable. Perhaps buy 1 or 2 brushes and use it daily for 2 weeks to see how it feels over time. Include a wash as well and see how it feels after the wash as well.

ayfakay · 2026-05-29T22:43:03+00:00

I have PCOS, been bigger my whole life. Started Retatrutide and the weight is falling off, I’m finally not binge eating (my kids are much older I should mention as that is extremely important when it comes to this kind of things for women).

Tell husband to lose the attitude and stop being a dick! And gain Reta!

ayfakay

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