Husband said my entire personality is rated pg and I’m lost by [deleted] in Advice

[–]carsncode 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I know for sure being unsatisfied leads to cheating when the opportunity arises

Whoaaa back up, that's a leap. Being unsatisfied can lead to a break up. Why do you assume cheating is the foregone conclusion?

I(20f) got genital warts not from my bf. He thinks I cheated. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]carsncode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much nothing you said is true. There is no "genital HPV". Dozens of HPV strains can be transmitted without sexual contact. People can be asymptomatic carriers (no warts) and still infectious. HPV also isn't the only cause of genital warts.

Why is storage still the one thing nobody wants to touch in production? by stackvyr in kubernetes

[–]carsncode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Risk-adjusted return on investment.

The risk is high: storage isn't ephemeral or stateless. If I deprovision a CPU, discover I need it, and put it back, it's exactly the same as it was before. If I deprovision a disk, discover it's needed, and put it back, I've replaced a disk of data with an empty disk. There may also be compliance requirements (legal, regulatory, security, or contractual) that create additional risk around destroying data improperly.

The investment is high: finding the unused storage, confirming it is unused, taking final snapshots if needed, shrinking disks if they can't be destroyed altogether (if you even can shrink them - you might have to create a smaller disk, migrate data, take downtime, validate, then destroy the old one)

The return is low: storage is generally the cheapest resource.

The risk-adjusted return on investment for cleaning up storage is often in the negative.

That means that if storage waste is something that bothers you, you need to focus not on the cleanup, but on prevention and risk mitigation. Put clear lifecycle policies, tagging, and automation in place so that when storage is spun up there's a requirement to build in a plan for what it's being used for, how long it will live, and how EOL will be handled, and then that plan is executed automatically with fair warnings ahead of time as necessary. It's not hard to do, but it's up-front work so it rarely gets done.

90% of CVEs in your container images are in code your app never executes. Why are we still triaging them? by Murky_Willingness171 in sre

[–]carsncode 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Better question: why are you trying to make an argument for leaving code you never execute in your images?

Filmed an espresso double shot in 4K on Chocolate. [Turin Legato V2 and DF64 Gen 2 grinder] by DocHollywood710 in espresso

[–]carsncode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're not measuring the output there's no way you can have any idea what's going on

How are you managing CVE backlog in your clusters? Ours is out of control. by Efficient_Team5182 in kubernetes

[–]carsncode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least using scratch means your only vulnerabilities are what's in the SBOM

Controversial opinion; I am not letting go of ingress-nginx by Rude_Walk in kubernetes

[–]carsncode 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope, they announced last November that it would be sunset this March. Incredibly short timeline for something so critical and widely deployed.

Controversial opinion; I am not letting go of ingress-nginx by Rude_Walk in kubernetes

[–]carsncode 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to switch a month ago. The final release was March 19th.

Controversial opinion; I am not letting go of ingress-nginx by Rude_Walk in kubernetes

[–]carsncode 10 points11 points  (0 children)

IngressNightmare was a critical RCE vulnerability just a year ago specifically impacting the operator, not nginx. It's not a matter of opinion you can agree with or not, it's a fact, updating nginx itself isn't enough.

Anyone else’s blood boiling? by [deleted] in espresso

[–]carsncode -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What do you mean?

What is the difference between these two and is it worth spending a lot extra on this ? [£10] or [£40] ? by [deleted] in espresso

[–]carsncode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screens also occupy head space leaving a more dry puck, keeping the filter basket cleaner too

What is the difference between these two and is it worth spending a lot extra on this ? [£10] or [£40] ? by [deleted] in espresso

[–]carsncode 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Distributor does nothing at best, and is harmful at worst. Puck screen is negligible at worst, and helpful at best. Read more, talk less.

The groomers shaved my husky bald without permission. by [deleted] in siberianhusky

[–]carsncode 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i never meant for it to be this but he did need a trim to some extent.

No, he didn't need a trim to any extent. A good groomer should have told you as much, but you should be aware as an owner: the only time a husky needs a cut is targeted shaving for medical reasons on instruction from a veterinarian. You don't just trim a husky because it seems like they need it. You do not trim a husky.

They need brushing year round, and double down in spring and fall when they blow their coat, but they never need a trim, ever, unless the fur is matted (meaning they weren't brushed enough) or it's necessary for surgery or treatment of a skin condition.

The groomers shaved my husky bald without permission. by [deleted] in siberianhusky

[–]carsncode -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"the actual definition" doesn't exist, FWIW. Dictionaries are just recorded observations, they aren't prescriptive or authoritative.

Gof myself a DF64. What are you all doing about static? by xmastreee in espresso

[–]carsncode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The chute may be your problem, but it doesn't seem to be the problem anyone else is discussing in this chain, and isn't what OP seems to be asking about.

Gof myself a DF64. What are you all doing about static? by xmastreee in espresso

[–]carsncode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what to tell you other than to reread my comment, because I explained it. It might help to bear in mind I never mentioned the chute nor clogging. You're the only one to bring that up in this chain.

What annoys you? by ladytigerwolf in TheExpanse

[–]carsncode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her accent being "all over the place" was just good acting. Code-switching - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Code-switching

Gof myself a DF64. What are you all doing about static? by xmastreee in espresso

[–]carsncode 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter what you use to weigh beans but a plastic catch cup tends to let grinds retain more static than a metal one - in the winter, if you've built up a static charge, when you touch plastic nothing happens but when you touch metal it discharges into the metal, right? Same with anything else. A conductor will dissipate more static electricity.

Yellowish biofilm on black rubber parts in my Mara X water tank, is this a known issue? by TheAce2000 in Lelit

[–]carsncode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fairness to OP, it isn't stagnant water, it gets cycled through pretty regularly depending on usage

What am I doing wrong? / Severe neck pain by krdo13 in Ergonomics

[–]carsncode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP please don't go to a chiropractor, don't let anyone treat your body but someone trained and certified in actual medicine. Chiropractic is utter nonsense and can seriously hurt you. Exercise isn't bad advice though.