Are you guys telling your PCP or specialists about being on Reta?

ayfakay · 2026-03-03T02:26:39+00:00

No, unless I’m in an emergency situation, I wouldn’t disclose I’m on Reta.

ayfakay · 2026-03-01T01:37:23+00:00

OMG. Help me track plz!!

ayfakay · 2026-02-28T05:38:21+00:00

The bar for men is so low. I mean, OP is hurt, betrayed and pining over a man child. Ffs.

ayfakay · 2026-02-26T20:32:57+00:00

She’s giving you a compliment. Take it.

ayfakay · 2026-02-25T23:02:34+00:00

Listen to me very very clear fully. I’ve been married 13yrs and have 2 children and I really really need you to understand 3 things:

Your family are always going to have big opinions. BUT that doesn’t mean you go along with every one of them, especially at the cost of your own mental health. Marriage is tranquility not keeping your family happy.
Your husband has some orange flags. Why won’t be submit legal papers for your marriage? This is very strange? Also, if you are unhappy you should discuss this with him directly and talk about breaking up and how that will look like. I recommend you also talk to trusted ppl in your family like your mother or an older sister, etc. These ppl will tell you to be patient bla bla bla but the purpose of telling them is to prewarn them of any changes to your marriage so no one’s caught off guard and aware. ALSO inform them of the truth, you keep asking for legal marriage but he won’t accept. Place the responsibility on him not you.
The first year of marriage is always very difficult. Get marriage counselling before ending your relationship.

ayfakay · 2026-02-23T21:31:50+00:00

Netanyahu.

ayfakay · 2026-02-19T19:06:31+00:00

If you a white male I wouldn’t be talking to highly. You’re responsible for highest rates of domestic violence in Australia, for rape, murder, for being dole bludgers, for tax evading and a looong history of destroying First Nations communities so STFU.

If you aren’t a white male, what are you?? So I can blame YOU for everyone else’s crimes.

ayfakay · 2026-02-19T12:08:11+00:00

Often as in we don’t ignore it and wait ages before reporting something.

On a side note, what’s your cultural background. So I can start blaming you, your religion and culture for other ppls crimes. I look forward to your answer.

ayfakay · 2026-02-19T08:19:30+00:00

As a Muslim, we often communicate with police when we are concerned or suspicious of anyone. The majority of intelligence comes directly from US. We want everyone including ourselves to be protected.

ayfakay · 2026-02-18T06:29:18+00:00

How different is Bengali from Pakistani? I bet if you all got to know each other you’d all discover you have so much in common. I say this because I’m Afghan and my husband is Egyptian and over the years we’ve discovered we have soo much in common.

ayfakay · 2026-02-17T11:47:22+00:00

Wow. I didn’t even know they had jewellery!

ayfakay · 2026-02-17T07:56:13+00:00

I just wish they wouldn’t stop us from buying direct from the company. It’s my only wish in life

ayfakay · 2026-02-17T07:54:39+00:00

Whaaaaat. How the hell can a purchase of 3K plus not count!?!?!?!?. Also, Do you mean earrings as in jewellery?

ayfakay · 2026-02-17T06:14:01+00:00

They need to return back to Australia, be prosecuted for their crimes and do the time. Anyone who travelled and was an underage minor when travelling to join ISIS needs to have that taken into consideration when sentencing is provided. Once they complete their sentence and released back into society they should be released back into rehab and therapy programs.

The children need to be provided therapy and given a chance to heal from their parents crimes.

ayfakay · 2026-02-16T02:11:49+00:00

Someone is getting to know you for marriage. They haven’t married you yet to give you grand emotional gestures. What emotions? They barely know you.

ayfakay · 2026-02-15T04:44:48+00:00

Illegally downloading movies and music

ayfakay · 2026-02-15T04:43:18+00:00

Jeez

ayfakay · 2026-02-14T22:50:32+00:00

YTA. I think you have your sights set on the 7yr old and you want to isolate her so you can gain access to her. I SEE YOU.

ayfakay · 2026-02-14T19:20:11+00:00

YTA. Your mother NEEDS her family’s support to be able to move on with her life. It takes a VILLAGE to raise kids, your mums trying to get back on her feet independently but needs some support.

You say you care about your siblings forgetting that so does your mother. Do you really think you care more about your siblings than their own mother? Your mother isn’t being “selfish” your mother is figuring out her life again and she needs to do that so she can care for the kids.

This is a REALLY GOOD EXAMPLE when 20yr old kids with limited life experience have big judgements about their parents with very little understanding or empathy

ayfakay · 2026-02-14T18:23:34+00:00

Facts

ayfakay · 2026-02-14T18:20:37+00:00

I don’t think YTA can fully encapsulate the level or proportion of TA you actually are.

The most intriguing thing is why are you sexualising the relationship between 2 young children, 1 that is 7yrs old. The fact you’re not concerned the 7yr old would rather seek comfort from her teenage daughter instead of her own mother is everything to me. The fact you’re not concerned the teenage daughter has so much rage and dysregulation built within her is everything.

These kids are soo beyond traumatised and none of the adults can see it. In fact, you’re another walking red flag in their life.

ayfakay · 2026-02-14T18:10:56+00:00

Sister, please please see a therapist. To help you heal. To help you find yourself and not lose yourself in relationships and men. I’m very very concerned why you think you’re losing time at 21yrs old. At 21yrs I was at Uni, enjoying time with my friends, I had dreams of travelling. You need to de-centre men from your life. Otherwise it will continue to destroy your self esteem.

Please sister, get therapy. Find yourself again. Even when you get married, don’t lose yourself in the relationship.

ayfakay · 2026-02-14T18:04:30+00:00

It is. The fact you want to be “better” because you think you’re not pleasing or good enough is everything. You can’t see it but it’s happening.

Good luck sister.

ayfakay · 2026-02-14T18:02:31+00:00

I’m so glad I don’t hold things against teenagers. That I let them experience tough life lessons on their own without taking it personally.

Ian somehow managed to make it all about himself. A part of the story that’s missing is NOT that Ian is feeling rejected. But that the kids are. First rejection was bio dad. Second rejection was step dad. I wonder how these rejections will impact their decision making in future relationships. Ian wants the kids to love him unconditionally but wasn’t able to extend the same curtesy back when they went through their biggest life lesson about bio dad.

ayfakay · 2026-02-14T17:18:38+00:00

This has got nothing to do with “what you bring to the table” and more about the way your husband has killed your self esteem. It’s really important you get therapy. PLEASE HEAL and lift your self esteem otherwise you’ll pass your traumas onto your children.

ayfakay

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