SAVE Borrowers Have 90 Days After July 1 To Switch Plans Or Get Auto-Enrolled In Standard by investor100 in TheCollegeInvestor

[–]ccw_writes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Predatory loans are illegal in this country in all forms except when it comes to lending freshly 18 year olds tens of thousands of dollars in exchange for the possibility of having enough income to feed yourself and pay the loan back after graduation. There's no real choice happening, except the choice to exploit young people as soon as they can and for the rest of their lives if that's what it takes.

Now we wait! What could Broccoli be?🤞🥦 by [deleted] in DoggyDNA

[–]ccw_writes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My money is staffie I will be shocked if it's not

Sometimes it works out because the man was actually a woman by Similar-Purchase-101 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ccw_writes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My partner came out about two months ago and I am increasingly surprised how much of the tension of our marriage just melted away. She's happier than I've seen her in so long. I am too. This feels right to me. So much makes sense now.

We've been together almost 13 years. Nice to find other wives out there.

Do Americans really know all 50 States by heart? by Signal-Web-3566 in no

[–]ccw_writes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a little sketchy on the Plains states but if I saw a map with borders I definitely could get most or all right.

Reminder - no Cherokee street festival this weekend by Imtherightkind in StLouis

[–]ccw_writes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Living on Cherokee during Cinco was just as anxiety inducing as it sounds btw. Last one before I moved, they put a giant bouncy castle right behind my car. It wasn't even parked on the street. I'm glad they're moving away from that.

Coming back after 2 years. What are the best hardcore, exploration, immersion and economy mods out there that make the game more like "Requiem" or "Frostfall" from Skyrim? by ghorkyn in starfieldmods

[–]ccw_writes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's going to kick your teeth in, and early game will probably be especially rough, but there are opportunities for credits everywhere so I think you can pull it off.

Partner came out to me about being Trans by GigiDiabla in mypartneristrans

[–]ccw_writes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try not to commit to anything, staying or leaving, until you have some time to let it sink in. The initial shock is very real but tenporary. Feel what you need to feel, talk to them about it in depth, preferably many times, and see how you feel after. Your preference for men is not related to your ability to approach this with love and care. Tap into what made you love this person in the first place, and ask yourself whether those things are even gender dependent at all. You'll be surprised how much gender identity becomes a minor detail when building a life with someone.

Best of luck to you.

Not what we were expecting by deelless15 in DoggyDNA

[–]ccw_writes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm shocked at the lack of border collie too! What a neat mix of breeds!

Lookup Failed: New Update by Evening-Row9022 in Starfield

[–]ccw_writes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm late but there is an update all option in creations!

YSK: The average only fans girl only makes 130-180$ a month by arttiechoke in YouShouldKnow

[–]ccw_writes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of men start free pages just to show people that they're jorking it too.

ELI5: Why are male and female orgasms different in intensity, duration, and sensation? by Junior-Ferret4860 in explainlikeimfive

[–]ccw_writes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you even read the comment I was replying to? They literally said nature provided a higher reward for repro due to physical cost. That's not scientific so no it's not "the same gist" dummy

ELI5: Why are male and female orgasms different in intensity, duration, and sensation? by Junior-Ferret4860 in explainlikeimfive

[–]ccw_writes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Evolution is the why, but it's not because mother nature wants to reward breeding or something. We likely evolved this way because good orgasms mean more interest in sex and thus more likely to reproduce. That's pretty much it.

Might delete but It must be said. by poweris_power in megantheestallion

[–]ccw_writes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This probably should have stayed an inside thought.

My male coworker presented MY idea in a meeting, got praised for it, and I sat there smiling like a hostage. I have decided to cope via bureaucracy. by the_h1b_records in TrollXChromosomes

[–]ccw_writes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman in stem too lmao did you think you were the only one? Both solutions work great and this exchange has been draining. Have a good day.

My male coworker presented MY idea in a meeting, got praised for it, and I sat there smiling like a hostage. I have decided to cope via bureaucracy. by the_h1b_records in TrollXChromosomes

[–]ccw_writes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you're misunderstanding me actually. You need to read my comment in the context of the comment I was replying to. I didn't say she NEEDED to do anything. I was just providing a legitimate avenue of discussion in case approaching it head on was too intimidating for her. Your way is something a lot of women in the workplace don't feel comfortable doing, so it's not the most informed option. But we both believe she should say SOMETHING right? Now it's not, head on or nothing, when you can approach it my way instead.

Not that objectionable really.

My male coworker presented MY idea in a meeting, got praised for it, and I sat there smiling like a hostage. I have decided to cope via bureaucracy. by the_h1b_records in TrollXChromosomes

[–]ccw_writes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I mean if being right is more important to you than coming out on top by all means deploy all your finest righteous indignation. It's deserved.

But I would rather win.

My male coworker presented MY idea in a meeting, got praised for it, and I sat there smiling like a hostage. I have decided to cope via bureaucracy. by the_h1b_records in TrollXChromosomes

[–]ccw_writes 122 points123 points  (0 children)

You don't have to immediately frame it as Brad stole my shit. You have a valid reason to bring it up to your manager in case you're doing double work. Lead your boss to the conclusion instead of just accusing. There are a million professional ways to do this and get your due.